Does it Make a Difference?

[bollocks]

The ones who want to watch me put on my make up and style my hair for me are fun.
I once let a regular come up before I was dressed and he had so much fun watching me try to struggle into a new outfit and proper stockings and suspenders - not hold ups.
LOL the dressing was put aside for fun instead, he was so patient god love him but I could see he needed fun more then a perfectly put on outfit.

Not sure about a newbie and reviewing, I have seen a review here where the review was bad and the lady replied she had said she was out shopping and had told him that but he said he didn't mind, he wanted to meet Now.

I have never found anything good, about watching a girl put on make up, nor spending ages doing their hair,,,,but then, thats just me

[longtipp]

I dislike that expression so much. Nothing wrong with make up , provided it gives a natural enough look but the main problem is you don't want to be going back to work exhibiting tell tales signs when all you were doing was popping out for a sandwich !

And I dislike makeup, and its not about the tell tale signs you mention. For me its normally a runny nose and a bout of sneezing, followed up by a rash and swollen throat for a few days.

[The Mover]

It's ok Babe :-) It really is.
You just concentrate on giving
a nice attentive slow Blow job.
Think positive and don't be worrying
your pretty head with such things.

[longtipp]

Ah I don't wear that much and even the red lipstick I used to adore has been replaced with a more nude colour. I wouldn't like to have scruffy hair though and wet hair would dry like a scare crow, so it's not just about who you are seeing at the time, but about who you are seeing after, as they don't want to see a scarecrow.

I love a shared shower if the shower is a nice size. I'll just put my hair up in a pony tail to try and stop it getting too wet. The place I used in Belfast has a lovely deep bath too and that can be a lot of fun. It's not that I'm not able to do those things if requested, but there are certain standards and personal expectations. I want to feel sexy, so I can be my best. If sexy to you is what you say then sure, but if it is because I said I'm not ready, then it feels like you just have the horn and your little man is doing the talking, which you may disagree with later. Does that make sense?

Ofcourse you make sense.
With booking at short notice, I know I'm taking the chance of being disapointed at not being able to connect with my preferred lady, dems the risk of not booking ahead. But if I had a confirmed booking a day in advance, I'm afraid I'd wank myself to death thinking about it.

[Petros]

I remember being met once by the escort in 'normal' clothes and being a tad under-whelmed. When having my shower she then slipped into something less comfortable. I was gobsmacked, she looked awesome.

I'm a big lover of 'big hair' on a lady , so wet hair for me would be a downer.

Well, if you like big hair you would have loved her

[Vitruvian]

I advertise from 11am to 8pm. I am not working the whole time. Also this morning I was called an hour before I had started work, so I had just got ready to have a shower and wash my hair. If people call you before your start time, or when you are taking a break or having your lunch you should be ready to work? I don't eat in my work clothes, as I don't want to stain them. I tend to lounge around in something comfortable. When it is a bit cooler I'll wear onesie, because I can snuggle up in it.

If I've just seen a client and I'm tired, I may just take my shower and lounge for a while with the towel on (especially when it is warm like this). I need time to get my breath back and then I'll go check on my make up. I'm not always going to be ready for action. I have a life, sometimes I study. I also don't want to be sitting around in work clothes, because I want to keep them fresh.

Why would you agree to see an Escort if she said she couldn't see you because she wasn't ready and you then told her that was okay, you still wanted to see her? Surely what you mean is if an Escort said she was not ready, you would not make the booking in the first place? Otherwise you would be being very harsh to not see her again, when she had explained to you that she was not ready?

Kate, I did state as a professional escort you should be prepared, I did not mention anything about availability, you did, please do not twist things, it's not nice.
Also as an escort, the choice to except a booking or refuse is yours, not the clients

[Playitsam]

I just love my weekly booking . She just wears her comfy trackie bottoms tight T shirt and pop socks. No make up . I just love that natural wet straight out of shower look.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Kate, I did state as a professional escort you should be prepared, I did not mention anything about availability, you did, please do not twist things, it's not nice.
Also as an escort, the choice to except a booking or refuse is yours, not the clients

Also if you look at the thread it was with reference to clients that attempt to book Escorts with little to no notice and when they refuse due to not being ready, they attempt to persuade them to still see them. It is this scenario that I'm talking about. It seems to me that the only way to make a client like yourself happy is to only answer the phone when you are ready to accept a booking on the spot.

This thread was not meant to be with reference to the Escort with regards to if she is professional, or if she should be ready when someone calls, as much as how the client reacts after pushing an Escort to accept his booking, knowing full well, he has pushed her to see him sooner than she would like to.

We as providers do try to be accommodate where possible and some clients can be very persuasive.

On a personal note some times I stop work if I'm not in a great mood, as in something has upset me. There is no point me projecting my mood on to someone who wants to have some fun, so I may stop work earlier than intended. Last Week I had a few time wasters call me one day and decided I just couldn't be bothered, so I showered and put my normal clothes on and took myself out for some retail therapy. It was later that someone called and I decided to take it, as they came across really nice on the phone and had been recommended by a friend, so felt safe.

I did tell him that I was in my regular clothes and I had drank a glass of wine too, which I would not normally do while working, but I had switched off, as I said. We had a really lovely time together and I don't feel less professional for having done that. I feel human. I didn't have any make up on either, although I did put my heels on to answer the door.

What I'm saying is, that I can relate with girls that do take bookings that they had not intended to take. I'm not like my friend who was never ready, for me it is definitely the exception and not the rule, but we are all occasionally influenced by others and do things we had not intended to do. My question was relating to how the guys reacted after having applied that pressure and got their own way.

Whereas with yourself, I'm thinking you would not apply that pressure in the first place? Which means your answer isn't right, as the lady would have ample time to get ready for you and an Escort who makes no effort when she has time is a totally different thing and not what we are discussing.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I just love my weekly booking . She just wears her comfy trackie bottoms tight T shirt and pop socks. No make up . I just love that natural wet straight out of shower look.

I do think that when you have a regular things are more flexible and as you get to know each other, you both feel more relaxed and comfortable in that way. It's nice when you can be yourself, but not something you would want during the first booking so much? Or would you have been equally as happy?

[willieh]

I understand that some guys prefer to book on impulse and this morning I had a call and was asked if I could see someone, but I said no, as I was just about to take a shower and wash my hair and knew that I needed to style my hair after washing, or it would be a mess. He said that he didn't mind if I just got out the shower and had wet hair, it would still be fun.

Now... this is the thing. For those of you that impulse book and review. Have you ever told the lady that you were cool with seeing her in her normal clothes, or just out the shower, or with no make up on and did it make a difference to the way you reviewed her? Did you not review at all, believing it to be unfair if you felt you couldn't give her the review she likely would have got, or do you review and mark down on appearance, even if she is still attractive, but just not made up or hair done etc? Or do you write the review appreciating that they let you come over at very short notice and enjoyed the more 'natural' look?

Personally unless I have time to get ready and make sure I'm squeaky clean I don't tend to take impulse bookings, although I admit I did once last Week and was just wearing leggings and a top and he still seemed really happy and in a strange way it was lovely to see that someone was attracted to 'normal' me and not 'sexy Kate'. I wouldn't make a habit of it though, as it's a kind of ritual getting ready.

Just to answer the points that you make Kate, it is great to be able to make a call and ask to see someone at short notice. That way the person is either available or they are are not. It beats making a booking for, say the following day or that evening and then for work or family reasons not being able to make it. And in such cases the recipient of the call is less likely to be dealing with a time waster. In such cases how can one complain if she is not "dolled up to the nines".

Casual clothes are great. There are two girls that I see regularly and in such cases they nearly always meet me now (except on special occasions) in casual clothes - but perhaps with sexy lingerie underneath. Sometimes we meet for lunch, dinner or perhaps just coffee and then go back to their place and let things take their natural course. It is nice.