Lads, a question for you guys.....

[Baxter]

There is no doubt about it the no.1 priority for me is personality. You can be the best looking lady on this website but if you don't have any personality then you very quickly become unattractive in my book. Forget about lying there and waiting for me to do my thing , then get up and leave I need a lady who likes to interact through out the hole appointment.
I like a lady who tells me what she likes , asks me what I am into and genuinely likes what she does.

I like to have a laugh and a giggle , plenty of eye contact and french kissing and if she has an amazing pair of legs then i'm happy.

Agree with everything you say, Confucius !

[Meursault]

Thanks for your honest reply.

I thought the mother bit, would be more to do with marriage /girlfriend/wife not when comes to desire/escort, would you fell aroused by a woman who resemble your mother? I don't think so.

I know, I wouldn't fell attractive for a guy who resample my father, just seems weird.maybe that's just me.

the man looks for the traits of his mother in a potential wife in both personality and looks, but to be clear, hes not thinking of his mother when hes with the woman in question. But sub-consciously he is sort of enticed. Its not that she looks the exact same as his mother, but sort of covertly resembles her. The female version is the electra complex and i am not well versed on that to speak about but its on wiki.

This is why i said the married man will go for a different kind of woman when it comes to an escort. Because he already has a particular woman as a wife, he seeks contrast in the escort and thus she can be radically different. It has its foundations in boredom. He is a bored man and needs entertainment. It may get him in trouble, but the desire is strong. The single hasnt got a partner so like you say he may choose anyone, but he may still (or he may not like you say) have preference for a woman who resembles his mother.

You could also throw in a madonna whore complex into the equation as well and that would effect who he chooses

[Sexy Fernanda]

the man looks for the traits of his mother in a potential wife in both personality and looks, but to be clear, hes not thinking of his mother when hes with the woman in question. But sub-consciously he is sort of enticed. Its not that she looks the exact same as his mother, but sort of covertly resembles her. The female version is the electra complex and i am not well versed on that to speak about but its on wiki.

This is why i said the married man will go for a different kind of woman when it comes to an escort. Because he already has a particular woman as a wife, he seeks contrast in the escort and thus she can be radically different. It has its foundations in boredom. He is a bored man and needs entertainment. It may get him in trouble, but the desire is strong. The single hasnt got a partner so like you say he may choose anyone, but he may still (or he may not like you say) have preference for a woman who resembles his mother.

You could also throw in a madonna whore complex into the equation as well and that would effect who he chooses

hun, I'd understand where you are coming from but we are talking mainly about escorts ( desire/sex) .

I suppose guys in general look for the resemble of their mothers in the real world,civil life not when comes to escorts.

[Sexy Fernanda]

There is no doubt about it the no.1 priority for me is personality. You can be the best looking lady on this website but if you don't have any personality then you very quickly become unattractive in my book. Forget about lying there and waiting for me to do my thing , then get up and leave I need a lady who likes to interact through out the hole appointment.
I like a lady who tells me what she likes , asks me what I am into and genuinely likes what she does.

I like to have a laugh and a giggle , plenty of eye contact and french kissing and if she has an amazing pair of legs then i'm happy.

fair play to ya.

Agree with everything you say, Confucius !

[Meursault]

hun, I'd understand where you are coming from but we are talking mainly about escorts ( desire/sex) .

I suppose guys in general look for the resemble of their mothers in the real world,civil life not when comes to escorts.

probably the best looking, coupled with attitude, coupled with price. The escort could also resemble someone they know.

The quality of the pictures of the escort and the reviews would also have an influence i would wager.

There would be a whole range of clientele. Some younger clients would go off with older escorts purely due to Oedipus yearnings. The next time then they may go for someone younger.

The single man is hard to predict because he has the luxury of choice. The married man though i can guarantee goes for a particular escort.

[Baxter]

hun, I'd understand where you are coming from but we are talking mainly about escorts ( desire/sex) .

I suppose guys in general look for the resemble of their mothers in the real world,civil life not when comes to escorts.

[Baxter]

I think for me, I have to feel some real sexual connection. If the girl is pleasant and politely going through the motions that can be fine but the client will think about that after the post booking glow wears off and it will affect his decisions going forward.

[circumcised guy]

There is no doubt about it the no.1 priority for me is personality. You can be the best looking lady on this website but if you don't have any personality then you very quickly become unattractive in my book. Forget about lying there and waiting for me to do my thing , then get up and leave I need a lady who likes to interact through out the hole appointment.
I like a lady who tells me what she likes , asks me what I am into and genuinely likes what she does.

I like to have a laugh and a giggle , plenty of eye contact and french kissing and if she has an amazing pair of legs then i'm happy.

I couldn't have put better myself I'm just lucky that my favorite lady just happens to not only have a smashing personality but she also just happens to be drop dead gorgeous and has the hottest body and especially has a most gorgeous ass! Plus she knows exactly what i like! And i always feel at total ease with her so there good enough reasons for me to keep going back!

[Petros]

happy to hear that but you don't know why you guys has ''clicked'' .

Nope! It just seemed to happen! TBH after the first time I met this lady I didn't think I'd see her again — how wrong I was LOL

Is this lady beautiful? Yes! Does she provide a good service? Yes! But the same could be said for so many other ladies I have met. Have I got something she likes or wants? Has she got something I like or want? I don't know. Is there a scientific method to working out why people "click"?

[Morpheus]

We all have our civil/fantasy lives to which we try to leave separated. I'd at least.(or try to )

Every one of us is on this hobby for different reasons. Single fellas for the hassle of not have to deal with a partner and married guys for the obvious reason,for not getting none at home. Each case has their own reason's , we are almost getting there.

The same way I've my fav's regulars , so do you guys. Some go to the variety but always goes back to the lady who knows how to push your button's.

My question is:

What makes someone to be that special for you?

has to do with looks, service provider, personality,sparkle.etc...I've asked 3 different guys ( of my own) and each of then, gave me a different answer; now I am curious to know yours....

Just been curious...

All the above reasons you've mentioned Fernanda.

It's impossible to put a finger on any one thing. It's the combination of all the above and the interpersonal chemistry that has me going back repeatedly to some special ladies.