Originally Posted by
CurvaceousKate
I suppose it depends on who's perspective you are looking from and the situation. Someone in their early 30's, maybe with a young family. Yes they can start again, although they would miss out on bringing their children up, but they're still young enough to live a good life on their own or find someone new. Is it the same when you get to your 50's or 60's when you have 25+ years history with the same person?
I think it changes hugely as time goes by. I agree that you have to be true to yourself, but then sometimes we can feel guilty for doing the right thing, if we know it's going to hurt someone, so I'm not sure feeling guilty is a good enough reason to alter behaviour. You have to look at at the big picture, way up the pro's and con's and not just look at what you can live with, but what the other people depending on you can live with.
For many seeing an Escort is the best solution and of course being discrete is vital, but certainly not something to be done on a whim.[/
The longer an affair or cheating goes on the more hurt will be caused if found out. Believe me I have been in the middle of 2 people families , threats , also against the other party.
It ended up a horrible situation in courts , divorces , child access problems the lot. Because when it was found out , it was also found out how long it had been going on for. My point , if your having an affair or feel the need to the longer it goes on you have a problem. Visiting escorts is an option. But I remember reading a warning post from I think it was Mature Abby warning people to clear their phones or something it's as simple as that and your caught.
Play with fire and you will get burnt.
And when I was finished my divorce my legal team were moving on to their next one. Both in their sixties and no longer together.