Why does every post we make get construed?

[kassam]

alot of posts are construed on here but there seems to be an agenda, if its not to get attention its to have a go at others at the first opportunity. It will never change.

[Prickly]

Contributing to threads I have noticed that often when an opinion differs from a person it is almost always construed we must be sticking up for a friend?

I really wonder why on earth things are that way has this community come to believe that everything is done in a sheep like manner?

I always enjoy reading a thread where people have different view points so long as its logically discussed I tend to skip through insults and read decent parts of the debate and then add my opinion by no means is my opinion swayed if a so called 'friend' has a differing opinion. Is this so hard to accept that people don't always share the same opinion?

It just gets a bit tiresome being judged because of having an opinion.

I am not ever going to be part of a sheep like arena where I just agree with something or disagree because I have an agenda.

Do any other posters notice this going on and what do you think?
Xxx

You simply can't win on here - unless your aim is to cause trouble.

[Petros]

You simply can't win on here - unless your aim is to cause trouble.

Do you know — as much as I hate to admit it I kind of agree with you there

[Violette]

You simply can't win on here - unless your aim is to cause trouble.

Or kissing ass.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have been on board a few months now and realise there is a lot of history and hurt feelings which lead some to be mean to others here, no way to know who started what.
Shame is no one falls out with a stranger really so the ones fighting were all good friends at some point then fell out.
Best not to get involved once you realise they are fighting over history and not actual current threads.
No kissing and making up just yet.

This is not strictly true. Some people just don't like the way you post and that is all the reason they need. It is that pathetic.

[tomlittle]

seems everyone loves a good argument on here but it does get too personal most of the time

[NoBrain2]

Or kissing ass.

Everyone's kissing someones ass, even those that think they're being controversial are only doing it to be one of the gang.

[Ric Hardgear]

I disagree

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have seen deleted posts which are very frank about why people have fallen out with each other.
Of course it is not Strictly true many shades other then black and white.

Josephine don't believe everything you read. Some people make things up, because they don't have a real reason.

[Dr. Ivory]

There are worse places on the internet. This place is tame, civilised and focused.

We are not Vulcans. No human debate is entirely rational. Humans seek allies and argue ad hominem, that is our way. The good thing about White knights is they are so obvious. If you want to take part in human debate, be like the duck - let the crap pass you by like water off a ducks back. Stick to your own purpose in being here.

Authenticity is something you achieve, not something you are entitled to. Since you are the main beneficiary of it, why should others help you achieve it, except where there happens to be there a spontaneous synchronicity ? And if there was, wouldn't that make you part of the gang again ? Its not all good, but some of it is.