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[Curvaceous Kate]

What is the point of having a list of services if no one actually sticks to them?

I've really had my eyes opened with recent threads where both Escorts and Clients have revealed that they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

Surely it is better to list the things you enjoy doing, but stipulate on your advert that all services are at the lady's discretion, than to allow unexpected or unadvertised acts without consultation? Does that not just lead to confusion and worse still, creates bad practice that could upset another Escort?

All I can say, is no wonder so many clients are confused by what is offered and what they can actually have and what to expect. It is a minefield out there.

At this point I would like to say that all the services I have listed are available at my discretion. However, if it is not there, unless I invite you to do it, please take it that it is not to be done.

[anon361]

What is the point of having a list of services if no one actually sticks to them?

I've really had my eyes opened with recent threads where both Escorts and Clients have revealed that they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

Surely it is better to list the things you enjoy doing, but stipulate on your advert that all services are at the lady's discretion, than to allow unexpected or unadvertised acts without consultation? Does that not just lead to confusion and worse still, creates bad practice that could upset another Escort?

All I can say, is no wonder so many clients are confused by what is offered and what they can actually have and what to expect. It is a minefield out there.

At this point I would like to say that all the services I have listed are available at my discretion. However, if it is not there, unless I invite you to do it, please take it that it is not to be done.

Hahaha, it was a good rant and then you fucked it up with the last statement, giving out that ladies offer services that aren't on their favs list, confusing the client, wondering how are they to know what's acceptable etc and then you turn full swing by answering your own question, IE the lady invites them and basically saying you do some services that aren't on your list at your discretion Sorry, it is a little funny you have to admit

[Petros]

Hahaha, it was a good rant and then you fucked it up with the last statement, giving out that ladies offer services that aren't on their favs list, confusing the client, wondering how are they to know what's acceptable etc and then you turn full swing by answering your own question, IE the lady invites them and basically saying you do some services that aren't on your list at your discretion Sorry, it is a little funny you have to admit

The way I read it it was that the clients were just going ahead and doing things that were not advertised and being allowed to do so by some escorts!

Kate however said if it is not on the list she will either invite the client to do it or at least discuss it!

There is a major difference between the two IMO

they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

[Hypatia]

I think the (quite clear) point is that a service may not be listed, but can be offered by the lady inviting it. This is a very different scenario than "Well, she didn't state this was OK, but things seem to be going well so I'll just try this..."

[MayaX]

What is the point of having a list of services if no one actually sticks to them?

I've really had my eyes opened with recent threads where both Escorts and Clients have revealed that they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

Surely it is better to list the things you enjoy doing, but stipulate on your advert that all services are at the lady's discretion, than to allow unexpected or unadvertised acts without consultation? Does that not just lead to confusion and worse still, creates bad practice that could upset another Escort?

All I can say, is no wonder so many clients are confused by what is offered and what they can actually have and what to expect. It is a minefield out there.

At this point I would like to say that all the services I have listed are available at my discretion. However, if it is not there, unless I invite you to do it, please take it that it is not to be done.

Kate this is a thread for what my friend was say is not nice at all .... If u had any problem with her u was can send her a Pm not to make this thread ... very bad she was say that because maybe with her regular customer she is ok to do it .... is nothing strange

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hahaha, it was a good rant and then you fucked it up with the last statement, giving out that ladies offer services that aren't on their favs list, confusing the client, wondering how are they to know what's acceptable etc and then you turn full swing by answering your own question, IE the lady invites them and basically saying you do some services that aren't on your list at your discretion Sorry, it is a little funny you have to admit

As it happens I don't, if it's not there I don't do it, but since everyone else seems to I was trying to appear to be less harsh by saying that if it is verbally or physically encouraged by the escort, as in she has given her consent, then at least it is given with consent and not just 'gone with the flow' which is full of confusing messages.

It's like the guys that have put their fingers on my bum hole. So many times I have had to ask them to stop and it really pisses me off. I actually don't like it. I wonder what makes them think it is okay to do that. Well... now I know why.

[Rachel Divine]

The way I read it it was that the clients were just going ahead and doing things that were not advertised and being allowed to do so by some escorts!

Kate however said if it is not on the list she will either invite the client to do it or at least discuss it!

There is a major difference between the two IMO

Lol... The client goes ahead and do things? Are you saying, or Kate by that matter, that the client coerces the escort by getting services the lady doesn't advertise?

[Curvaceous Kate]

Kate this is a thread for what my friend was say is not nice at all .... If u had any problem with her u was can send her a Pm not to make this thread ... very bad she was say that because maybe with her regular customer she is ok to do it .... is nothing strange

Maya I don't have a problem with anyone, I have a problem with how mixed messages impact on my life.

It is not something to be talked about in person, I feel this is an important issue that should be debated so people can see both sides and that we are not all the same and we do things differently, so it is wrong to assume that works for one, will work for another.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think the (quite clear) point is that a service may not be listed, but can be offered by the lady inviting it. This is a very different scenario than "Well, she didn't state this was OK, but things seem to be going well so I'll just try this..."

Thank you, that is exactly the point I am trying to make.

[Rachel Divine]

As it happens I don't, if it's not there I don't do it, but since everyone else seems to I was trying to appear to be less harsh by saying that if it is verbally or physically encouraged by the escort, as in she has given her consent, then at least it is given with consent and not just 'gone with the flow' which is full of confusing messages.

It's like the guys that have put their fingers on my bum hole. So many times I have had to ask them to stop and it really pisses me off. I actually don't like it. I wonder what makes them think it is okay to do that. Well... now I know why.

Funny. Did you ever thought is a turn on for him and perhaps the lady he was with previously enjoyed to have it done?

I hate to think some ladies take the business like a robot, do this and that, not allowed to do this and that from the start.

Go with the flow is the best policy, whatever is good for both, escort and client.