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**Rachel Divine** · 10-07-14, 19:52

Originally Posted by Dr. Ivory

There is certainly a logical difference between she does exactly what it says on the tin and she likes to have her cake and eat it. Escorts on this thread are mixing the two. But does that make them wrong ? Don't really think so. If an escort who doesn't advertise anal inspects a guys equipment and thinks 'you know that's about the right size for anal .....' can anyone really tell her she has broken faith with all those guys who didn't get anal ? I grant that it looks incoherent . But its just human. Even escorts are human.

Indeed. Some will stick to what they advertise and do it in a mechanical way, pretending to love it, others will genuine enjoy and if you click, get more pleasure out of it.

**Rachel Divine** · 10-07-14, 19:57

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

What is the point of having a list of services if no one actually sticks to them?

I've really had my eyes opened with recent threads where both Escorts and Clients have revealed that they indulge in non advertised services without prior consultation.

Not a matter of, asking if it's okay to do the non advertised service, but 'going with the flow'. How does a client know it is okay to do the unadvertised service if there is no discussion about it at any point and more importantly, having just done that with one Escort, what is to stop them doing it with another Escort, who may seriously not want to do the services not listed?

Surely it is better to list the things you enjoy doing, but stipulate on your advert that all services are at the lady's discretion, than to allow unexpected or unadvertised acts without consultation? Does that not just lead to confusion and worse still, creates bad practice that could upset another Escort?

All I can say, is no wonder so many clients are confused by what is offered and what they can actually have and what to expect. It is a minefield out there.

At this point I would like to say that all the services I have listed are available at my discretion. However, if it is not there, unless I invite you to do it, please take it that it is not to be done.

Seriously Kate, I see anon361's point.

**kyla** · 10-07-14, 20:00

favorites ... may be as services included in the rate and some may be extra . or if is not the case you can't blame a girl for doing some services with a client that she likes and not doing the same with one that is not that conformable as another , this thing with the favourite is a bit tricky cos u might enjoy something but not with everybody . and staying just with a list u can do so and not so is a bit mechanical i would say ...
the job we do, escorts, is a job that you must enjoy from my point of view you go with the flow .... if you do it like a list u do so ...touch here and here but not there it means you should give up, do something else ( from my point of view - and is general not said to someone specific )

**weeschmoo** · 10-07-14, 20:02

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

As it happens I don't, if it's not there I don't do it, but since everyone else seems to I was trying to appear to be less harsh by saying that if it is verbally or physically encouraged by the escort, as in she has given her consent, then at least it is given with consent and not just 'gone with the flow' which is full of confusing messages.

It's like the guys that have put their fingers on my bum hole. So many times I have had to ask them to stop and it really pisses me off. I actually don't like it. I wonder what makes them think it is okay to do that. Well... now I know why.

Originally Posted by anon361

As I said the rant was good but how can you think she clarified things by saying all services LISTED are at her discretion, pretty clear, then she says if it not listed (here's the punchline) unless I invite you to do it, does that not imply occasionally she does actually invites services off the fav list, if it doesn't why say it all all, why not be categorically clear, I don't do anything not on my fave list. Now remind me again, wasn't the main point that girls offer services not on her fave list. That's why I find it funny and it's nothing against who's saying it.

Are you being deliberately obtuse or just incredibly dense?

**Petros** · 10-07-14, 20:03

Originally Posted by anon361

As I said the rant was good but how can you think she clarified things by saying all services LISTED are at her discretion, pretty clear, then she says if it not listed (here's the punchline) unless I invite you to do it, does that not imply occasionally she does actually invites services off the fav list, if it doesn't why say it all all, why not be categorically clear, I don't do anything not on my fave list. Now remind me again, wasn't the main point that girls offer services not on her fave list. That's why I find it funny and it's nothing against who's saying it.

When I began reading Kates post her first point was that she was under the impression (rightly or wrongly) that some escorts allowed clients to "go with the flow" and proceed to do things that were not on a favourites list without even asking!

Her closing statement said that she may invite clients to try something that she may not advertise. The point being that she invites! These are two completely different ways of doing things.

**Rachel Divine** · 10-07-14, 20:07

Originally Posted by Petros

When I began reading Kates post her first point was that she was under the impression (rightly or wrongly) that some escorts allowed clients to "go with the flow" and proceed to do things that were not on a favourites list without even asking!

Her closing statement said that she may invite clients to try something that she may not advertise. The point being that she invites! These are two completely different ways of doing things.

allow - invite

What is this, playing with words?

I do not need to tell the customer, finger me, by allowing him to do so, is itself an invitation.

**Rachel Divine** · 10-07-14, 20:09

Originally Posted by kyla

favorites ... may be as services included in the rate and some may be extra . or if is not the case you can't blame a girl for doing some services with a client that she likes and not doing the same with one that is not that conformable as another , this thing with the favourite is a bit tricky cos u might enjoy something but not with everybody . and staying just with a list u can do so and not so is a bit mechanical i would say ...
the job we do, escorts, is a job that you must enjoy from my point of view you go with the flow .... if you do it like a list u do so ...touch here and here but not there it means you should give up, do something else ( from my point of view - and is general not said to someone specific )

Kate's clients need a written permission to touch and so on.

**kyla** · 10-07-14, 20:16

Originally Posted by Rachel Divine

Kate's clients need a written permission to touch and so on.

hope not otherwise i feel sorry for both parties

**Rachel Divine** · 10-07-14, 20:17

Originally Posted by kyla

hope not otherwise i feel sorry for both parties

Is her choice , don't be sorry.

**Lucy Chambers** · 10-07-14, 20:19

This thread is hilarious. Rednecks unite?

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