thanks for all the comments and kind words
I had already PMed her to, at the very least, apologise if I had done something wrong on the phone...she is actually very established on here, and has really good reputation, thats why I wanted to see her...
Its grand anyway, not a big deal, just going to feel a bit more self conscious the next time I call up a girl
I was calling from indoors, thought it was quiet enough where I was calling from....I hope I don't sound dodgy, I'm pretty harmless
....I wonder if it would help in future to PM first to establish the connection before ringing?....also to warn them of my dodgy foreign accent!
Do any girls have a preference for first contact? PM or phone? Sometimes when I PM I get no response at all...