Getting Caught

[godeeper]

If you had bothered to read the thread you would have seen my earlier post where I explained that my wife is not interested in any kind of physical contact, from kissing to sex. I have tried many different ways ( not just a quick poke last thing at night) but she is not interested. You make an awful lot of asumptions, such as I do not care for my wife, or I deprive her of sex, neither of these are true. I would be interested in hearing about your experience of a long term relationship, and how you keep your partner interested.

I talk to my partner. I tell her how important she is to me. I tell her how beautiful she is. I kiss her and caress her all over. I lick and suck her pussy until she has an orgasm, then I slip in for a nice fuck with a very wet and very receptive woman. It is really very simple, it just needs a little effort.

[Jiberjabber]

im not married thats the difference

Which makes it all the easier to stand on the sidelines and cast judgement, no?

[Stephanie]

I talk to my partner. I tell her how important she is to me. I tell her how beautiful she is. I kiss her and caress her all over. I lick and suck her pussy until she has an orgasm, then I slip in for a nice fuck with a very wet and very receptive woman. It is really very simple, it just needs a little effort.

So what the heck you doing on an Escort website ???

Nice an' easy like ???

[godeeper]

So what the heck you doing on an Escort website ???

Nice an' easy like ???

Because I am self-centred and I love women.

[Stephanie]

I talk to my partner. I tell her how important she is to me. I tell her how beautiful she is. I kiss her and caress her all over. I lick and suck her pussy until she has an orgasm, then I slip in for a nice fuck with a very wet and very receptive woman. It is really very simple, it just needs a little effort.

By that description you sound like a lovely lover !!

-- except for the fact that you're hanging out on an Escort website -- which leads me to speculate that either

1. You're making up the above , or

2. You're unsatisfied with your seemingly wonderful partner ,

3. You have a cheating heart and no matter who or what , you shall remain a cheater and a lie , or

4. You're a Troll xx



Which one is it ?

[godeeper]

By that description you sound like a lovely lover !!

-- except for the fact that you're hanging out on an Escort website -- which leads me to speculate that either

1. You're making up the above , or

2. You're unsatisfied with your seemingly wonderful partner ,

3. You have a cheating heart and no matter who or what , you shall remain a cheater and a lie , or

4. You're a Troll xx



Which one is it ?

I am a cheater, a liar and just about anything else bad that you can say in that regard. I just do not deprive my partner of an enjoyable sex life in order to justify my cheating.

[Stephanie]

I am a cheater, a liar and just about anything else bad that you can say in that regard. I just do not deprive my partner of an enjoyable sex life in order to justify my cheating.

So why do you cheat ? (I'm not being judgmental , simply intrigued) .

If you get all the 'goods' at home , why stray ?

xx

[godeeper]

So why do you cheat ? (I'm not being judgmental , simply intrigued) .

If you get all the 'goods' at home , why stray ?

xx

Because I have always enjoyed the company of different women. Every woman is unique and intriguing. I have never managed to be faithful for any great length of time. 'Bad to the bone' is an expression that comes to mind.

[justfrank44]

Keep going man. Convincing yourself your doing the right thing. Just admit it, sex is your weakness. To reiterate, if you really cared about your wife and her feelings, you would not cheat on her. Go and see any psychologist and tell them you cheat on your wife to maintain this illusion you call marriage. I doubt they will advocate your method. Dont take it personal man, i dont know you and you dont know me. But i am stating the facts as they are. You have placed sexual gratification above the feelings of your wife. That is what it boils down to. There must be countless men in your predicament who remain faithful to their wives, because thats what they said they would do when they took their vows. If you dont want to uphold your end, dont sign it or get divorced.

Please go and get a life, when you do you will see that things are never that simple, or black and white. You have no idea about the feelings that my wife and I have for each other, you have no idea why I visit escorts, yet you sit and judge on your moral high ground. To be honest , I couldn't be bothered trying to explain this to you anymore, you have your own agenda so go ahead and keep taking your shots, you just don't know how wrong you are.

[EIFII]

So put your penny in xx

Educate and inform , broaden others' horizon by relating experience or opinion !!

How can others learn if not by being told and shown ?

xxx

Because certain others do not want to learn, merely bang a drum. My private life and reasons for my behaviour and decisions are exactly that, a private life. Not a freak show for others to misinterpret, ridicule, draw wrong conclusions based on completely wrong or biased assumptions.
Meursault's replies to Justfrank's thoughtful input would justify me in my reticence, I think....