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[Dr. Ivory]

Her story, true or false, confronts you with the moral character of your actions, something you don't get to choose. You only choose the action, while the moral character of the action is determined both by your choice and what the social context makes of your choice.

You hesitate to write a review because the moral turpitude into which society has cast your actions is made evident to you by knowingly, objectively assessing the performance of another human being forced into the trade by economic necessity.

I don't wish to be cruel. But do you really think for a moment that the comforts of your European life are not built on the hunger and suffering of others outside this spoilt continent ?

Your hesitation is a credit to your conscience and an indictment of your perspicacity.

[Petros]

Let's assume the story is true! This lady is trying her best to provide for her mother. When she says this the only option she sees that will provide for her mother and she has opted to go down this route why would you not support her by deciding not to leave a review?

If you were happy with the service you received surely it would be nice to let the lady know this and in turn possibly help her gain more business because of your review!

The other option would be not to leave a review and in turn she may think she is sh!t at what she is doing even though she is trying her best. If everyone thought like that she would have no reviews and probably have very few clients into the bargain and so despite having made the effort to get into this business to try and help her sick mother she would still not be able to provide for her!

That in my opinion would be worse! At least if she is making money the end will justify the means and her efforts whether she likes doing this or not will have been worth it!

[longtipp]

Over the years I've met a number of parttime & fulltime escorts, that said they were escorting for various financial reasons, mortgage, rent, medical bills, food on table, support family, education costs, school uniforms/books, communion dresses, even holiday costs. One lady I used to see regularly, did it because it was the only way she could earn more than her childminder. For any of those reasons, I'm happy to help out. What I don't want to support is drug use, pimping, coercion or voilence.

[Rachel Divine]

On a different note, you guys put too much weight on your own review.

As there are profiles opting out of the rev system and I imagine those ladies do get work , otherwise those profiles would not be up the next week, surely, no reviews makes no difference to many guys.

[amylove69]

Having just looked at your proile I see that you have not left her a review ,, which I believe it the correct thing at this stage as im sure who ever she is would not appreciate everyone on here, after reading this thread to know her personal cercumstances to which she confided in you. I for one would not be best pleased