This thread is about me phoning 6 escorts and discovering that they do not offer the services listed.Originally Posted by bluefan1
As I have already stated I did not ask to cane and of these escorts.
You have taken a quote from my profile that is not relevant to those calls or this thread.
Your attempt to make me out to be a liar has failed and you have only exposed your lack of attention to detail and your inability to read properly.
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If anyone finds beating a woman even lightly I would advise you seek professional help....and quickly.
I have lived a life of regrets.
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That's your request in plain English. The forum can judge who's lying.
Safe words only work if adhered to. I've counselled young victims of caning - and seen the damage, physical and emotional. If you want to play rough go somewhere where everyone knows the game......
I Read all your reviews and you clearly like to get girls who are unsuspecting or at least inexperienced - the words are your own. Even a Sociologist should have no difficulty understanding your game. 30 years "on the spanking scene", eh? And yet you're on an escort forum looking for a little sadism. Odd that too.
Post a picture of a woman's rear after 'a proper 12 stroke caning' and we'll see how many are queuing up to receive your 'little bit extra'.
By the way education is only a good thing if you've a mind to embrace it. Verbal diarrhoea is just shite - and you need to spend more time on the toilet than on here smelling the place up with your verbose nonsense.
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I'm amazed you could get 6 ladies to answer their phones.
You really are thick.
I phoned 6 girls today and I did not ask to cane any of them. That is what is relevant to the thread.
Something you have failed to understand twice
What has your alleged counselling got to do with this?
I do not believe for a second you have ever counselled anyone.
Who were these 'young victims'? How did they become victims of caning and even if it was true what has it got to do with me?
It seems to me you are the one with the problem being unable to tell the difference between fantasy and reality.
You cant tell the difference between role play with a safe word and abuse.
Who says I don't adhere to safe words? (only you)
How do I clearly like to get girls who are inexperienced?
Many accusations and no evidence
The girl in the picture on my profile is called Emma and that is her after a caning. If you look closely you can see a light cane stripe.
No bruising and no welts.
There are different types of canes made of different types of materials but you probably didn't know that either.
How much it marks (or indeed does not mark) depends heavily on the technique and force used.
A proper caning does not mean severe thrashing.
As to your last comment.
How would you know?
My last words....
How could any of the women you phoned for a first appointment, have any faith that you would adhere to the safe-word process? What form of re-assurance did you intend to offer them? You can call me all the names in the world and throw insults my way as you please. It'll never be my arse on the line! A violent fetish requires expressed and informed consent from both parties. I have at all times directed you and others to read your words and have not speculated once.
So,let me leave it with this observation: In one of your own reviews, you actually apologise to the escort. I
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From a girl :
"I really hope this review wont disappoint anyone who is looking for girlfriend experience, as the above comments doesn't regard any of these matters. What is the reviewer above wanted to have with me is a hardcore SM session, causing me pain, without him having the proper expertise in the matter. However, when he made the booking he never mentioned anything about his plans, and he had no special request. This "gentleman" made a half an hour booking, we arranged the donation then he asked for "spanking". What happened after, without any further initiation he started to beat me as a ginger stepchild which was really painful, even though I took it for a while, after several minutes, naturally I asked him to stop. I should have done it earlier and send him away but upsetting a violent person in the middle of the night didn't seemed like a good idea either. Very true, I was frightened and was relieved when the session ended.
I never had a problem with a little playful slapping in the heat of the moment, especially not when I know exactly what to expect. Upon making the booking this man never mentioned anything about SM, Im sure we could have avoided this otherwise, a half an hour session or any session with a stranger does not contain this by any means.
I dared to advertise "spanking" and "submission" as one of my services as on earlier occasions I met a few great men who had the right experience and I have been initiated to a few SM session before and all of them took several hours whilst pain and pleasure was in a great balance, and I cherish those exotic experiences.
I would suggest to anyone who wants to spice up the " vanilla " normal sweet appointments with a hint of extreme, first get the proper knowledge to do so..and most importantly, make sure you prepare your partner. Other important element, that these appointments are about pleasure, not causing pain and humiliating the other person, even if it doesn't seems like it always, these things are based on trust.
The slightly higher than average price reflects 4/5 star hotel or apt accommodation, designer lingerie and the fact that I only see a limited number of clients a day, and no, it doesn't mean that you free to do whatever you want. Im a women and the better you treat me the better it gets. I dare you to come back and take back your money because I really don't need it from such person."
From a Client Request of the person the girl above responded to :
"Also and although I don't expect many takers on this, I would pay a bit extra for any girls willing to take a proper 12 stroke caning"
I have posted on my own joy of otk many a times before.
I also have said many a times that I would never allow a stranger such power over me: Such things require trust.
You don't get to just just waltz in the door waving an hourly fee and have a go at it !
When done right , it's a process : of learning , of exploring , of pushing some boundaries.
Also : I get compensated way over my stated rate --- for my and his pleasure. (1200e for two hrs.)
What that signifies to me is his appreciation not only of my time , but also of my willingness to trust ,
and to allow him access to such recesses of my soul. It truly is special ; precious , dare I say.
Those who know me , who visit regularly , have seen the occasional marks on my bum -- which I cherish.
On the other side , quite opposed to my own experience ,
this person mentioned in the above review seems to be looking for quick brutal thrills at a cut throat price.
That said , listing Submissive and Spanking in the same advert can give legitimate grounds for a misunderstanding .
Imo.
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Last edited by Stephanie; 24-06-14 at 00:11.
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I don't know you ; pass no judgement either way -- how could I ?? And why should I ??
But : girls do check profiles and posts and reviews before accepting a booking.
It is possible that your posting history or reviews may have put some off -- though I admit , I am only speculating on this x
OR , alternately : they just clicked favourites without knowing what they entailed , or in a worse scenario , to bait .
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You could ask how any escort meeting any client for the first time would know what to expect
When you meet an escort for the first time what reassurance do you give?
Violent fetish? I think you are prejudice in the extreme and borderline delusional.
Like any fetish spanking is what the participants make it.
Anal could be a violent fetish so could oral, it depends on the technique.
You have assumed and speculated repeatedly on a subject you obviously know nothing about.
You have jumped to conclusions and made assumptions on everything from how hard I spank and or cane to the level of control the submissive has.
You cant tell the difference between fantasy and reality and don't appear to have any concept of Role play.
You assume I want to cane every girl I meet, where as the truth is I let the girls bring up the subject of the cane thereby only engaging in that type of activity with the genuinely curious.
I do not dispute that spanking requires consent from both parties and never have.
I go out of my way to be up front and explain what I require to the point of trying to put escorts off.
Oh and the escort I apologised to for giving the red bum is keen as mustard, has met me half a dozen times and eggs me on by asking is that all you have got.
I apologised for giving her a red bum because she had to delay meeting one of her other clients not out of any sense of guilt for abuse.
I think I must be pretty friendly with that escort her because I know her real name and have her personal phone number.
She has also done a few favours for me that are not related to sex or spanking.
Anyway back to your posts, tell us again all about how you "counselled young victims of caning"
Who are these victims?
When did this abuse take place?
Did the abusers get prosecuted?
How long have you been a counsellor?
How did you end up counselling them?
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I have already said this girl was upset I gave her a bad review.
Her statement is not true and is malicious.
I can not prove this but I still have the nasty messages and threats she sent me.
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