Why list services in your favourites you do not offer?

[Belfast123]

So I have just phoned 6 escorts one after the other all of who have spanking advertised in their favourites and all of who have submissive advertised in their favourites.

Not one of them receives spanking.

Now I know spanking could mean giving or taking (and I believe there should be an extra check box for each) but submissive is pretty clear so why do girls check the submissive box if they don't provide ANY submissive services and I know in at least two of these cases (because I just asked them) don't even know what spanking or submissive means.

All but one asked to spank me (and that is the opposite of what I am looking) and all just hung up when I asked why they advertise services they don't really offer.

The point is because they have pretty much lied on their advert page both their time and mine has been wasted.

[tomlittle]

Its just used to grab your attention in most cases, tick all the favourites boxes but don't offer them or charge extra.
Its always been the case.

[bluefan1]

So I have just phoned 6 escorts one after the other all of who have spanking advertised in their favourites and all of who have submissive advertised in their favourites.

Not one of them receives spanking.

Now I know spanking could mean giving or taking (and I believe there should be an extra check box for each) but submissive is pretty clear so why do girls check the submissive box if they don't provide ANY submissive services and I know in at least two of these cases (because I just asked them) don't even know what spanking or submissive means.

All but one asked to spank me (and that is the opposite of what I am looking) and all just hung up when I asked why they advertise services they don't really offer.

The point is because they have pretty much lied on their advert page both their time and mine has been wasted.

So, you actually thought that a woman, who had never met you before, would submit themselves to a beating? Seriously?

I see you also offer a 'bit extra' for a "proper" 12 stroke caning.

Its not listed as 'giving' or 'receiving' but as spankin as it's implied......

What sane Escort will consider this practice without knowing the client well and without the strictest guidelines being in place before such a meeting? It's a very special and rare fetish so you need to go to were the service is provided. I also would imagine they'd want a good 'bit extra' before having their bodies marked for your pleasure....Wise the fuck up.

[Davidontour]

While 'spanking' probably refers to giving rather than recieving, I do find the word 'submissive' in favourites a bit of a mystery. The term can cover anything from letting the client instigate sex to full-on CP and bondage and could be potentially dangerous for the escort if not clarified beforehand.

Can any escort who lists it explain what they mean by the term?

[Belfast123]

I did not ask to give a caning.
Spanking is spanking not a 'beating' within the localised meaning.
Spanking turns the bum red but does not leave any permanent marks.
I would think it would be less painful than anal.

You could also say what sane woman would meet up with a stranger for sex

Is it a rare fetish?
Only as much as any other fetish.
I would go to where the service is provided if I knew where that was and that is the point.

Also why do you need to swear at me keyboard warrior

[Petite Jolie]

I did not ask to give a caning.
Spanking is spanking not a 'beating' within the localised meaning.
Spanking turns the bum red but does not leave any permanent marks.
I would think it would be less painful than anal.

You could also say what sane woman would meet up with a stranger for sex

Is it a rare fetish?
Only as much as any other fetish.
I would go to where the service is provided if I knew where that was and that is the point.

Also why do you need to swear at me keyboard warrior

You made a point saying that spanking is not beating,and if everybody have it clear,is much easier to understand that is something that can turn you on,wile you are having sex.And can turn on both with is better

[bluefan1]

I did not ask to give a caning.
Spanking is spanking not a 'beating' within the localised meaning.
Spanking turns the bum red but does not leave any permanent marks.
I would think it would be less painful than anal.

You could also say what sane woman would meet up with a stranger for sex

Is it a rare fetish?
Only as much as any other fetish.
I would go to where the service is provided if I knew where that was and that is the point.

Also why do you need to swear at me keyboard warrior

I used the swear words for emphasis. I'd hoped it would work, obviously not, but I do regret causing you any pain.

Spanking is a physical beating so the intensity of the pain is dependent on who's delivering it. The recipient in your request - over your knee - is in no position to control the situation. Read your own reviews to see how some escorts respond to you!


This is specialist activity and well you know it, so you need to go to experienced practitioners. Try doing some proper research.

[bluefan1]

I did not ask to give a canin

g.

Even more reason why an escort would have to be very trusting of you!!!

I would pay a bit extra for any girls willing to take a proper 12 stroke caning

Last edited by Belfast123; 18-06-14 at 17:09. Reason: typo

[Davidontour]

I used the swear words for emphasis. I'd hoped it would work, obviously not, but I do regret causing you any pain.

Spanking is a physical beating so the intensity of the pain is dependent on who's delivering it. The recipient in your request - over your knee - is in no position to control the situation. Read your own reviews to see how some escorts respond to you!


This is specialist activity and well you know it, so you need to go to experienced practitioners. Try doing some proper research.

I do have to agree with Bluefan1 here. Having regularly visited a domme as a submissive, inflicting pain is a specialised area and there is a very fine line to be drawn. Getting it right requires considerable trust and while there a (very) few ladies who openly welcome CP, it isn't something that most escorts would or should consider recieving from a stranger, regardless of money offered.

I have noticed several ladies including the term 'submissive' in their favourites and do often wonder if they realise the full ramifications. For proper boundaries to be established and real physical & psychological trauma to be avoided, I believe a long-term relationship involving trust and communication has to be established for this type of activity.

[Belfast123]

I used the swear words for emphasis. I'd hoped it would work, obviously not, but I do regret causing you any pain.

Spanking is a physical beating so the intensity of the pain is dependent on who's delivering it. The recipient in your request - over your knee - is in no position to control the situation. Read your own reviews to see how some escorts respond to you!


This is specialist activity and well you know it, so you need to go to experienced practitioners. Try doing some proper research.

Your lack of imagination and limited vocabulary is noted. I truly feel sorry for you in that you have to resort to swear words for 'emphasis'. This speaks volumes as to you education and character.

As to the review you mention, the escort in question is telling lies.
It is not spin or the story from her point of view it is a lie.
The reason she is telling those lies is I gave her a bad review, she took this very badly.
Indeed I got many, many text messages from this lady. These harassing texts only stopped after the intervention by someone from escort Ireland (for which I am grateful)
I could not respond to her comments and was also unable to go into details in the review.

As to the recipient not being in a position to control the situation you are wrong.
When this type of session is done correctly (and I do know how to do it correctly) it is the submissive in control of the session.
When the submissive or spankee says 'stop' the session stops. This is known as a safeword.
This is the difference between fantasy and reality also known as play and lifestyle.

I do not feel the need to do any research as I have a degree in sociology and the thirty years experience in the spanking scene.

What I do take exception to is your attitude, one that unfortunately I have seen all to often before.
It is on born out of ignorance and prejudice with an additive of sexual repression or is it catholic guilt?
This type of forum, one dedicated to escorting, is not where I would have expected to discover this type of attitude.

I am also open to the possibility that you may have hero syndrome. Unfortunately for you I am not the bad guy and the escorts being the strong willed, independent and intelligent women they are do not need saving.

You have asserted spanking is 'specialist' and 'rare' with no evidence.
I disagree and suggest (just for one example out of many) that the sales of the 50 shades of grey book and its' sequels might suggest there is more interest in the subject than you believe.