Originally Posted by
Snuffleupagus
SM isn't my thing but I've a fair number of friends into the fetish scene and I've got to say, the OP is way out of line with his expectations, trust is essential and no one in their right mind would put themselves in that kind of situation with a complete stranger. Maybe a rating system would work ok but really he'd be far better getting involved with the fetish scene and developing the mutual trust needed, do it well and he could find himself going to places he's never even dreamed of.