Quote Originally Posted by bluefan1 View Post
I used the swear words for emphasis. I'd hoped it would work, obviously not, but I do regret causing you any pain.

Spanking is a physical beating so the intensity of the pain is dependent on who's delivering it. The recipient in your request - over your knee - is in no position to control the situation. Read your own reviews to see how some escorts respond to you!


This is specialist activity and well you know it, so you need to go to experienced practitioners. Try doing some proper research.
I do have to agree with Bluefan1 here. Having regularly visited a domme as a submissive, inflicting pain is a specialised area and there is a very fine line to be drawn. Getting it right requires considerable trust and while there a (very) few ladies who openly welcome CP, it isn't something that most escorts would or should consider recieving from a stranger, regardless of money offered.

I have noticed several ladies including the term 'submissive' in their favourites and do often wonder if they realise the full ramifications. For proper boundaries to be established and real physical & psychological trauma to be avoided, I believe a long-term relationship involving trust and communication has to be established for this type of activity.