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    Why do so few girls reply to PM's here? Is it because there are a high number of timewasters. Often wondered as I would have a reply rate of around 20%. Maybe it's just me!

    I would PM and text a lot as a conversation while sitting at work isn't always possible. As a rule though if I don't get a reply by text or PM I won't visit as I feel if the effort can't be made to reply to a message it would not be a good sign for the potential appointment!

    Am I alone with this problem or is it common? Are there genuine reasons why girls wouldn't reply?

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    Happens to me too.If I don't get a reply to PM I generally don't send another one and escort gets a "black mark"!

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    I found quite early on that most of my PMs, however polite, were simply ignored and in one case I recieved an answer several weeks later. As a result, I phoned first to make an appointment and then PM'd with some details of what I'd like to happen. Again, even though I'd said on the phone I would PM, the message was often ignored.

    It suggested to me that certain ladies simply want to put through the numbers while others want to nurture a regular client. It does make sense that for a probable 30 minute appointment, many ladies don't want to spend a lot of time PMing and of course many clients will only ever visit once. It's one more reason why I prefer mature ladies as they will often take the time to do groundwork and in my case merit repeat visits by doing so.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shoots scores75 View Post
    Why do so few girls reply to PM's here?
    In many cases the girls may not log on here very often and so don't see the PM until it is to late!
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    I do reply to pm's IF I am working, if I'm not then I'm very rarely online. As for texts, I have an innate dislike of them & ignore them completely, I do state on my profile not to text. I never accept any business without a mobile number so at some stage you will have to ring me.

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    I would always ring to make arrangements of course but I would often use a PM to maybe clarify some details. Are the girls aware that its not always possible for a client to make calls?

    I also accept that there's no point sending a PM at a time the gir l is not working but at the same time, there shouldn't be the option to PM during the girls hours if she is going to ignore it. It kinda demonstrates bad manners which reflects on any potential appointment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KellyCurvybabe View Post
    for my own personal safety I only meet clients that have taken the time to give me a quick call, I can then judge within in a few seconds if I feel safe and would like to see you or not using my ultra hoedar
    This is interesting for me - I usually make first contact via PM. That way I thought the lady could check me out on here and would have a better idea of who I was rather than me phoning out of the blue.

    I do always call as well to confirm the details.
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    I suppose from a punters perspective if I ask a question and it's ignored then you shouldn't be surprised if they think that's rude. Obviously I wouldn't know how many PMs a girl receives in a day.

    But if 99% of PMs are a waste of time then I can see why you don't reply. I should be positive though as getting no reply must have saved me a couple of grand over the last few years!

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    Quote Originally Posted by shoots scores75 View Post
    Why do so few girls reply to PM's here? Is it because there are a high number of timewasters. Often wondered as I would have a reply rate of around 20%. Maybe it's just me!

    I would PM and text a lot as a conversation while sitting at work isn't always possible. As a rule though if I don't get a reply by text or PM I won't visit as I feel if the effort can't be made to reply to a message it would not be a good sign for the potential appointment!

    Am I alone with this problem or is it common? Are there genuine reasons why girls wouldn't reply?
    Yes I agree but I do also see the Escorts point of view (I assume) ie. Time wasting, cost of texting based on the % of time wasters & I assume an Escort would by the "Same Token" say "Well if Ur that interested then just pick up the phone & spend 3minuets talking" .... if a question I sometimes feel does not always reflect the actual nature of the texter so I would imagine the Escort see it as a "6 of this & half a dozen of the other" so when in doubt "leave it out" ....... but having said that I do like an Escort to respond to text or PM even just to say "Sod Off & ring me" ..........

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    Its a tough one. I have found some escorts good at replying and others terrible. I normally try to make contact on phone and then PM to confirm etc, but what I find amusing is an escort who says PM's get priority, and then doesn’t reply.............

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