Paying an escort after a session.

[circumcised guy]

I think it's always best to pay at the beginning but there was one occasion when i almost forgot to pay. I was with a lady that i've seen a few times and we started with a drink and a chat and only when it was time to take a shower i relished i hadn't paid her yet. When i apologized and said i'd give to her then she said i could pay after and said she trusted me. I jokingly said i knew i wouldn't get out alive if i tried it she laughingly said u know it baby. As sweet as she sounded believe me i would never try it!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Kate, you do realise that I was being a bit sardonic, don't you; playing the Devil's Advocate? I'd like to think that I understand the reasons for pay-in-advance—and I always do—but isn't it odd, that full payment is required before you know what you're getting? You might have to pay a lawyer something in advance, a sort of deposit to show your bona fides, but you don't normally have to pay upfront for the totally of the services. It's quite understandable, but it's something that makes escorting quite different from other professions—where a profession is defined as a service that isn't paid on the basis of the hours worked, which would be "salaried" or "wage earning". (And the other thing that makes escorting unusual amongst the professions is the legal requirement to work alone.)

There are lots of thing different with Escorting. For one it's not deemed as a real job, so the service you are getting isn't real, which means actually you're paying for nothing, which of course is ludicrous, as nothing can't make you feel the way a good Escort can.

I guess if we had the normal rights of regular workers, then we could take payment afterwards, as we would be protected, but that is not the case and we do have the threat of people taking advantage of the fact we tend not to be well clothed at the end of the booking and not in a position to chase after someone who decides to walk without paying. We can't exactly shout, 'Stop thief!' without giving ourselves away to the neighbours.

[whirlwind]

I usually pay an escort just after I arrive so she doesn't have to ask to me. However, there are 4 or 5 of my regular escorts who don't need to ask as they (rightfully I suppose) trust that I will do the decent thing and pay them for the time and companionship they are providing.

For instance this week here in Galway I visited an old friend and she jumped me so quickly after I entered her apartment that we had pretty much done the deed before we even had time to make conversation.

She was in such a rush to meet her friend for coffee that it was only when we were both hastily getting redressed that it occurred to me that I hadn't paid her yet. She's cool about it though.

not much of a friend if she rushed the whole appointment for a coffee anyway

[Empirical]

...we don't sell cucumber here ...

I just knew I was going wrong somewhere...

(I don't like cucumber.)

[Colly747]

I guess she trusts you...don't knock it...and yes you have something unique...or maybe she lives you...!

[Colly747]

Yep...sounds great ...!

[Colly747]

...but it wouldn't be a thief...you have an agreement and once the money is handed over then many times the service is not delivered...then who is the thief.. .??...actually...I am curious ...would you want regulation and rights of "normal" workers...surely you would lose on taxes and many other benefits... .

[PunterJoe]

The only thing I've ever paid after an appointment is a compliment.

No money, no honey.

[major walker]

I always put the money in an envelope and hand it to the lady I am visiting as soon as possible .

[nextdoorguy]

best to hand over at the begining so everyione can relax and enjoy