Referrals?

[Curvaceous Kate]

I understand the need but tad disadvantageous to a nervous first timer. Not to mention the fact I don't have a "refferal" in whatever form that is.

What if I was to ring you and say "yes I'm been with (insert escorts name)", would I get the booking or would it be a case of you contacting said escort and then ringing back? If so, what's to stop me rhyming off a whole pile of escorts?

What is a referral and how does one get one?

Hi Tony, I was going to answer this anyway due to another poster had asked, but I'll take it from here.

Most of the time personally I'm working in a place where I am happy to see 'newbies' with 30 mins notice or before they have to start out, if they live further away. That way, if they do not come over, I've only wasted a short period of time. Most new clients will be able to book ladies like this.

If a client wants to pre-book, arrange a dinner date, an over night booking or an out call, I do generally ask for a referral. You can tell the lady that you have left a review on EI and where to look for it and she can check you out there, or you can say who you have met and if she knows that lady, then yes she will contact her and ask if you met. It's normally very straight forward and a simple, 'yes he is fine' kind of reply, nothing more than that.

Then with your permission I will text you to let you know the booking can go ahead, or I will wait for you to call back at an arranged time and tell you then.

Obviously if the referral is not used properly, then it's useless and of no help to the lady. It might be that there is no reply from the lady in question. I had that happen recently, but the client called 30 mins before the booking to confirm and I decided to go ahead, as him confirming was positive, plus there is a little gut instinct in there too, so that doesn't mean it would always go ahead with confirmation.

[oneeyedreilly]

Is it not the same as a punter taking a chance with a lady that has no reviews. You have to take a chance and see what happens, most ladies have a good view of the punter as he approaches and can get an idea of what they are like. I don't think it would work if every new punter had to bring a reference, where would the newbies start!!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Is it not the same as a punter taking a chance with a lady that has no reviews. You have to take a chance and see what happens, most ladies have a good view of the punter as he approaches and can get an idea of what they are like. I don't think it would work if every new punter had to bring a reference, where would the newbies start!!

I'm not saying every client should provide a referral, but in this case he wanted me to do an out call. The time before that it was a client who wanted a pre-booking.

It is not quite the same as a client taking a punt on a lady with no reviews, as you are not likely to find the Escort is really a police woman who will ask you to leave your home or place of work. You are not likely to be meeting a pimp, who will tell you that you should only visit HIS girls. You are not likely to be getting a call arranged by another Escort to waste your time or find out your location and cause trouble for you.

The worse scenario for a client is that you get a bait and switch or a crap service. Is it really comparable?

[Danny2011]

I think in the case of an outcall some sort of reference is pretty reasonable.... it could be a terrible waste of time for an escort if it was a fake call etc. I guess outcalls carry a little more safety risk too

If it's not a stupid question can I ask when a potential clients tells you he has reviews, what do you look for in those reviews?

[Petros]

most ladies have a good view of the punter as he approaches and can get an idea of what they are like.

The first view most ladies get of a client is through the spyglass it their door when the client is standing outside — this is after they have allowed them into their apartment complex!

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think in the case of an outcall some sort of reference is pretty reasonable.... it could be a terrible waste of time for an escort if it was a fake call etc. I guess outcalls carry a little more safety risk too

If it's not a stupid question can I ask when a potential clients tells you he has reviews, what do you look for in those reviews?

It really depends. Some clients will make contact via here, so you can see without having to even make reference to them. Some will tell you their forum name when they call and you can check after the call, but many don't mention their reviews, unless you ask for some kind of evidence that they have met ladies before and they are genuine.

It is important not to use the reviews as a bargaining tool, but simply as proof that you are genuine. When I know someone who wants to book me has reviews, I tend to scan them to see if anyone I know has been met and I may read that one review, but I'm not generally too interested in the content, as long as the one I read implies a clean and pleasant person.

[TonyStark]

The first view most ladies get of a client is through the spyglass it their door when the client is standing outside — this is after they have allowed them into their apartment complex!

Not necessarily. I've had girls who have given their location as being, say, an apartment across the road from a garage. I have rang a girl who stayed in a location such as this and when I rang she said she couldn't see me and I told her I was walking towards a bin, that was in view of the apartment. Was only then that she would let me in. I've had similar with several other girls who have waited till they had seen me from their apartment before telling me the room number or even which building they are staying in.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Not necessarily. I've had girls who have given their location as being, say, an apartment across the road from a garage. I have rang a girl who stayed in a location such as this and when I rang she said she couldn't see me and I told her I was walking towards a bin, that was in view of the apartment. Was only then that she would let me in. I've had similar with several other girls who have waited till they had seen me from their apartment before telling me the room number or even which building they are staying in.

Unfortunately this is not always the case though and it is wrong to assume we all have that luxury. Hotels can be very hit and miss depending on where your room is and the side they put you on and some apartments may have no view at all. Even with a view, seeing a man on the street, will not tell you if it is an undercover officer or not.

[zoozoozoo]

Whenever possible i try and make appointments through the Pm system here , in that way an escort can check up on me if she needs to and ask any of her friends ( ones that I may have seen ) if I was ok ,also find that if chatting to an escort in chat they can get an idea of you and at the same time check you out but in the main I dont have any issue with whatever precautions an escort takes to protect herself ,I really dont want to see any escort that may have some issue ( race , age , colour, height , weight etc ) with me and would rather not meet than have a poor appointment

[NoBrain2]

I dont have a problem with it, your safety is whats important and you should do whatever you need to do to feel safe and comfortable.

btw just to be awkward lol, what happens if the guy isnt a forum user and he changes his sim regularly, how could you check him considering he wouldnt have a user name and his number would be different?