Originally Posted by
CurvaceousKate
That's not really fair or true. Let's look at this logically. The point of being an Escort is to provide problem free sex. I think it would be fair to say that love is the root cause of most problems. Now I'm sure sometimes crushes are developed and by God I would be lying if I didn't some times woop and make hand gestures after a client has gone, that indicate I'm so happy with what just happened, but... it's a moment in time and it stays there and if he comes over again, then maybe we can discuss how intense it felt, but equally it might not be the same next time or I might just keep it to myself, because by singling him out and being too emotionally forward, I'm messing up the reason why he came to me in the first place and I would rather he continued coming back.
So... love is not a word to be used lightly and really doesn't have a place within Escorting and really not after one booking. You can have a crush, be infatuated, be in lust, think they are hot but no love and no wanting babies!
Nail on the head Kate. I'd assume a large percentage of clients are already in a relationship (presumably one where sex is absent) and wish to remain that way. And many of the single guys have problems instigating or maintaining relationships and prefer their intimacy to be within pre-agreed boundaries. Neither of these groups are looking for a relationship with an escort (or anyone else) and would likely run a mile if they recieved the kind of text that Karla (may) have sent.
Visiting an escort is basically fantasy fulfillment. No sane client expects to get a relationship out of it. It's a business transaction, albeit an incredibly pleasant one. I kind of doubt many massueses or physiotherapists develop client relationships, despite being pretty up close and personal too. I'm sure there are a few exceptions where escorts and clients do become a couple, but I'm guessing they're very rare.
2014 in Northern Ireland:
Number of reported attacks on sex workers 70
Number of sex trafficking cases ZERO