A Question of Attraction

[Yamser]

All men are hot for someone.

Don't forget we don't share the same tastes in men

so your saying there is a blind woman out there for me ? lol

i understand different women have different tastes but my post would have been long and boring if i said " a hot to her guy as in every woman sees beauty in a different way so some ladies might think hes cute some might think hes hot and others think hes ugly shows up and she refuses him "

wow enought steam in that to power a rocket ship to the moon lol

nice legs ana btw

[Wakka Wakka]

I don't think it's really a case of physical attraction, I don't expect that any lady will open the door, see a handsome man and slam the door in his face because she thinks she might fancy him.

Certainly that's never going to happen in my case, the only reason she might slam the door is to give her a chance to pick up the pitchfork and flaming torches.

I think it's more to do with a lady spending time with a man and realising that here is someone they might grow to be attracted to and this is where the question comes in, would she refuse to see him again to avoid the risk of real feelings developing or would she continue to see him in an escort/client relationship confident that they can both keep their feelings separate?

[Morpheus]

Well, that were the case I have no fear of be cut off or told they could not see me on those grounds — non of the ladies I see would be remotely attracted to me in that sense!

You and me both Petros! You and me both!! Thank goodnes for that, huh!!

[JAMESCORK]

You and me both Petros! You and me both!! Thank goodnes for that, huh!!

You're so modest morph. Did you win the "who's the most attractive punter" competition.

[Cable87]

Escorts don't have emotions nor the capacity to form emotional attachments! . And even if they did, they certainly wouldn't sink so low as to even consider us losers who have to pay for it.

[Sensual Lauren]

I think physical attraction is highly overrated, I don't know how an escort could say she never would take a client that she wouldn't be attracted to at first meeting, given that that is usually when they walk in the door, Some of the most 'attractive ' persons turned out to be 'ugly' people and the same vice verse...a persons sensuality is a matter of chemistry, and visual beauty is not all there is. xx my two cents worth,,,

I read an interview with Mariska Majoor in yesterday's Irish Times where she spoke about her life and work as an escort in Amsterdam and her views on the current debates on the subject taking place across Europe

http://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-s...tion-1.1732197

Without getting into the political debate one line stood out for me

'I never took a customer that I would be attracted to outside of work'

This forum regularly debates the subject of clients falling for escorts and the pros and cons of such but rarely is it looked at from the other side, from the point of view of the ladies. I found the quote above fascinating and was wondering if it is an opinion commonly held by the ladies that post on here?

Essentially if a lady working here met a client who she felt she could possibly be attracted to in the 'real world', would she be reluctant to continue seeing him as a client and choose to cut things off before any feelings developed?

We are all creatures governed to a large extent by our emotions but are escorts better able to manage and compartmentalise their emotions so can step in and stop a situation where they themselves may be attracted to the other person or would they be happy to continue?

[Vitruvian]

Escorts don't have emotions nor the capacity to form emotional attachments! . And even if they did, they certainly wouldn't sink so low as to even consider us losers who have to pay for it.

I don't consider myself a loser, nor you or anyone else, everything is an exchange and the only losers are those who fail to experience and fulfil their needs.

[Davidontour]

I think physical attraction is highly overrated, I don't know how an escort could say she never would take a client that she wouldn't be attracted to at first meeting, given that that is usually when they walk in the door, Some of the most 'attractive ' persons turned out to be 'ugly' people and the same vice verse...a persons sensuality is a matter of chemistry, and visual beauty is not all there is. xx my two cents worth,,,

I think as people move beyond their teens, the shallowness of immediate physical attraction becomes less important and attraction happens over a period of time, often via shared humour, interests and the chemistry factor you mention.

Obviously an escort will find some men more attractive than others, but the idea that she will kick one out because she might feel too attracted to him is ridiculous. At worst she might not take any future bookings.

I'd have thought that escorts and clients having 'real life' relationships would be as rare as celebrities pairing off with fans. Julia Roberts and Richard Gere excepted of course.

[Bellelulu]

I have strange taste in men so it's not like the gym instructor look is entirely for me. But having been attracted and not on a superficial level, I can see the pitfalls that might occur and the action a lady might take. However, I consider this along the same lines as thinking with my head. I've been swinging and not every guy/girl I met was totally for me, but they were at that moment in time. Attraction has so many aspects. I have decided not to meet two clients recently because of their personality, which was in the end, too negative to uplift and it was hard to be my usually happy self.