Fetish

[Curvaceous Kate]

I had a guy call me up the other day and ask to make a booking. He then went on to say he had a fetish and would I be able to accommodate him. Now I'm quite vanilla (in my head) and braced myself for the request and was really surprised when he asked me to wear stockings and suspenders. I was waiting for the rest, but that was it!

I told him that I wore these on a daily basis and this to me was not a fetish, but normal!

This got me thinking, that a fetish really could be anything and does not necessarily have to be 'kinky'. Also one persons fetish, is another persons normal.

So... what would you class to be bordering on fetish? Do you have a fetish that you consider to be normal or one that you imagine to be unusual?

I have a fetish for boots and banana shaped cocks

[BareThrills]

I have all the fetishes from the normal stockings and suspenders and heels kind to the Complete dress-up role-play to the PVC orgasm denial kind.
It just depends what mood I'm in and who I'm with as to which one comes to the fore.
Try everything on the buffet.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have all the fetishes from the normal stockings and suspenders and heels kind to the Complete dress-up role-play to the PVC orgasm denial kind.
It just depends what mood I'm in and who I'm with as to which one comes to the fore.
Try everything on the buffet.

Would they all come under fetish, or some kink? Is there a difference or are they the same thing?

I don't like orgasm denial. I had 31 years of that already lol.

[BareThrills]

I think the Porn industry has muddied the water by assigning 'Fetish' sex as being PVC and whips and face masks with dildos on them, but anyone can fetishise anything can't they?
So the guys gets really turned on by stockings and heels and because he doesn't see them all the time it becomes something he craves and makes a particular kink or fetish whereas its run-of-the-mill to you. I have a cock like a great big Plantain and love to wear industrial workboots all the time and see nothing particularly special in that.
It seems to me we use kink, predeliction and fetish interchangably when maybe we shouldn't.
I think maybe a 'proper' fetish is something more taboo but then on a board like this taboo things are hard to find....

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think the Porn industry has muddied the water by assigning 'Fetish' sex as being PVC and whips and face masks with dildos on them, but anyone can fetishise anything can't they?
So the guys gets really turned on by stockings and heels and because he doesn't see them all the time it becomes something he craves and makes a particular kink or fetish whereas its run-of-the-mill to you. I have a cock like a great big Plantain and love to wear industrial workboots all the time and see nothing particularly special in that.
It seems to me we use kink, predeliction and fetish interchangably when maybe we shouldn't.
I think maybe a 'proper' fetish is something more taboo but then on a board like this taboo things are hard to find....

Oh my goodness. I think I need to go get my magic wand!

[slavetoyou]

I stared off with foot fetish and I felt I was weird and doing something wrong when I used to lust after women's feet. The thought of woman wearing heels and stockings etc made me like a weirdo if I was to ask a lady for it. Now that was a long time ago, now it's madness. I have kinks, fetishes what ever you want to call them that to me are ok, I love them all. Now to me they are normal but I know to others they would be TABOO. So it's a tough thing to categorise.
I suppose anything other than the missionary position would be considered kinky, anything that involves leather or chains BDSM and anything that involves some object fetish.
All I can say is the harder and more extreme the better

[Davidontour]

I had a guy call me up the other day and ask to make a booking. He then went on to say he had a fetish and would I be able to accommodate him. Now I'm quite vanilla (in my head) and braced myself for the request and was really surprised when he asked me to wear stockings and suspenders. I was waiting for the rest, but that was it!

I told him that I wore these on a daily basis and this to me was not a fetish, but normal!

This got me thinking, that a fetish really could be anything and does not necessarily have to be 'kinky'. Also one persons fetish, is another persons normal.

So... what would you class to be bordering on fetish? Do you have a fetish that you consider to be normal or one that you imagine to be unusual?

I have a fetish for boots and banana shaped cocks

Not sure if it's classed as a fetish, but I have a real thing for being handcuffed and abused by a lady boss figure, preferably in a sleeveless business suit. Probably not too difficult to figure out where this came from as I used to work in a large office.

Oh and ladies who might appreciate my banana shaped cock.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Not sure if it's classed as a fetish, but I have a real thing for being handcuffed and abused by a lady boss figure, preferably in a sleeveless business suit. Probably not too difficult to figure out where this came from as I used to work in a large office.

Oh and ladies who might appreciate my banana shaped cock.

I wish I had posted this sooner. That's two lovely treats to (possibly) one day maybe look forward to

I have done that scenario a few times as the boss (minus the handcuffs), but it is fun to do. I'm a real softie, so playing hardball can be a fun kind of outer body experience for me. Having said that, being demanding sexually is second nature

[Davidontour]

I wish I had posted this sooner. That's two lovely treats to (possibly) one day maybe look forward to

I have done that scenario a few times as the boss (minus the handcuffs), but it is fun to do. I'm a real softie, so playing hardball can be a fun kind of outer body experience for me. Having said that, being demanding sexually is second nature

I have requested this scenario several times, with various results. A couple of escorts ignored my messages, which was a typical lady boss trait in itself.
Of the ladies who accepted, it became clear that being a scary and believable boss-figure isn't as easy as it sounds. Two in particular though were very very good at it, with that Curvaceous Kate lady being a prime candidate to join that select club.

[PaddyDaddy]

Anything can be fetish in my mind. Fetish to me is simply something that someone fixates on and desires very strongly to turn them on.

For me someone has a fetish for something. Fetish is not something that is bracketed or defined

Effectively a fetish is a turn on that someone obsesses over.