Originally Posted by
Axelboss
Visiting escorts can be a marriage saver.
Any man who says doesn't crave for other women, is either a liar or a looser who knows will never find an other ever.
Also why would you want to trow everything away just because some sex?
Or lets assume you don't love your wife any longer. But you still pay the loan back after 50k+ for your education, your cars there, your mortgage. Both of you in the middle of building your dream house, your kids there going to college etc.etc. You know yourself
Everything built up like a card castle. And you want to pull out the bottom card because the sex what you get at home
is not enough and it is about to take over your life, as all you can think about is sex.
So you start having an affair with your PA, girl next door= sooner or later you ll get caught.
Some lads here still in love with the wife, but she is going through some hard time,pregnancy, hormonal imbalance, overweight etc. She isn't as good looking any more as she used to be for the time being. But you cant hurt her for that, you actually have to be more supportive than ever. It is only physical attraction, animal instinct. But when some have affair that means, no longer in love with the wife and no any sort of feeling he has for her. Much worse.
Or you visit en escort who is probably 100x times out of your league. Gives you a gfe service which you don't even get at home, you can satisfy your fantasy for owo cim a .... Cost less then any date and the best nobody can ever figure it out if you do it right. Consequently you go home as a happy well balanced loving patient hubby and father
But even as a teenager, when you look handsome, well built, nice bmw .... Its cheaper to pay 200€ for an amazing lady who is your dream date and will blow you away... The most beautiful girl you met ..normally a girl like that wouldn't even get down to talk to you...opposed to those virgin sluts whom you have to take to 100 dates, spend 10x more money and when you completely pissed off, you receive some mechanical extremely experience-less bj......
And I can't emphasize enough, that I bet that each one of you has a fetish for something. That's why you are here and that why there are so many different type of services and genders.
Seriously imaging yourself at the age of 45 with 20 years in marriage. Still paying mortgage after 300k. There is your Jag and BMW loan. Kids college fee of 10k/a. You are in a prestigious position at work bla bla bla...
And one day you decide to go home dressed up as a women and you tell your wife:" Hun! I bought a strap on since I didn't find a girl with penis free tonight , can you fit that on and do me the way I have never been humiliated before" or " Hun I am bi btw and I have my colleague with me tonight for both us" or " Hun can I just hogtie you and ..." or "Hun I want you to defecate on me please" and it goes on and on.
This would destroy families and most importantly the kids would suffer the most.
When I was a teenager in a middle of a dilemma , I said to my grandfather that I was going to tell the truth to my girlfriend. And to my biggest surprise he replied that saying the truth isnt always the best course of action. He said there are only two places where you can be openly honest : 1 is at father confessor 2 at your escort.
And yes there are some amazing women out there
And I don't abuse it. Maybe once or twice a year when its really itchy.