This is quite true, some ladies can also learn some phone manners. But this isn't about an answered phone, this is about him having sent a text informing her that he was coming over at 9:30, and then throwing a fit when she was unavailable, coupled with he is beginning to harass her. I am sorry, again I reiterate, would he or anyone else behave this way towards their doctor or dentist? No, they wouldn't. It is simply common courtesy. Treat others as you wish to be treated. Simple really.