Your Queen

[namesjack]

no drama queens for me, make love them and leave them, here for a good time not a long time

[Curvaceous Kate]

Ah that's a pity ya see I don't have a Queen but I like to treat my beautiful girlfriend like a Princess, I love to cook a lovely dinner for her, pour the wine into her glass when it runs low, open and close the car door for her, bring her breakfast in bed on weekends, wash her back in the bath, so on and so forth cos she deserves to be treated like a princess but hey maybe that's not your thing but she loves it and I get plenty back in return.

Why could you not do that in an equal relationship? Being equal does not mean you can not show love and tenderness through actions. For instance if one person gets home before the other from work, then the that person cooks dinner and if they want to make it special, then why not? If you're going out for a drink with your partner and only one of you can drive, then the one who drives doesn't get to have a drink, so the other thinks of ways to bridge that gap, as in it might be a candle lit dinner at home sometimes with a nice bottle of wine.

Plus 'I get plenty back in return' suggests one action for another, as in equal.

Treat each other the way you want to be treated. I will do for you, the same as I would do for myself.

Not you do all the cleaning and put the dinner on my table, even though we both work kind of thing, or I'll go to work and you sit at home looking pretty my Princess, don't worry your little head about anything.

That's kind of where I'm coming from.

[Clyde]

Still in bed, I think the courtesan is upstairs, ordered her a few fried eggs....

Love to help out but the other half is serving up some melons in 30min.

[Clyde]

Why could you not do that in an equal relationship? Being equal does not mean you can not show love and tenderness through actions. For instance if one person gets home before the other from work, then the that person cooks dinner and if they want to make it special, then why not? If you're going out for a drink with your partner and only one of you can drive, then the one who drives doesn't get to have a drink, so the other thinks of ways to bridge that gap, as in it might be a candle lit dinner at home sometimes with a nice bottle of wine.

Plus 'I get plenty back in return' suggests one action for another, as in equal.

Treat each other the way you want to be treated. I will do for you, the same as I would do for myself.

Not you do all the cleaning and put the dinner on my table, even though we both work kind of thing, or I'll go to work and you sit at home looking pretty my Princess, don't worry your little head about anything.

That's kind of where I'm coming from.

Guess I'm just in love, what can I say she loves it, and I do too she's my Princess you should try it.

[Curvaceous Kate]

In this life regardless of what you think when it comes to "relationships" no one is equal. One of the couple or of a group is always the more dominant, now I don't mean that in the BDSM sense but in a general way. It does not have to be in a controlling way but usually one would make the final decision (even when all are in agreement). If everyone was equal then nothing would be done as it would require total agreement with everyone which I think would be very hard.
I would agree with being treated as an equal being the best way to exist but we are all controlled one way or the other whether you think so or not. This does not have to be a bad thing once there is respect.
Respect is the key to any union, once that is there then no one will be made do something they do not want and everyone will appear to be equal.
To be treated as a queen is not a bad thing even if you are an independent person. Because you would be the queen you could control how much is done for you. My mistress does not have to burden herself with having to tell me what to do, I know what I have to do make her life easier and I do it without need for instruction.
From your post I get the impression that you think being treated as a queen would be hard work, I think it is the opposite. It does not involve a needy man hanging around you all the time waiting for you to tell him what to do, it is a man who has the utmost respect for the lady in question and just being able to express that respect by making the lady's life easier, it does not involve "smothering" or invading that persons private space.
Really you say you would not want to be treated like a queen if it was done in a way that you didn't even realise it was happening .

I disagree. There is such a thing as compromise. I might care less about the type of car we get than my partner and allow him the final decision, because he may well have more knowledge on cars than I. However I love the colour red, so he may compromise on the colour he wants to appease me and therefore we have happily chosen a car that we both like, but having considered the other person.

Same with all things. I may not like faggots that much, but know that my partner likes them, so now and again I might surprise him with a meal of faggots if I'm off out with the girls that night and eating out. I'm not forcing myself to eat them, but I am acknowledging the pleasure he derives from them.

I really don't meet with this bull that one has to overide the other to make it work and have the final word. Mind you that is one of the reasons that I am single and I will stay single until such a time where I find someone I feel compatible with, so that may well be forever and that suits me fine.

[johnb59]

I thought I'd met my queen? Married her? Gave her my children do anything for her but was I wrong?the only positive I take from this is I have two glorious princesses? I think ones queen is the wrong word to describe ones special lady?as a queen has to be obeyed at all times? I think not? The missus or wife is more appropriate even hitch lol

[Clyde]

Enjoy the juicy melons, I'm gonna have a sausage and egg sandwich

Ah well I love them freshly squeezed. I'd give ya a hand but I'm too far away.

[Deven]

No I don't, I want to be treated as an equal. We all work to our strengths and should pool those strengths together to make the perfect functioning union where respect and equality is at the top of the list.

I'm afraid a man who needed me to tell him what to do would drive me up the wall and in contrast a man telling me what to do, would not be well received either.

So... no, no man is my King and I am no man's Queen.

What about a man asking for hints

[Clyde]

I must be a queen, I'm a bit of a control Freak who is never wrong, whatever I say goes, I'm terrible..... I'd probably make a good dominatrix...

I know a good teacher .... Do it, take it, who's the best, you want it you got it fucker .... Guess who?

[Curvaceous Kate]

What about a man asking for hints

We both know you are very confident and able in your field so if I have a strength that I can share with you, then I'm more than happy to make you my equal in that field too, as that will only increase my pleasure two fold