Patricia: You have gone from the sublime to the ridiculous…
I am posting this as you are now threatening to ban anyone who posts in your “improvements” thread who you so cynically accuse of squabbling. I assume you include me in that so I can only assume that you feel my having documentary proof of Two Escorts having their reputations damaged wrongly and unjustly as not being as important as Clients knowing an Escorts f**king starsign.
I am certain that GENUINE DECENT clients would rather know that when an Escort is outed, it is because they are not Genuine Escorts and not in the cases I am referring to of someone trying to damage Reps out of personnel motives alone.
I also assume that you feel I am squabbling when I make the audacious request offensive remarks made to any of our families to be removed, but your remedy to that is to let us know if an Escorts breasts are fake or not.
These are your big idea's to improve this place that you promised???, FFS. I am sure that will be a huge comfort to the next Escort that is targeted here and you totally ignore and abandon, they can take comfort from having their rep ruined but hey….a least they know I’m a Gemini……
Monty Python couldn’t make this s**t up…
Maybe it's too early.........
............ but I just don't get all this deeply offended stuff that goes on here. QPH, I had you pegged as one of the better ones but you've lost the plot a little lately. This isn't real, it's a lot of people letting their alter-ego loose & way too many taking it WAY too seriously.
Yes, Paws is a bully, a manipulator & he does try to isolate people & damage them, Nasty I'll agree. He's only as powerful as the effect people allow his words to have.
I chose to ignore it when he goes after someone. Life's too short, this is a form of escape.
In hindsight maybe Pat should consider disposing of the 2 most devisive people on here, no prizes for guessing no.2 & that would help develop a new dynamic, which is sorely needed here.
Ask Marijuana for a lend of his bong,
Originally Posted by TheNads
Fair enough Nads, but you cannot say i've lost the plot when you do not know what has gone on behind closed doors here, I do, so again please judge me on facts and PM me for those PMs as i am now logged in this morning to forward them to yet another very well know Punter here who asked for them. This is not about plots or if they have been lost or not, this is about the owner not doing right by her cusomers on one of the worst things that can befall them, IE wrongly accused for personnell motives. She did fuckall to help two that i know of but instead goes to effort to let us know their starsign. If you have issue with that core principle of Escorts only being outed when they are in fact not genuine and not because someone just decided to destroy them which i have proof of then you have to concede that you are not a Geniune punter as you have then conceded that its OK for this to be allowed to go unchallenged when presented with the real facts as i have been.
You are the one who is being ridiculous QPH.
You will not let drop an incident that everyone else moved on from a long time ago. If you want to keep going on about it - fine - but I reserve the right to get on with the real work of making this a better site and ignoring all the squabblers.
We are currently making important changes to E-I that will greatly improve it. I'm not going to let people arguing on this message board get in the way of that being achieved. The changes are not just minor things like adding further info to ladies profiles, there are lots of major changes going on. Some you will never see as they are to our back-end systems, but they will allow our staff to do their jobs better and faster, leading to more accuracy of escort data, more staff available to hang out on these message board etc and lots of very important things.
Got a pm from someone I never had any dealings with b4 and only posted a few times I think and is very vocal of late to Liz, so I suspect its head honcho bp yet again saying that anyone who responds to her should be pmed to stop replying on boards and freeze her out. I said the only way I would do that was if bp was also ignored as he does much the same thing re: damaging reps wrongly. Can I ask what direction was I going wrong in that you mentioned and good luck fucking with him as he deserves it in spades.
Originally Posted by Patricia
Patricia, once again, I do not squabble, this was landed on me and I did my best to keep it low key and contacted Sarah, fully expecting that you as a Woman and Escort would do the right thing. She agreed and thanked me even, I have that pm as proof, I have the Escorts pm in which she thanked me and voiced her fear of bp.
You may have moved on but my point is it will happen over and over again to others and you do nothing but paper over it and not even confirm that I was telling the truth.
I HAVE ALL RELEVENT PMS IN INBOX BUT YOU DO NOTHING.
THAT IS NOW THE ISSUE PATRICIA, not that idiot but you as a businesswoman allowing this to happen
YOU YOU YOU, am I making this clear.
I can disprove the lies said about me by posting them but will not as this has nothing to do with her, me, you ,bp.
It is and always has been about what this place should be for Escorts and Clients but you steadfastly refuse to do what you claim to be trying to do.
THAT IS HYPOCRICY OF THE WORST KIND.
When are you going to twig that this is not about any one incident. You have ignored this even when your own staff said something had to be done, the reason it is now something that happened weeks ago is because of your refusal to act. If it were any other poster you would have acted.
I have tried very hard to do exactly what you say you are doing in improving this place, by all means do not help these Escorts who are repeatedly targeted by bp just as Liz has done but the least you can do is stop denouncing me as squabbling. I do not feel it is squabbling to highlight this and also the offensive comments to my family which you ignore and will not remove, it is your failure to remove them that is in large part keeping me here, I wish very much to leave, I hate the site of what I now know this place really is but as long as that comment remains I will also remain and show your failings here they are there for all to read. How is allowing people to know Escorts starsigns possibly more important, but you are still actively protecting and aiding him, if you even bothered to read them you would see the clear and veiled threat he made to an Escort but you TWICE have not taken me up on my offer to let your techies look at them as they are still in pm box and cannot be edited and saved.
Now Patricia I am only responding to your post so do not say I'm dragging this up, this thread went inactive days ago, its YOUR post that put it front and center. You failed in your duty of care to your paying customers I have sent all those PMs to those that requested them and they can make of them what they will, I am not busting my balls over a piece of filth like that or spend a second longer wondering how on earth a former Escort could so totally fail these Escorts even when I have evidence sitting in my PM box, neither of you are worth my while wasting one synapse on.
The least you should do is stay neutral. I have also proven your failure to do that, just as you failed to dispense your watered down take on what you feel is equal treatment of all. Its there on the record by your own words not mine.
Because of your now public failings Patricia any claim by you to want to improve things ring hollow and vacuous, and the Escorts themselves laugh the loudest at that, you failed everyone here except one, do not dump on me for thinking more of this place then you seem to and for getting shit thrown at me from all sides by doing the right thing. I won’t tolerate it.
Remove that comment and I’ll be on my merry way and you can return to the business of pulling the wool over peoples eyes, leave it there and I will make it my business to point out your failings.
What will make you shut up QPH??
Let's see, everyone has admitted they think you are insane. If you want to carry on your relentless banter, and chapterous posts, do so, but leave ME OUT OF IT. I'm sick of you carrying a "make-believe" dolly on your back, swimming thru these imagined "dark murky dangerous waters" thinking I'm not drowning because of you. O "imaginary one" if you hadnt had so much water in your eyes, swimming so hard against the currents you and you alone dove into, you would have noticed that I, the genuine Dolly was actually basking on the beach, in my sunglasses and sipping a delicious and refreshing Mango lassie, watching sea-birds fly past me, and the occasional nudist run along their beach, dangling their bits. See, Im a happy girl, a light-hearted girl, and positive girl. And there are only a very few things that would make me throw my mango lassie in the sand and start beating my breasts in protest. Would you like to know what?? DISRESPECT. Well, that is about it. Just disrespect. When someone disrespects me, they will see the sweet little dolly finally blush with anger. Even when someone comes at me physcially to hurt me, I dont even frown or fret, I simply smile and pop them hard in the nose, turn on my heels, and go back to my lawn chair. So you have crossed the line with me. You are a really sick person to drag me into your relentless quest for... nothingness. If you want to carry on, annoying everyone, making yourself a fool, pissing off patricia and many others, do so then, be the fucked up mind here... but you better fucking better leave me out of it!
You are nothing more then a gossiper. You are worse then any women who is titled "catty bitch", as you forward your precious pm's, another form of gossip and instigation.
No doubt you'll reply to this, and it will be long long long and relentless and your proud arse will always sit up on the horse you appointed for your own so-called knightly self. But remember that when you sit so high up in a seat where noone else wants to see you, expect all the kitchen garbage to be thrown at you. I was clearing out my fridgerator last night, and let's see, there was some outdated tofu, bag of hazelnuts, some rotting roses, a bag of rotting green beans, and actually have about 15 bagels, that i bought without thinking the other day, but now am throwing them out for carbs sake. So I would warn you to put up some kind of shield, as I'm sure I'm not the only one here with their garbage ready to hurl at you... but you are so proud, you will just sit up there and think your own self-righteousness will shield you from reality.
It's like talking to a wall. Except the wall is better for 2 reasons: one is it doesnt talk back, two is I can paint over or knock down a wall and then it is gone and away.
You are the most rude person the way you talk to Patricia. How dare you come on her site and use up her web space and then disrespect her so relentlessly. You are a free-loader. You just come on here, stroke your ego and cock, and insult her relentlessly. You should be counting your blessings that she doesnt listen to people's banter. You keep telling her to ban, ban, ban, but thank your lucky stars she is ignoring you, as if she did listen, you'd be the first one she would ban! You better believe Ill stand up for Patricia, as she is the person who is responsible for giving me a lovely site to post on, advertise on, and chat on. I have had some lovely laughs with some very intelligent and sweet men here. I respect her entirely, and you should be ashamed for saying the horrible things you say.
This is and always has been about you. This is not about any of us girls. So carry on your bollicks, if you must, but after 3 months of me staying silent about this, I now am making public that you need to leave me the fuck out of your mission impossibles.
Where did I mention you in that post by name, I am responding to her post and have not used or brought peoples families into it as he does so how am i rude and he the white knight? and again you are right, this has nothing to do with you, I did my best to help you long ago. It is not my problem that you do not see nor care that what was done to you by him and before you and will be done in the future to others. I can do nothing about that precisely because Patricia will let him do it, all I can do is make the forum aware of his failings and you will note I have never said he does not help people, I am only showing that he also hurts for no legitimate reason. I do this for the betterment of both sides as it CANNOT be good for either side if clients are directed away from good Escorts on his recommendation when I have proof of his corruption at times in so doing.
Originally Posted by DollyDarling
In short Dolly…..Get over yourself, I could not give a fiddlers about you after you thanked me and then told barefaced lies, have issue with me by all means but stick to the truth as I have done.
I can re forward your pms to you if you wish to jog your memory before I post them in my defense on how hurt you where by him and others months ago for which they never uttered one word of apology to you but you none the less run to, what does that make you dolly? There is a word for it here that goes along the lines of a Gombeen. From across an ocean you still won’t stand up for yourself, oh you’ll have a pop at me alight because you know I’m harmless, but not a word to those that started all this for you.
I say again, my Character is my only wealth, I will not let those unworthy of my time piss it up against the wall of this vile place, you again are lying about me Dolly. This has nothing to do with you, this thread is about the big picture, you were only a pixel, so am I, Stop being so selfish and think of your fellow Escorts. In the future when another rep is damaged and you actively conspired to discredit the one person who is telling the truth, I hope you mirror is frosted over as you will not like what you see staring back at you.
I am not out to save you as you so melodramatically put it. You are nothing to me as I am nothing to you. The difference being I still will not get aggressive or lie about you as you get aggressive to me and LIE about me. I am trying very hard to not post your PMs that proves you are lying about me.
I am looking out for number one now and if you refuse to retract your lies about me I will be forced to post them in my defense and I do not want to do that as that puts you front and center in a new feeding frenzy, so either retract your lies or stay the hell out of this.
I am a big believer in equality of the sexes, that is what brought me here in the first place, to educate myself and I see inequality here by the lorry load for the Escorts, that is what this is about Dolly, not poor little hard done by you.
And again to the habitual bitchers, this is not a rant, it is written as calmly and in complete silence as all 700 plus posts are.
No need to forward any pms
As you are so in the habit of doing these last few months, forwarding to any Joe or Jane who asks with a "Please may I know the gossip too Qph?" "Please can I stop picking my nose for a second so I can listen to some gossip?" QPH, you are the worse kind of gossiper, as you never stop talking! At least most gossipers get bored with a topic, and find another one to jump to... where you just keep on the same subject, gossiping on and on, and don't even care that everyone is bored and uninterested! How many people have to tell you they are NOT INTERESTED? Go back and read over the last few weeks, almost everyone here has made a public post to say "We are not interested". You are the only one interested, and the only one listening to yourself gabbing. I have all the pms', Yes, each and every one of those LOOONG pms you sent me, I have the ones I sent back to you also. I have the full story, so no need to fill me in on the stuff that should have never even concerned anyone else but you and I. Are you some kind of "Show-N-Tell Freak"? I remember that game when I was 6 years old. I did grow out of it tho by the age of 9. Not sure why you are still playing that childhood game
Lets see here, as if it's anyone's business in the first place, Mr. Gossiper, should I tell all the people that have nothing to do with this? Should I tell them myself what some silly pms contained between a topclass escort and a ranter who never punts? Ok, let me sum it up for all the burning ears:
When I was a newby, and my rate was a little higher then the going rate in Ireland, I was tagged "greedy". Of course this hurt my feelings, and I expressed to QPH thru "PRIVATE" pm that I was very much hurt at being called that. Qph was nice and understanding at the time, and he did stand up for me publicly against me being called that. I said he was a nice man and tho I respected he never punted, and that was never a concern to me, as I am busy anyway, I did offer to meet him in a public setting to chat and just be friends. QPH declined. I don't know if he thought he was so hunky that I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off him, respecting his "never fuck" philosophy... but none-the-less, he refused a genuine offer to hang out as friends. Ok, more gossip? Oh, this is just so much fun gossiping. i feel like I'm a little 14 year old again....
So ok - next: Qph calls me one morning to go hysterical on the fone for 1 hour about being threatened by paws and that I am in danger. He wants to post publicly the pms (wow even 4 months ago he had the same mission in mind) and I told him not to do it. I never like scandel. i told him to drop it. He begged me and bothered me "dolly can i post them when you leave for America? tell me the exact day and time you are leaving Ireland, and ill post them the moment you leave". As he was not listening to a work I said, I politely told him I would think about it. I felt there was no need to act fast on a subject that most likely would fade away in a couple days. But no, very next day QPH posts here about pms. "But why?" Ive asked myself?. Well, because after receiving his hysterical call, I pmd paws myself asking what the problem was he had with me. And I called him on the fone and he said I had a sweet kind voice, and he instantly knew he was wrong about me, and we have been friends ever since. (See lads, this is what grown ups do. They talk like civilized humans and solve their misunderstandings fast and diplomatically, and there is no bloodshed). Meanwhile, I guess this must have burned QPH to know that I had gone and calmed the waters and made peace and quiet. "OH NO, How horrible QPH" dolly has gone off and solved her own problems. Dolly doesnt like confrontation, stress, negativity in her life, and likes to just be at peace with others. But it seems QPH doesnt think Dolly has a right to have peace and quiet and FORGIVE LIKE HIS BIBLE TELLS HIM TO DO YOU SINNER. Qph, You arn't sitting any higher then God! And you arn't listening to him you sinner. Go and pray for yourself, cause you refuse to let others forgive and be at peace in their hearts and soul. You're the worse kind of sinner, always fighting for a fight, for hatred, for negativity, for gossip...
So thats that everyone. Not a very interesting story really. To sum it up, When I was a newby, I was tagged inappropriately, then qph was nice to me so i offered a hand in friendship, he rejected it thinking I was just after his blue balls, then he calls me and tells me he is about to make scandel which i tell him not to do, then I make up with the person who didnt know me but was a fair person and reasonable and is now my friend and has made public that I am NOT A GREEDY ESCORT, and qph posted about these pms disrespecting my wishes for him to not comment on it. And this ended any "potential friendship I could have had with Qph". There was never a friendship with QPH and me, as he just pmd me a couple times, and I offered him friendship and he rejected it! On the other hand, paws did accept my hand in friendship, and has remained a friend and loyal every since. Anyway, me being someone who hates drama, I didnt post about any of this, till recently. QPH has finally pushed me to my edge with all his relentless jipper jabber and continuous threats to post pms. And his little boy gossiping of sending private pms to everyone who asks is just rediculous to me. And the way he talks to Patracia is so horrible and disrespectful. He just gets me sick to my stomach.
Anyway, this guy will never shut up. It doesnt matter what I say, and my face is turning blue from writing so much about it. Id say I could leave this site for 3 years, and come back on and he would still be going on about pms.
Whatever whatever... moving on, moving on... there are too many nice people to write to on this website. People who are witty and fun and sweet and respectful. I have made some lovely friends here now, and I don't care to waste my time with psychopaths like QPH. People like QPH will always think they are right. About everything Im sure. Its a waste of time to lose my breath trying to explain the facts, as he will always see everyone else is wrong but him. Sure, thats a fine way to live one's life, if they live alone on an island with noone else around. QPH, please do consider that, rowing your boat out to Inishmirahoo, as noone is there to bother you or question you or piss you off. It will just be you and the seals and sea gulls.
Last edited by DollyDarling; 27-10-08 at 20:46.
Fair-played to you for standing up for what you believe in.
Maybe, just maybe, BigPaws has a share in this site and cannot be banned. He could be a silent partner... a secret lover ... or THE OWNER!!!! Who knows???
You know the old saying 'you can't judge a book by its cover'
In fairness, your posts are rather long, and some times a bit dramatic. Sure you have good written english but that doesn't neccessary mean you are making sense.
Stop threatening to print private PMs ... Just do it, if you feel it will put value to the point you are trying to make.
Remember, threating is also a bully's tactic.
Look burger! If there's something going behind the scenes where this site is concerned. Share it with us. Stop writing posts and that of us dont quite know what you're talking or complaining about. If you're concerns are too personal for that. Write to Patricia and keep it personal
Last edited by tigergirls; 28-10-08 at 01:34.
Reason: forgot my tits ......oooooooooops I mean 't
I only forwarded relevant pms to this issue and I did that because of owners refusal to do the right thing and also because I did not want to create a feeding frenzy on boards, it is vital that the people who are interested and asked to see them were facilitated and be in a position to make up their own minds. This was the only course of action open to me and you would not believe how many people told me of things that were done and also they offered their support. You would also be surprised as to what they told me about your need to be the center of attention while feigning the hard done by victim of life’s speed bumps. It might also surprise you that you are the butt of jokes about your mini dramas in the chatroom when you leave.
You are now calling me a psychopath simply for highlighting the wrong that is done here under unbelievable bullshit by him and now incredulously by you of E-Is failure’s. If that is your conclusion then that is far more telling of you then of me. I have been more then patient with you and your chosen cohorts and infinitely more civil hem them and now regrettably you are now doing likewise.
But I say again Dolly you are now calling me a psycho on top of calling me a liar when all I did was help, if that is the case then what psychoanalytical term would you describe to those that did this in the first place and also your mental frame of mind for running to the ones that hurt you?
Patricia posted and I replied and even though it has nothing to do with you, you still insist of drawing attention to yourself while claiming to want to left along which is precisely what several Escorts have called you, namely a drama queen.
I only responded to Patricia, this thread went cold days ago.
To the forum,
I have done all I can to make known by PM to anyone that wants to know the full picture. I did so because it is vital that when in the future another Escort is targeted wrongly, that fellow Punters and Escorts have those pms in their possession so as to act as a counterweight to whatever unjust claim is made to some random Escort by bp in the future, that is all I can do under the very difficult circumstances and anyone who has issue with that I apologize but it had to be done to make forum aware of what sometimes happens. I am as sick to the back teeth of this bullshit as much if not more then you and have no wish to keep it going. Those pms are now in circulation by various well known people and that’s all I can do when E-I won’t help.
At the end of the day this is your world but my conscience would not allow me not make known what happened. To those that don’t care, that is your right, if owner did the right thing first day, none of this would have become public or have gone on for so long, it went on so long because bp made sure it would. Those that pmed, thank you for your interest, this is where I now leave this issue.
My priority now is to clear my name….
His motives i can understand, he is a control freak, but yours have taken me longer, but with some insight gleaned from your fellow Escorts I see now what your problem is.
So Dolly a simple yes or no question, given that you are lying about me and now call me a psychopath, which you know is ridiculous if you believed that then why tell a psychopath that and draw them on you, you yourself asks to meet so you are again either lying or the worlds worst judge of character.
Tell me yes or no
Are you going to retract your lies or do you want me to post EVERY pm you sent to prove my truthfulness in all I said.
I will devote all my attention to this and am giving you the option to come clean and admit you lied about me and this will end here and now. I believe in equality, make no mistake that that applies to me as a man as well, I will not tolerate the slur on my name.