Would you rather try out kinkier sex ideas or have romantic sex?

[jamieboyo]

I know its a very nosy question but anyway.....

Would you rather try out kinkier sex ideas or have romantic sex? Or maybe a bit of both??

[jamieboyo]

Who said kinky sex can't be romantic?

I suppose it depends what your idea of Kinky is???

I have an idea of what's romantic and what's Kinky in my head, and both are distinctly independend of each other.

[Doozer]

Any sex would be good these days lol
Im not that picky

[funlover12]

drink: the difference between thinking of an idea and saying it out loud

[jamieboyo]

I have been told that the line between romantic and kinky is very thin - for example romance would involve the utilisation of a feather and kinky the whole chicken.

Is that a live chicken or a dead chicken.....

The mind boggles...........

BTW, just to be clear, I would be on the romantic side myself.......Not into that kinky stuff!!!

[User300415]

Who said kinky sex can't be romantic?

And that just sums up this site.

Sex is human - it embraces all the emotions.

Don't leave this world with regrets that you didn't engage in as many forms of mutual pleasure that you could find. AS long as it doesn't hurt anyone........

[jamieboyo]

It depends on what your doing & who it's with. But any kind of sex with someone you love can be romantic I would imagine. Do bdsm couples not indulge on valentine's night? Are they being any less romantic because it doesn't fit into our view of what romantic or lovemaking should be?

Hi Man,

As long as the people involved are into it, and are consenting adults, I really don't care what other people do in their own private lives on Valentines night......Its absolutely no concern of mine, and I haven't really given them a second thought TBH.

I was generalising, and the question was meant in a general sense, even BDSM couples have something they consider Kinky I reckon!!. Everyone has something that they find romantic & something they find kinky.....Right??

I realise now that this is probably not the place to ask such a question......After all, one of the reasons that a lot of people visit escorts in the first place is to turn fetishes into reality.....

As jacklad said, the line between whats romantic & whats kinky isn't black and white, and my views of what is kinky, might be considered just good foreplay to others. I thought that would make the question more interesting, but obviously I was wrong.

[BelfastGeeza]

Both definitely have their time and place. Where I'm at currently, romantic sex is what I need, but there are times when it's just gotta be kinky. Although it's been many years since I used any of that gear. It really depends on who you are with too.

[10inchesandcounting]

I know its a very nosy question but anyway.....

Would you rather try out kinkier sex ideas or have romantic sex? Or maybe a bit of both??

To me,on the one hand, there is making love which happen only with someone you actually love, it tends to be posed and gentle, and require some sort of mental and psychological involvement and on the other hand, there is having sex which imply only a physical commitment !.

[Kassius]

Nice thread idea boyo. Room for both I suppose, sometimes you feel you just wanna bit of loving with kiss & a cuddle but other times you might think of fulfilling a fantasy which you may not do otherwise elsewhere. Haven't tried the latter tbh, at least not yet.