Is bad sex a good reason to end a relationship?

[Lara Mills]

Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

What do you think?

[BlondeMiriam]

Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

What do you think?

Sex is very important in a relationship . Can separate very quick but in the same time can make stronger the conection betwin man and woman.

[10inchesandcounting]

I would say yes, beceause slowly it drives the couple more and more apart to finally become stanger to one another.
Ultimately it will lead to a separation.
I speak from experience on this one.
My ex is a great woman and a fantastic mum, but she was completely useless in the sack, and not interested in it.
I could come up with many (valid) reasons as to why we divorced after nearly 20 years, but in the end sex was the proverbial straw ....

[Curvaceous Kate]

To be honest, if the sex is not good when you first got together, why did you get married in the first place? (supposing you are). If the sex changed since you got together, then maybe there is something else wrong and needs dealing with? Rarely do these things change for no reason and often it is either medical or emotional causes.

[Empirical]

"Sex isn't necessary in a relationship."

Or so thinks my ex.

[SteveB]

I think it is for the people in a relationship to make that decision.

Circumstances will vary.

[jamieboyo]

Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

What do you think?

Eh.....Come on guys.
This is Ireland.....

Bad sex is a fact of life in relationships for most of us, and it's usually all down to herself!!!

[SteveB]

Eh.....Come on guys.
This is Ireland.....

Bad sex is a fact of life in relationships for most of us, and it's usually all down to herself!!!

You can have good sex in a relationship in Ireland.

As long as your wife/girlfriend does not find out about it.

[10inchesandcounting]

To be honest, if the sex is not good when you first got together, why did you get married in the first place? (supposing you are). If the sex changed since you got together, then maybe there is something else wrong and needs dealing with? Rarely do these things change for no reason and often it is either medical or emotional causes.

To answer this is quite simple really, she was young and unexperienced (but not a virgin) when we met, and I always thought and assumed that it will get better with time, and I was wrong.

In all fairness we clicked on many differents things and subjects, and I thought sex was going to be something that improved with time and practice and it simply didn't.
Also I made the mistake of thinking that other critirias were more important than sex at the time, but again I was wrong.
To make a relationship work, many ingredients are required, but good sex is what will cement the lot.
I wish to point out, that I never stayed, and I was very miserable for the entire duration, but she just took it as a normal state of affairs in a relationship .

[namesjack]

suppose it depends how bad you want outta that relationship,