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    Default What are your thoughts on swinging?

    10 01 2014
    Just curious. Has anyone tried it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by P51D View Post
    10 01 2014
    Just curious. Has anyone tried it?

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    Its fine for keeping the kids occupied while mammy makes their dinner.

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    I was very much into the swing lifestyle during the late 70s and 80s in New York, now those were the days of Studio 54, Plato's Retreat, before stds like herpes and aids,,,,unprotected sex was rampant, and unfortunately today in the swing lifestyle, many do not engage in safe sex,,,,can be a very dangerous activity to take part in..I have heard of some parties in Dublin, but also have heard very mixed reviews...The classic swinger is a couple who enjoy 'sharing 'others, ..but many times men will 'invite' an escort as they may not attend as single men, and they think that they can have their way with any other woman in attendance. Husbands do not particularly like to share their woman with a man who has hired an escort to attend, though I would say that an escort would certainly practice safe sex and therefore may be a much 'safer' person to play with and the 'normal' attendee,
    good luck and to each their own,,,



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    Quote Originally Posted by P51D View Post
    10 01 2014
    Just curious. Has anyone tried it?

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    I heard there not as glamorous as there made out to be, with dubious Safety and Hygiene practices
    Would prefer to meet a lady on here any day
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    My first reaction to this post was to think no.
    But I do recall a number of parties that kinda got out of hand.
    One in particular, which involved two girls each trying to upstage one another.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Best Before View Post
    I heard there not as glamorous as there made out to be, with dubious Safety and Hygiene practices
    Would prefer to meet a lady on here any day
    I wonder if you believe everything the media writes too?

    Not once in all the time I was swinging did I EVER have unprotected sex or see anyone having unprotected sex and the club that I went to had showers on every floor, so everyone was squeaky clean. I would suggest much like Escorts, there are good and bad practices, but don't lump everyone with the same brush!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    I wonder if you believe everything the media writes too?

    Not once in all the time I was swinging did I EVER have unprotected sex or see anyone having unprotected sex and the club that I went to had showers on every floor, so everyone was squeaky clean. I would suggest much like Escorts, there are good and bad practices, but don't lump everyone with the same brush!
    It's not what I read Kate, it's what I was told by someone you used to frequent swinging parties. And from what I could garner the majority if them were in designated apartments or houses, and not clubs as you mentioned. They sound like a very well run set up

    I personally would would never have unprotected sex with anyone other than a regular partner, but that's not to say there isn't people out there that will

    I'm sure you have being asked on occasion for bare back and told them where to go

    So if 2 like minded individuals were to end up pairing off, then its not beyond the bounds of possibility.

    I hope I have made myself clearer and I wasn't trying to be flippant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Best Before View Post
    It's not what I read Kate, it's what I was told by someone you used to frequent swinging parties. And from what I could garner the majority if them were in designated apartments or houses, and not clubs as you mentioned. They sound like a very well run set up

    I personally would would never have unprotected sex with anyone other than a regular partner, but that's not to say there isn't people out there that will

    I'm sure you have being asked on occasion for bare back and told them where to go

    So if 2 like minded individuals were to end up pairing off, then its not beyond the bounds of possibility.

    I hope I have made myself clearer and I wasn't trying to be flippant.
    In all honesty maybe 2 or 3 times yes, due to the guy not having a condom on him and of course, being a modern woman I had one and made sure it was used. In comparison while Escorting, I must get asked for bareback at least 80% more.

    What does that tell you? The difference is, the lady has financial obligations with Escorting while the Swinger is doing it for fun, so which is more likely to buckle?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    In all honesty maybe 2 or 3 times yes, due to the guy not having a condom on him and of course, being a modern woman I had one and made sure it was used. In comparison while Escorting, I must get asked for bareback at least 80% more.

    What does that tell you? The difference is, the lady has financial obligations with Escorting while the Swinger is doing it for fun, so which is more likely to buckle?
    I bow down to your superior knowledge Kate
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    Quote Originally Posted by Best Before View Post
    It's not what I read Kate, it's what I was told by someone you used to frequent swinging parties. And from what I could garner the majority if them were in designated apartments or houses, and not clubs as you mentioned. They sound like a very well run set up

    I personally would would never have unprotected sex with anyone other than a regular partner, but that's not to say there isn't people out there that will

    I'm sure you have being asked on occasion for bare back and told them where to go

    So if 2 like minded individuals were to end up pairing off, then its not beyond the bounds of possibility.

    I hope I have made myself clearer and I wasn't trying to be flippant.
    I just cant get my head around any client seeking unprotected sex !!

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