Becoming an escort

[westside]

Yeah you really showed yourself in a good light, well done you,well done

and it would be good advise and not neccessarily what you want to hear either."The Sweetie" (reg tm) yep Patricia.She would be your best bet.

Thats who i would ask,
Westside.

[DollyDarling]

from a possible cyber stalker, and this wouldn't be the first time gemma, or myself, or many other girls on this site had dealings with one of those. Or a possible news reporter, and this has been done to many escorts I know (speaking trustingly and the next thing you know they are being quoted on the internet or newspaper in an article about escorting), or from a possible vice unit, and this I've experienced myself In Ireland, and they told me this site is being watched in Ireland! So you're right, I showed my true colors trying to keep you all from saying comments that could get you a write up in the paper, and invite a cyber stalker into your already complicated life, and keep your girls out of jail cause they handed over all that conveinient evidence.
Gemma is a sweet girl but most escorts are also sweet and helpful. But gemma is young and I pray so much that with her innocence she will not have trouble. Because of this quick way so many of you offer a welcome to such a suspicious poster, I hope in your case it is as it says. I'm deeply surprised you would classify me in some category where I don't belong. Do you really think competition is an issue here? That's very funny, as I'm across the Atlantic and nowhere near Ireland. And even if I was in Ireland, I never showed competiveness or bitchiness. My phone rang off the hook, so I was certainly never concerned about increasing my business or scaring off compeition. This has never been my way.
Well I'm deeply saddened about all this. That you all give too much information that could get you in serious trouble. And that you think you know me just cause I'm careful and hoping you're careful too. I did keep in mind this may be a legitimate request and I did tell her to call the number on the website for advertising. It's all there everything we need to know to get started. And this was good advice that also didn't compromise my safety and confidentiality. But she didn't appreciate that advice. And none of u saw I extended a bit of help either.
I have more experience in this industry then most of you will ever know. Paws is aware of my level in this. I have seen it all and done it all and know how to best prevent danger. In every escorts career she will eventually have something bad happen to her, and this is a learning lesson to be more cautious. I know how Irish police, journalists, and cyber stalkers work..... But do you??

[DollyDarling]

and it would be good advise and not neccessarily what you want to hear either."The Sweetie" (reg tm) yep Patricia.She would be your best bet.

Thats who i would ask,
Westside.

The only safe way to deal with questions of this on both ends is to contact staff. If she is legitimate, by posting and showing her vulnerability, she can herself attract trouble with cyber-stalkers. There are a few on this site and they are always looking for a new piece of meat to chew on. And if she is not legit, then the fellow posters are putting themselves at risk for trouble. It is very easy to get started on this site. And the staff is extremely helpful to newbys. She will have no trouble at all getting started if she contacts staff. I found it very easy to begin my tour in Ireland by talking to E-I staff. Once she is established as a genuine escort, then Im sure she will make friends of both ladies and men who will then help in her evolution. But for anyone to just give loads of info to someone who is not reputable, is only inviting trouble on themselves and this site. God knows, the police themselves told me this site is being closely watched. I love all of you and dont want you to have trouble. Please be careful! And to Diva if she is legit, it is so easy to contact staff for questions

[sexybabehere]

from a possible cyber stalker, and this wouldn't be the first time gemma had dealings with one of those. Or a possible news reporter, and this has been done to many escorts I know, off from a possible vice unit, and this I've experienced myself twice In Ireland, and the last time they told me this site is the one and only being watched in Ireland! So you're right, I showed my true colors trying to keep you all from saying comments that could get you a write up in the paper, and scare away cyber stalker, and keep your girls out of jail cause they handed over all that convienient evidence.
Gemma is a sweet girl but most escorts are also sweet and helpful. But gemma is young and I pray so much that with her innocence she will not have trouble. Because of this quick way so many of you offer a welcome to such a suspicious poster, I hope in your case it is as it says. I'm deeply surprised you would classify me in some category where I don't belong. Do you really think competition is an issue here? That's very funny, as I'm across the Atlantic and nowhere near Ireland. And even if I was in Ireland, I never showed competiveness or bitchiness.
Well I'm deeply saddened about all this. That you all give too much information that could get you in serious trouble. And that you think you know me just cause I'm careful and hoping you're careful too. I did keep in mind this may be a legitimate request and I did tell her to call the number on the website for advertising. It's all there everything we need to know to get started. And this was good advice that also didn't compromise my safety and confidentiality. But she didn't appreciate that advice. And none of u saw I extended a bit of help either.
I have more experience in this industry then most of you will ever know. Paws is aware of my level in this. I have seen it all and done it all and know how to best prevent danger. In every escorts career she will eventually have something bad happen to her, and this is a learning lesson to be more cautious. I know how Irish police and cyber stalker work..... But do you??

Hi Dolly,

You are correct that I have had a few bad incidents in this industry all of which I have handles quiet well.
I have come across some of the following:
- Stalkers, both cyber and not cyber
- Confrontations with police (Galway excellent example)
- Confrontations with Pimps
- Threats from other escorts and agencies
- Abusive clients
- Reporters
The list can go on and on. In my short career I know most if not all of the pros and cons of escorting. I know how easy it is to get wrapped into escorting but I also know when enough is enough and when it's time to call it a day. I still love escorting after the bad experiences I have had because I do love sex and I handled each incident well.

I would of loved to have another escort to talk to when I first started of but I did not I did however have a punter which rang me on a reg basis and believe me when he rang I talked the ears off him. Thank you Mr. T.

I assume this girl is genuine and if she is not I will quickly figure it out. If I do meet up with this girl. I will be meeting with this girl in a public place for a coffee etc and ensure there is nothing in sight to suggest she is a reporter etc. I will also go with my gut feeling as this is rarely wrong.

In my opinion each girl is different and different clients like different girls. There are enough horny men in Ireland to keep every escort in business so competition is not an issue..

Gemma

[Dita]

I cant believe my(I thought)innocent question turned into a 3 page thread!I don't know anyone here and nobody here knows me but I can honestly say that I have no connections whatsoever with the media the police, nobody that knows me has any idea that I'm even thinking of doing this.I can understand that people would be apprehensive about speaking to me especially after that crap that TV3 showed this year.I want a job that will supplement my current one.Of course I could get any job but I like sex and I've been doing it for free for the last three years so why not get paid for it!I also believe I am emotionally strong enough. Thanks a million to everyone who offered their contact details,I would be delighted to take you up on it.

[DollyDarling]

I hope for your sake she is legit and doesnt have a hidden microphone in her jacket to quote you on later. I just dont know why you wouldn't wait for her to prove herself a little here before making such a risky move. There are agencies out there who accept new girls all the times and teach them everything. But they are a bigger group and its harder to fuck around with them. But we are independants, and stand on our own, and must watch our backs more then an agency needs to. If you go, bring someone else with you. Go with paws or another friend, but don't go on your own. Being in a public place isn't enough. You need a friend to be there for you also, who can nudge you if you say too much, or give you a look if its looking dangerous, who can notice all corners of the room while you are talking away.
Of course we all want help when we start out. But thats the point... we at least START OUT. we start from somewhere and then we get advice along the way, once others see us safe and legit, they will give advice. But this girl can find the page so easily to advertise on, yet hasn't bothered to do so. And you are willing to just go meet someone like that with absolutely no sound proof she is who she says?
The men are the most helpful in getting us started. They tell us what we did wrong and did right and we get better and better. And once she has reviews she can be a member of a ladies board where we help each other with advice and any advice. Gemma I really think you are playing with unneccesary fire. You should know yourself by now about the ladies boards and how easy it is to put up an ad here on this site.

[bigpaws]

Dolly is absolutely correct to be caustious of "newbies" as she has had at least two bad experiences stemming from this site alone ................ one poster who became obsessed with dragging her into controversy on these boards which could have seriously affected her business and damaged her reputation ................ and another poster, who has several usernames, who harrassed her through the use of several different moblie phone numbers causing her at one point to fear for her physical safety.

So I fully understand why she is being cautious and advising us all, particularly other escorts, to be also cautious.

However you know me Dolly so you know how careful I also am about my privacy etc so rest assured I do have safe-guards in place to protect myself .............. I will also zealously protect my friends here from any danger in the real world including Gemma so you can also rest assured that she too is and will be completely safe ............ even without me Gemma is safe as her youth belies her true insightful intellect.

I offer help to Dita on the assumption that she is genuine ............... but I also know how to be careful.

In short Dolly is a compassionate caring lady who is just trying to do the right thing ............... and Gemma is a lovely lovely girl who will always offer to help others ................. we're are lucky to have women like these on this site.

Paws

[westside]

I've been doing it for free for the last three years so why not get paid for it!

that is a point but you nwwd to know what your getting into.Im assuming all the guys you had sex with you liked????Ever have sex with someone you dont like?Well thats what your heading into.Its an entirely different ball game darling.Ask Pat or one of the older escorts.

They know best,
Westside.

[DollyDarling]

In my opinion each girl is different and different clients like different girls. There are enough horny men in Ireland to keep every escort in business so competition is not an issue..

Gemma
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There are several private ladies boards, and we freely give advice to each other. We know we are helping each other's business by giving this advice, but we do it cause we are not competitive people. And at the end of the day, we want each other to stay safe and happy. But we would never say anything unless we trusted that if someone is on a board like that they are legit and well-meaning. I think caution may be mistaken as competitiveness. But if you look at the overall reputation and experience of the girl, the difference between the two will be clarified.

[anitasizzle]

Hi I'm completely new to this scene and I would love if any of the girls out there would let me ring them for advice.Thanks,Dita.

The money is great; the sex is awesome and the thrill is beyond. but you won't enjoy it to long because just about eveyone you'll encounter will make or try to make your life a living hell. They'll say or make you think that somehow you deserve the abuse because of your choosen career, but that's a lie used to rationalised their predator instincts. They secretly hate anyone's happiness, but since they've decided you're damaged goods, they feel you're open game.

If money is what you're after, find some other way of getting it because the money from this business only causes MAJOR GRIEF unless you have PREDATOR INSTINCTS-people won't allow you to enjoy it , no matter how much of an healthy attitude towards it you might have; most people have a very unhealthy attitude towards money, especially money that belongs to someone else they don't deem should have it.

You'll also will realised that most people in and around this business are emotionally damaged and would like nothing better than have you the same way.


STAY AWAY, FAR AWAY.

DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU DIFFERENTLY