What Makes a Good Client?

[busy babe18]

…recognizes the escort as an individual.
A good client is a man who recognizes that his paid companion is an individual woman and he respects her as a person. This usually requires some maturity in the client (which is why a lot of escorts don’t want to see men under 30), along with having had some solid relationships with women (also part of the reason for the 30-and-over rule).
Often, men who haven’t had much experience with escorts don’t understand this concept. They see escorts as a commodity or service and not as a personal relationship. With enough experiences, or meeting the right escort, they usually realize their mistake in perception and change their ideas about the person they pay for companionship.
Some men refuse to see any escort as more than a living sex doll. These men are almost universally loathed by escorts.
…doesn’t haggle.
A good client does not haggle or negotiate. An escort’s rates are her rates. Period. If he wants a better deal, he can become a regular client and try to negotiate from there (with a better chance of success) or he searches for someone within his financial range.
A good client is respectful of an escort’s time. He doesn’t waste her time with endless e-mails/phone calls before meeting (unless she openly encourages the correspondence). He doesn’t waste her time with numerous cancellations and rescheduling. He doesn’t break an appointment without calling first. He is on time for appointments; not early, not late. Nor does he try to extend his allotted time with her (he can ask, but she may have other plans). If she doesn’t like last-minute appointments, or appointments on certain days/times, he doesn’t make those requests.A good client is discreet. Many escorts don’t like explicit reviews or don’t allow any reviews. A good client will respect her wishes about reviews and behave accordingly.

Discretion also extends to any time they spend together in public. No escort wants attention drawn to her while she’s with a client. Likewise, she doesn’t like spending time with an overly-prying client. Although a good client is genuinely interested in his companion, he understands the line between personal interest and being intrusive.
A good client recognizes that this is a very personal business. Sometimes people have chemistry, and sometimes they don’t. Not everyone will always get along with everyone else. Sometimes the client grates on the escort’s nerves. Sometimes she can’t find his wavelength. Good clients understand that professional escorts make every effort to make him happy. And if they don’t click; it wasn’t meant to be.

Although they probably will not see this particular escort again, good clients capable of recognizing these concepts. Such mismatches are not reflections on either party. (I’m simply talking about a lack of magic happening, not instances where either party was harmed in some way.)

[jpenney]

Hi,
It seems to me you are restricting yourself to a very narrow age band. You say here you prefer clients to be over thirty and in a previous post you say you do not want older gents. You have not defined older. Can you let us know what is older so that people under thirty and over (for example forty) need not annoy you.

[busy babe18]

Lol,is not what i am saying.I just had a client from here(booking made by pm)he is over 50,and yes well good as he was clean and very gentlemanly.

[screwloose]

doesn't want to see any oldie and 50 plus is not old

[stringfurtcool]

doesn't want to see any oldie and 50 plus is not old

At what age is an oldie,i also remember the other thread and she is 18 so 50 to her is oldie lol.

[funlover12]

its a two way street though, respect works both ways, if you have a shit attitude you probably get the same in return, but where chemistry happens is where one of them gives the other a chance and despite being treated a bit bad continues to be nice. Then if the other person sees this they probably respond nicely and if they dont after a few chances well then at least one of you will be in for an empty experience.

[screwloose]

At what age is an oldie,i also remember the other thread and she is 18 so 50 to her is oldie lol.

ah no, 50 with a bit of vat is not old, nor would they consider themselves an oldie at that, would they?
I'm talking about at least 60 with alot alot of vat

[happygolucky]

…recognizes the escort as an individual.
A good client is a man who recognizes that his paid companion is an individual woman and he respects her as a person. This usually requires some maturity in the client (which is why a lot of escorts don’t want to see men under 30), along with having had some solid relationships with women (also part of the reason for the 30-and-over rule).
Often, men who haven’t had much experience with escorts don’t understand this concept. They see escorts as a commodity or service and not as a personal relationship. With enough experiences, or meeting the right escort, they usually realize their mistake in perception and change their ideas about the person they pay for companionship.
Some men refuse to see any escort as more than a living sex doll. These men are almost universally loathed by escorts.
…doesn’t haggle.
A good client does not haggle or negotiate. An escort’s rates are her rates. Period. If he wants a better deal, he can become a regular client and try to negotiate from there (with a better chance of success) or he searches for someone within his financial range.
A good client is respectful of an escort’s time. He doesn’t waste her time with endless e-mails/phone calls before meeting (unless she openly encourages the correspondence). He doesn’t waste her time with numerous cancellations and rescheduling. He doesn’t break an appointment without calling first. He is on time for appointments; not early, not late. Nor does he try to extend his allotted time with her (he can ask, but she may have other plans). If she doesn’t like last-minute appointments, or appointments on certain days/times, he doesn’t make those requests.A good client is discreet. Many escorts don’t like explicit reviews or don’t allow any reviews. A good client will respect her wishes about reviews and behave accordingly.

Discretion also extends to any time they spend together in public. No escort wants attention drawn to her while she’s with a client. Likewise, she doesn’t like spending time with an overly-prying client. Although a good client is genuinely interested in his companion, he understands the line between personal interest and being intrusive.
A good client recognizes that this is a very personal business. Sometimes people have chemistry, and sometimes they don’t. Not everyone will always get along with everyone else. Sometimes the client grates on the escort’s nerves. Sometimes she can’t find his wavelength. Good clients understand that professional escorts make every effort to make him happy. And if they don’t click; it wasn’t meant to be.

Although they probably will not see this particular escort again, good clients capable of recognizing these concepts. Such mismatches are not reflections on either party. (I’m simply talking about a lack of magic happening, not instances where either party was harmed in some way.)

Arrives and leaves on time.
Has the agreed fee ready
Is clean polite and respectful
Treats the lady like a lady and not a sex doll
Understands the meaning of the word NO.
if you have all this then you can be considered a
perfect client.

[Bambam1]

one that has loads of money

[Parrot]

I'm thinking about this question myself.

Do escorts prefer booking in advance or short term? A day. a few hours? 30 mins?

Do you want calls or prefer private messages on here?

What do you want your man to ware? A suit, some nice jeans, just something clean that doesn't have a slogon like if found please return to the pub written on it?

Should he ware aftershave or would you prefer not because many put too much on?

Do they have to shave their face, or is stubble ok? What about a full on Beard like santa or the wizard guy from lord of the rings?