Usually I bar nobody. I simply edit out offensive stuff.
This week, because things got totally out of control, I warned everyone that enough was enough and if it didn't stop I would bar those doing it. Bigpaws then stopped. Hot Lizzy didn't. That's why currently he is not barred and she is.
It is not double standards. It is the way things went. Bigpaws chose to respect my saying is enough is enough, Liz chose to make more vile offensive comments. So, he wasn't sent on holiday and she was.
Pat x