As a still pretty inexperienced punter, I have a question about an escort's security (which is not meant to start a flame war, so genuine replies only please...).
What does an escort mean when she says she has "security" for incalls, and is there etiquette for getting past that security? Is it a big bouncer-type guy who frisks you outside the lady's room before letting you in, or is it someone in the vicinity who's just a phone call away?
The escort's personal security is tantamount, of course - we've all seen the posts in the warning section where scumbags try to mug (or worse) escorts who are working out of hotels or whatever. I suppose that a truly genuine punter would not mind to have to be checked over by a security guy, but given that many punters value their anonymity, how do escorts find the line between a possibly intimidating bouncer scaring off business and defending themselves against the scumbags who want to hurt them?