Probably because of the condom. I also need to be finished off by hand sometimes, with the condom taken off.
I have no such problems with the partner as we don't use condoms anymore.
Probably because of the condom. I also need to be finished off by hand sometimes, with the condom taken off.
I have no such problems with the partner as we don't use condoms anymore.
They are my biggest problem, I can get an erection no problem but sometimes once the condom goes on down he goes and sometimes refuses to go back up, especially if the condom is any way tight. I knows it's psychological but that doesn't help when your getting frustrated with a beautiful woman and the fucker is gone on strike. It takes a special lady to get him going again
Just to ad, without a condom I never have an issue so I know they are the problem, you would think a tight condom is like a cock ring and holds the blood in but with me it's the opposite.
Last edited by anon361; 11-11-13 at 11:51.
User300415 (11-11-13)
That's exactly what happened to me once. The second she put on the condom, I started losing my erection. So she asked me "You don't like condoms, do you ?".
I said yes and she gave me OWO for the rest of the appointment. Only happens sometimes though, most of the time I can keep the erection but just find it difficult to cum with a condom on.
Why not ask her to give you a handjob till you get close then have sex or maybe you've tried that. In that case I'm all out of ideas.
Usually it's a good thing being able to last long, I guess with escorts it's not cos you're worrying about time running out, that's probably your problem. Maybe try booking longer so you can relax and not worry about time.
Either that or get a girlfriend, then you won't have to worry about time at all. Easier said than done right
I'm the same at the moment, but I've only been with a couple of ladies and I hope it improves with a little more experience. I'd also be thinking about trying to cum from the start, which I don't think is helpful. I need to relax a little more, and enjoy.
I think its not only to do with being accustomed to using your hand, but also maybe having porn to stimulate you while your jerking off. I think abstaining from porn may be more helpful than abstaining from jerking off; although maybe try give it a break for 3 of 4 days. Also a flesh light may be good practice for the real thing, as apposed to using your hand..
I like when a girl is trying to make me cum quickly...and you are holding out for as long as possible and if I don't cum the whip of the rubber and suck me off so hard until I explode....some girls they just like in zone,psycho look on there face...won't stop till the load out of me.....I end up in a fit of laughter when I blow....nirvana
Knight rider (11-11-13)
A lot of guys lose feeling when the condom is put on especially when they are not circumcised.