Not as easy as it seems - a tribute to independent escorts

[BillMay]

On paper it seems the easiest job and is frequently derided as such.
"Have sex with men for money"

BUT, having long played the dating game, including Ashley Madison's (married and cheating) ,
I've come to really appreciate just what it really means.
"Have sex with unattractive, or overweight, or non respectful men for money"

And yes I include myself in the overweight small cock category. So I try to make up for it by being as respectful and clean as I can be and as pleasurable an experience for both of us. (Actually made an escort orgasm the other day for the first time, which was fantastic!)

But I digress from the point I am trying to make.

Respect to the ladies who just don't show this and make us feel attractive and sexy.
And you are mainly exceptionally beautiful girls with fantastic model type figures who normally wouldn't give us a second look and you expect to be married to a rich playboy or something.

I cant even get a date with some very average looking and over weight themselves non escort ladies who think they are gods gift, so for some of the ladies to be able to act as if I am Brad Pitt is a miracle.
Yes I know the ladies are paid, but I'm just saying in a long winded way that it cant be easy when confronted with a blob of large white quivering blubber! And respect is due.

I don't think I could do it if the roles were reversed not even for millions!

That's the thing us guys don't really understand, when we meet a truly beautiful funny and intelligent escort, you just wonder why on earth are you doing this, meeting men like me, when surely you could be doing something else?

So, thanks girls!

[BillMay]

and by clean, I also mean orally clean. I love big sloppy wet French kissing, so I always make sure my teeth are clean and breath fresh!.

[Stephanie]

and by clean, I also mean orally clean. I love big sloppy wet French kissing, so I always make sure my teeth are clean and breath fresh!.

You make it sound like it's a horrifically God awful distasteful thing to do , to be an escort ..

I happen to like it , happen to enjoy it !

Physical attractiveness goes only skin deep. It is the attitude that matters, what makes the difference !


I am very fortunate , I have nice people coming to my door. But even so , there have been people I turn away.

They get sent away due to attitude , and very rarely because of physical attributes.




Have a little confidence. Sure you're a nice guy xx

[BillMay]

You make it sound like it's a horrifically God awful distasteful thing to do , to be an escort ..

I happen to like it , happen to enjoy it !

Physical attractiveness goes only skin deep. It is the attitude that matters, what makes the difference !


I am very fortunate , I have nice people coming to my door. But even so , there have been people I turn away.

They get sent away due to attitude , and very rarely because of physical attributes.




Have a little confidence. Sure you're a nice guy xx

Oh I am confident enough, and I take your point, but we do judge with our eyes and I'm just saying that in the dating world, they are picking one guy and even for NSA, I have found that even the plainest of lady's to be exceptionally picky.
In your world, I guess that attitude is what counts and maybe in real life you choose that over looks, but you are very rare indeed to do that!

I don't mean it sound horrific and I'm sure you enjoy it because if you didn't then you just couldn't do it IMO, but there must be times when you just think "urgh" but be professional.
Ive had escorts say "your belly is in the way" and "what is wrong, because its not me" (and then point at herself and fab body)
and then it is her attitude not creating a sexy vibe and making you self -conscious.
That's why reviews are important if used properly, you can find the real special ladies that are worth spending time like I'm sure you are

[ManHold]

Oh I am confident enough, and I take your point, but we do judge with our eyes and I'm just saying that in the dating world, they are picking one guy and even for NSA, I have found that even the plainest of lady's to be exceptionally picky.
In your world, I guess that attitude is what counts and maybe in real life you choose that over looks, but you are very rare indeed to do that!

I don't mean it sound horrific and I'm sure you enjoy it because if you didn't then you just couldn't do it IMO, but there must be times when you just think "urgh" but be professional.
Ive had escorts say "your belly is in the way" and "what is wrong, because its not me" (and then point at herself and fab body)
and then it is her attitude not creating a sexy vibe and making you self -conscious.
That's why reviews are important if used properly, you can find the real special ladies that are worth spending time like I'm sure you are

Maybe you can not find a woman in RL because you are soo shallow. Looks are not everything. Even fat fuks can find luv lol

[Stephanie]

Oh I am confident enough, and I take your point, but we do judge with our eyes and I'm just saying that in the dating world, they are picking one guy and even for NSA, I have found that even the plainest of lady's to be exceptionally picky.
In your world, I guess that attitude is what counts and maybe in real life you choose that over looks, but you are very rare indeed to do that!

I don't mean it sound horrific and I'm sure you enjoy it because if you didn't then you just couldn't do it IMO, but there must be times when you just think "urgh" but be professional.
Ive had escorts say "your belly is in the way" and "what is wrong, because its not me" (and then point at herself and fab body)
and then it is her attitude not creating a sexy vibe and making you self -conscious.
That's why reviews are important if used properly, you can find the real special ladies that are worth spending time like I'm sure you are

If I feel "urgh" , I politely excuse myself and beg off, saying it would be a waste of his money and my time , to continue.

Some need more convincing than others, but done politely, it is the right thing.

Simples. Never do more than what I enjoy xx


"Ive had escorts say "your belly is in the way" and "what is wrong, because its not me" (and then point at herself and fab body) and then it is her attitude not creating a sexy vibe and making you self -conscious."


-- that kind of attitude to me is unprofessional !! We are here to show a good time, for those fleeting

hours to engage fully with the person, and to enjoy ourselves. Belittling another person is never ok. Especially not when

1. you are naked , 2. when you (the provider) getting compensated for a 'service' 3. when you are a decent human being.



Might I suggest you reconsider your selection process / criteria ? xx




bah dyslexia...

[Lucy Chambers]

If I feel "urgh" , I politely excuse myself and beg off, saying it would be a waste of his money and my time to continue.

Some need more convincing than others, but done politely, it is the right thing.

Simples. Never do more than what I enjoy xx


"Ive had escorts say "your belly is in the way" and "what is wrong, because its not me" (and then point at herself and fab body) and then it is her attitude not creating a sexy vibe and making you self -conscious."


-- that kind of attitude to me is unprofessional !! We are here to show a good time, for those fleeting

hours to engage fully with the person, and to enjoy ourselves. Belittling another person is never ok. Especially not when

1. you are naked , 2. when you (the provider) getting compensated for a 'service' 3. when you are decent human being.



Might I suggest you reconsider your selection process / criteria ? xx

That's kind of what he's saying chuck. Golly.

that's why reviews are important if used properly, you can find the real special ladies that are worth spending time like I'm sure you are

Does every post on this forum really have to be taken apart to show others how wrong they are or how superior the other is?

[daddaddy]

) every body like to do

[screwloose]

yes but do escorts really like to see us auld bald overweight men with very small wrinkled willies even if we are clean and respectable .
surely if we turned up at the door you wouldnt turn us away but would just get on with the task in hand but would they much rather prefer a nice tall respectable guy in his 20's 30's with a nice body and a nice 6" plus cock, I always say they would without a doubt...

[Lucy Chambers]

yes but do escorts really like to see us auld bald overweight men with very small wrinkled willies even if we are clean and respectable .
surely if we turned up at the door you wouldnt turn us away but would just get on with the task in hand but would they much rather prefer a nice tall respectable guy in his 20's 30's with a nice body and a 6" plus cock, I always say they would with a doubt...

Depends. If you have a sense of humour and know how to make me laugh you are worth ten hot guys. Besides, hot guys tend the be silent starfish