Speaking of confrontation!

[Kendra]

As I was saying on another thread, I hate confrontation but sometimes there is no way round it.

I just had a client who declined my offer of a shower, I couldn't smell anything till he took his clothes off (I was away getting him a drink while he undressed) When I came back I was smacked in the face with pure BO

He originally booked for a half hour but asked to extend, I told him no.

He was trying to put his arm around me to pull me in for a kiss, his dick was still wet from the piss he just did YUCK!! But my body language was very off, he wasn't picking up on it so I HAD to confront him which I hate.

I just said to him, I am sorry but I did offer you a shower, you declined and your hygiene isn't up to scratch at all. I was freshly showered for you and I have made it clear on my profile that if people expect me to get close & intimate with them, then they need to be clean.

He instantly lost his hardon

Never the less he kept trying to pull me close to which my boob stinks of BO and he has the cheek to ask for a massage, I said normally this is something I automatically do but i'm not smearing sweat all around your back, sorry. The sweat was pissing off him.

So he just asked for a hand job, no problem....job done then just to insult me even further he asks for a shower, he even used the mouth wash. I said really you should have done this before we started.

I don't mind men using the shower at the beginning and the end but I do mind them refusing a shower at the start and being smelly but having the cheek to have one before they leave.

So that was one of the shittiest meetings ever, he's £100 worse off for a shit service, but really what else could I do?

I am just out the shower, although my body smells nice, my hair stinks from his armpit from putting his arm round me and I am going out for dinner.

Not impressed

[EnglishAlex]

As I was saying on another thread, I hate confrontation but sometimes there is no way round it.

I just had a client who declined my offer of a shower, I couldn't smell anything till he took his clothes off (I was away getting him a drink while he undressed) When I came back I was smacked in the face with pure BO

He originally booked for a half hour but asked to extend, I told him no.

He was trying to put his arm around me to pull me in for a kiss, his dick was still wet from the piss he just did YUCK!! But my body language was very off, he wasn't picking up on it so I HAD to confront him which I hate.

I just said to him, I am sorry but I did offer you a shower, you declined and your hygiene isn't up to scratch at all. I was freshly showered for you and I have made it clear on my profile that if people expect me to get close & intimate with them, then they need to be clean.

He instantly lost his hardon

Never the less he kept trying to pull me close to which my boob stinks of BO and he has the cheek to ask for a massage, I said normally this is something I automatically do but i'm not smearing sweat all around your back, sorry. The sweat was pissing off him.

So he just asked for a hand job, no problem....job done then just to insult me even further he asks for a shower, he even used the mouth wash. I said really you should have done this before we started.

I don't mind men using the shower at the beginning and the end but I do mind them refusing a shower at the start and being smelly but having the cheek to have one before they leave.

So that was one of the shittiest meetings ever, he's £100 worse off for a shit service, but really what else could I do?

I am just out the shower, although my body smells nice, my hair stinks from his armpit from putting his arm round me and I am going out for dinner.

Not impressed

If you're that grossed out by BO (totally with you on that) then you ought to insist on him having a shower in the first place. That way, you'll be happy to get up close and personal with him, he'll love your company and enjoy your skills and everyone is happy.

It can seem daunting when people refuse point blank but it's worth insisting. Suggest getting in the shower with him if it helps! If he still refuses, tell him you wont compromise on cleanliness so the service will be extremely limited. Personally I'd tell him to get out if he was stinking and wouldn't wash. I have long hair too and don't want it getting covered in some stinking pit juice

[Stephanie]

As I was saying on another thread, I hate confrontation but sometimes there is no way round it.

I just had a client who declined my offer of a shower, I couldn't smell anything till he took his clothes off (I was away getting him a drink while he undressed) When I came back I was smacked in the face with pure BO

He originally booked for a half hour but asked to extend, I told him no.

He was trying to put his arm around me to pull me in for a kiss, his dick was still wet from the piss he just did YUCK!! But my body language was very off, he wasn't picking up on it so I HAD to confront him which I hate.

I just said to him, I am sorry but I did offer you a shower, you declined and your hygiene isn't up to scratch at all. I was freshly showered for you and I have made it clear on my profile that if people expect me to get close & intimate with them, then they need to be clean.

He instantly lost his hardon

Never the less he kept trying to pull me close to which my boob stinks of BO and he has the cheek to ask for a massage, I said normally this is something I automatically do but i'm not smearing sweat all around your back, sorry. The sweat was pissing off him.

So he just asked for a hand job, no problem....job done then just to insult me even further he asks for a shower, he even used the mouth wash. I said really you should have done this before we started.

I don't mind men using the shower at the beginning and the end but I do mind them refusing a shower at the start and being smelly but having the cheek to have one before they leave.

So that was one of the shittiest meetings ever, he's £100 worse off for a shit service, but really what else could I do?

I am just out the shower, although my body smells nice, my hair stinks from his armpit from putting his arm round me and I am going out for dinner.

Not impressed

How about saying a flat NO.

No to any interaction .

Why put yourself in such a situation where you are doing something that you do NOT want to do ??

Is the 100 worth feeling so out of joint ?? Surely you don't need the money so bad as to have to do things that you do not want to do ??

I have been in the business two and a half years. Never did, never do anything against my will and desire (read my Sig) .

Hence I am still (and for a while yet) smiling xx



Kendra,

I have been quietly reading your threads...

I am of the cooperative, collaborative, giver/pleaser mindset/soul : have an open heart . It serves me well.

You seem to come to this game (or have developed this..) with an adversarial angle.



I think much depends on our own attitude : if you are on edge, in bad mood, expecting bad things to happen,

guess what ? Those very things will happen. {<< when I'm like that -- fleetingly though I may be -- I take the time off}.

Me ? I expect my guys to be clean and polite, to be on time and have proper funds at hand.

Men are nice. Men are good. Men treat me well. Men do not show up stinkers or cheesers.

I expect my own self to be in a good mood and smiling, engaging, and aiming to please. We're happy this way.

Won't you too try it on ?

[zoozoozoo]

As I was saying on another thread, I hate confrontation but sometimes there is no way round it.

I just had a client who declined my offer of a shower, I couldn't smell anything till he took his clothes off (I was away getting him a drink while he undressed) When I came back I was smacked in the face with pure BO

He originally booked for a half hour but asked to extend, I told him no.

He was trying to put his arm around me to pull me in for a kiss, his dick was still wet from the piss he just did YUCK!! But my body language was very off, he wasn't picking up on it so I HAD to confront him which I hate.

I just said to him, I am sorry but I did offer you a shower, you declined and your hygiene isn't up to scratch at all. I was freshly showered for you and I have made it clear on my profile that if people expect me to get close & intimate with them, then they need to be clean.

He instantly lost his hardon

Never the less he kept trying to pull me close to which my boob stinks of BO and he has the cheek to ask for a massage, I said normally this is something I automatically do but i'm not smearing sweat all around your back, sorry. The sweat was pissing off him.

So he just asked for a hand job, no problem....job done then just to insult me even further he asks for a shower, he even used the mouth wash. I said really you should have done this before we started.

I don't mind men using the shower at the beginning and the end but I do mind them refusing a shower at the start and being smelly but having the cheek to have one before they leave.

So that was one of the shittiest meetings ever, he's £100 worse off for a shit service, but really what else could I do?

I am just out the shower, although my body smells nice, my hair stinks from his armpit from putting his arm round me and I am going out for dinner.

Not impressed

With all the threads you have been starting here over the last couple of days its a wonder you had any time for a client lol

[Kendra]

How about saying a flat NO.

No to any interaction .

Why put yourself in such a situation where you are doing something that you do NOT want to do ??

Is the 100 worth feeling so out of joint ?? Surely you don't need the money so bad as to have to do things that you do not want to do ??

I have been in the business two and a half years. Never did, never do anything against my will and desire (read my Sig) .

Hence I am still (and for a while yet) smiling xx



Kendra,

I have been quietly reading your threads...

I am of the cooperative, collaborative, giver/pleaser mindset/soul : have an open heart . It serves me well.

You seem to come to this game (or have developed this..) with an adversarial angle.



I think much depends on our own attitude : if you are on edge, in bad mood, expecting bad things to happen,

guess what ? Those very things will happen. {<< when I'm like that -- fleetingly though I may be -- I take the time off}.

Me ? I expect my guys to be clean and polite, to be on time and have proper funds at hand.

Men are nice. Men are good. Men treat me well. Men do not show up stinkers or cheesers.

I expect my own self to be in a good mood and smiling, engaging, and aiming to please. We're happy this way.

Won't you too try it on ?

Thanksfor your comment, not sure how my client turning up a smelly bastard and not taking a shower when I asked him to is anything to do with me smiling an being in a good mood etc. I had my other clients before him and was in a happy mood sice they showed up clean and polite. It's a 2 way street. Obviously my mood is gonna change when I get a bad client like that. Perhaps your more experienced or more assertive than me?

[easygo]

You should keep in mind 2 simple words yes or no remember by accepting a dirty client it reflects badly on yourself and the profession

[Kendra]

With all the threads you have been starting here over the last couple of days its a wonder you had any time for a client lol

There's 24 hours in a day, I am in my base city. When I am at my base I don't work any more than 3 hours a day so that leaves me plenty of time to come on here smarty pants x

[samlad]

With all the threads you have been starting here over the last couple of days its a wonder you had any time for a client lol

To be fair, with so many blokes wanting a quick suck and go for a handful of change, it's a wonder why escorts don't have MORE time to post on the forums

[mer]

Hi Kendra,

This is the troll who seemingly comes out at night and like Stephanie above I also have made an effort to read a lot of your posts recently and to be honest ( only in my opinion ) a lot of it does not read well.

You recently had a tread deleted where several of us had a go because you got on the forums slagging of a client and low and behold here is another one.

Your attitude stinks in my opinion and a lot of you comments and posts on here are borderline disgracefull and vulgar.

Thank god I have never had the misfortune in meeting you in real life as your exactly the kind of people I stay away from.

Finally before you go into a mad attack mode remember what I said last night " some times writing less or nothing is actually MORE"


Horrible tread , inappropriate and should be deleted

why is it a horrible thread? is it cause you are a member of the smelly crew lol

[Rachel Divine]

Kendra , with all due respect , why didn't you give him the money back and show him the door?