Market research threads..

[dob]

Is it better to work blindly when knew? Would you go into any work situation in that way, or would you do the research first? Which way is more professional?

Good point, but would you expect honest disclosure with some many smarty pants and pot stirrers and other assorted near do wells lurking about.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Good point, but would you expect honest disclosure with some many smarty pants and pot stirrers and other assorted near do wells lurking about.

When I first started posting here I was very similar to Kendra. I was treading on unfamiliar territory and despite my age everything was still very new to me, as I had only worked part time in the UK before going over to Belfast initially. I was very optimistic and excited and my attitude got thrown back at me with disgust and I was called a tout, by all but a few. Admittedly I didn't say anything negative about clients, as I had very few negative experiences at that point (if any at all), as I had never had a 'walker' and very few 'no shows'. I had only worked part-time, so my world did not depend on the income.

Being slammed as a tout was very upsetting and it took a long time before I was taken seriously, or should I say more seriously. I have never changed my way of posting, but perhaps with time and wisdom, now answer to posts that I feel more confident with or passionate about.

People here can be very quick to be critical and look for the negative and as such they bring out the negative in people.

[justfrank44]

The difference that I can see Kate is whereas you were fairly new to the business, Kendra , apparently has been doing it for a while now and has already visited the north of Ireland. I can´t see that there would be a big difference between northern and southern clients, but then again, I can barely see this bloody screen without my glasses on. Personally speaking, I have no problem with escorts doing a bit of research, now popularity polls, thats a different story My therapist has told me to get the fuck over it.

[Ted E Bear]

The difference that I can see Kate is whereas you were fairly new to the business, Kendra , apparently has been doing it for a while now and has already visited the north of Ireland. I can´t see that there would be a big difference between northern and southern clients, but then again, I can barely see this bloody screen without my glasses on. Personally speaking, I have no problem with escorts doing a bit of research, now popularity polls, thats a different story My therapist has told me to get the fuck over it.

That's it Frank,a few questions would be grand but a bloody week of it takes the biscuit , surely a few PM's to ladies that work in Scotland and here would have given her a much more accurate answer.

[frankly1964]

Wow what a response to this thread. U are one clever woman and I applaud you. Next time I am in Dublin I would love to meet you. You are a legend x

[dob]

When I first started posting here I was very similar to Kendra. I was treading on unfamiliar territory and despite my age everything was still very new to me, as I had only worked part time in the UK before going over to Belfast initially. I was very optimistic and excited and my attitude got thrown back at me with disgust and I was called a tout, by all but a few. Admittedly I didn't say anything negative about clients, as I had very few negative experiences at that point (if any at all), as I had never had a 'walker' and very few 'no shows'. I had only worked part-time, so my world did not depend on the income.

Being slammed as a tout was very upsetting and it took a long time before I was taken seriously, or should I say more seriously. I have never changed my way of posting, but perhaps with time and wisdom, now answer to posts that I feel more confident with or passionate about.

People here can be very quick to be critical and look for the negative and as such they bring out the negative in people.

Whoever treat you badly on the forums when you started here first should be ashamed of themselves, you are the best poster here, too much negativity in the world.

Wow what a response to this thread. U are one clever woman and I applaud you. Next time I am in Dublin I would love to meet you. You are a legend x

Are you talking about Kate franly1964? A new legend is born......

[zoozoozoo]

That's it Frank,a few questions would be grand but a bloody week of it takes the biscuit , surely a few PM's to ladies that work in Scotland and here would have given her a much more accurate answer.

One of the first threads Kendra started I suggested to her that she contact Kate seeing as how Kate is based in Belfast and visits the south sometimes , dont know if she ever did but i do think from the start she was a little odd in her approach to asking about the scene down here , it was almost like we were all to bow down and plead with her to grace our shores

[10inchesandcounting]

Is it better to work blindly when knew? Would you go into any work situation in that way, or would you do the research first? Which way is more professional?

Research is fine, but on more occasion than one it felt very judgemental and reformist!.

[samlad]

As Kendra no longer wishes to post here, I don't think we need to make a big discussion about it. She had asked me to remove two of her threads and that's that.