Quick request for some advice please

[kct]

Hi all,

I am just looking for some advice, would appreciate any input.

I am thinking of meeting with a non-escort girl who I am chatting with online, on a particular site. We are both interested in experimenting with some submission / domination - her being the dominant one. We are both around the same age.

Just wondering if any folks on here have met up with 'regular' girls for this kind of casual encounter (or something similar)? Did you enjoy it or regret it? My one concern is 'revealing myself' I guess, and not having the anonymity anymore.

She seems completely normal though, I have just never done this before! She hasn't either, so I guess it is a lot different to doing this with a pro-domme or whatever.

Any advice / thoughts? As I said, it is new to both of us so we would really be just going with the flow...

Would love to hear some advice for a newbie..

[Stephanie]

Hi all,

I am just looking for some advice, would appreciate any input.

I am thinking of meeting with a non-escort girl who I am chatting with online, on a particular site. We are both interested in experimenting with some submission / domination - her being the dominant one. We are both around the same age.

Just wondering if any folks on here have met up with 'regular' girls for this kind of casual encounter (or something similar)? Did you enjoy it or regret it? My one concern is 'revealing myself' I guess, and not having the anonymity anymore.

She seems completely normal though, I have just never done this before! She hasn't either, so I guess it is a lot different to doing this with a pro-domme or whatever.

Any advice / thoughts? As I said, it is new to both of us so we would really be just going with the flow...

Would love to hear some advice for a newbie..

So go forth and explore in joyful unison !








What exactly IS your question ?


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[kct]

Ha yes sorry, I realised after posting that it was a bit vague!!

Well I guess it's just that I wonder that if it 'got out' that we had done this, then it wouldn't be good! I am prob over-thinking it, but just imagining something popping up online about it, if it didn't go well and she went and publicised it or something. But then again, I guess she wouldn't want to be putting it out there either!

So my question is - should I go ahead with it if I feel there is even a slight chance it could 'get out'?

I prob am over-thinking it though! As I said, I am new to it all!

[Tony soprano22]

agree on a safety word lets say bananna if either of you feel uncomfortable say the safety word eg bananna or whateva yous choose and either one will know to slow the pace or stop etc

[kct]

agree on a safety word lets say bananna if either of you feel uncomfortable say the safety word eg bananna or whateva yous choose and either one will know to slow the pace or stop etc

Cheers yeah all of that is fine, I am just talking more about if the other person was to reveal anything online or elsewhere at a later stage about what we did. Suppose I am just wondering about whether you can trust someone you don't know to be completely discreet?

[Stella]

Why dont you meet for a coffe dinner few times before?!
Online persona can be different for some ppl its easier to communicate via web and hard to express him/herself in reality!

Forgot to add yes go with the flow why not?!
Also if its an occasional meeting you can be 'John'

[kct]

Thanks, yes the plan is for us to meet for a drink and a chat first....

[Stephanie]

Cheers yeah all of that is fine, I am just talking more about if the other person was to reveal anything online or elsewhere at a later stage about what we did. Suppose I am just wondering about whether you can trust someone you don't know to be completely discreet?

I'd say that's the Million Dollar Question lol !

If you want discretion, you're prob better off with a paid companion ..



At the same time though, how is this any different from any other kind of sexual encounter you might have ?

Are you not worried the girl might talk if your wiener ain't big enough, your tongue not fast enough ; if your

caresses are not tender enough, if .. you get my drift ?


It's an encounter between consenting adults (you are, are you ?). Would she discuss her private sex life with others ?

If in doubt, do a Risk Assessment >> is the possibility of exposure worth the thrill ?

[kct]

I was thinking about all of that myself! We are consenting adults of course

Yes I guess that is true, not much different from any other encounter... she seems to want to meet up first, have a chat and see how it goes before we decide what to do. Which I defo agree with...

I'd say that's the Million Dollar Question lol !

If you want discretion, you're prob better off with a paid companion ..



At the same time though, how is this any different from any other kind of sexual encounter you might have ?

Are you not worried the girl might talk if your wiener ain't big enough, your tongue not fast enough ; if your

caresses are not tender enough, if .. you get my drift ?


It's an encounter between consenting adults (you are, are you ?). Would she discuss her private sex life with others ?

If in doubt, do a Risk Assessment >> is the possibility of exposure worth the thrill ?

[fiatpunter]

There is a whole world of swinging going on out there with very little getting out.

You won't be the first believe me! ;-)