Can't love it always, unfortunately lol

[AbsoluteNoob]

I was talking John McCririck fugly.



As long as you don't look like that, you're golden.

[funlover12]

that is the nightmare situation for a punter

he has had two 'dates' with you and now that its getting to the sex stage [Im inferring this from what you have said and talking about this situation specifically] you are closing shop poor lad/gent talk about a kick in the balls, in essence you have strung him along in some ways, and its starting to sound l;ike a real life experience nearly . this is a VERY tricky situation to be in. best bet is to ignore the calls and hope he gets the message and doesnt turn out to be a nutter or something. but as someone said earlier he might remind you of someone you know and dont like or someone you know and love and dont want to have sex with that person because it reminds you of that person in your 'real' life. on balance I think ignore the calls is best or tell him he reminds you of someone in your person life. its not like you are short on clients either way

[thumbles]

Toughie wot an awful situation to be in I don't envy u ciara
It's like u said he is a nice guy and I'm sure if u sit him down and explain honesty is the best policy no point sweeping it under the carpet it will only cause more problems for urself down the road like I said I don't envy u

[cass]

As someone who finds it hard to be honest,with the people close to me it would be very hypocritical of me to give you advice but here goes anyway. Just let him know gentle like, id say he will embarrassed but look I know you dont like to lie to people so you'll just have to be honest.
XXX
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[ciara]

I don't know personally I think thats maybe over complicating it a little
It's a simple fact of life there will be people in life you don't want to have sex with!!! Jeez some people only want to have sex with ONE person haha!! Lucky for me that's not the case I generally love having sex with lots of people but not all that's it!! Nothing more nothing less!! So just wanted to know a nice way of no longer having sex with that person without hurting his feelings

that is the nightmare situation for a punter

he has had two 'dates' with you and now that its getting to the sex stage [Im inferring this from what you have said and talking about this situation specifically] you are closing shop poor lad/gent talk about a kick in the balls, in essence you have strung him along in some ways, and its starting to sound l;ike a real life experience nearly . this is a VERY tricky situation to be in. best bet is to ignore the calls and hope he gets the message and doesnt turn out to be a nutter or something. but as someone said earlier he might remind you of someone you know and dont like or someone you know and love and dont want to have sex with that person because it reminds you of that person in your 'real' life. on balance I think ignore the calls is best or tell him he reminds you of someone in your person life. its not like you are short on clients either way

[ciara]

I don't know personally I think thats maybe over complicating it a little
It's a simple fact of life there will be people in life you don't want to have sex with!!! Jeez some people only want to have sex with ONE person haha!! Lucky for me that's not the case I generally love having sex with lots of people but not all that's it!! Nothing more nothing less!! So just wanted to know a nice way of no longer having sex with that person without hurting his feelings

that is the nightmare situation for a punter

he has had two 'dates' with you and now that its getting to the sex stage [Im inferring this from what you have said and talking about this situation specifically] you are closing shop poor lad/gent talk about a kick in the balls, in essence you have strung him along in some ways, and its starting to sound l;ike a real life experience nearly . this is a VERY tricky situation to be in. best bet is to ignore the calls and hope he gets the message and doesnt turn out to be a nutter or something. but as someone said earlier he might remind you of someone you know and dont like or someone you know and love and dont want to have sex with that person because it reminds you of that person in your 'real' life. on balance I think ignore the calls is best or tell him he reminds you of someone in your person life. its not like you are short on clients either way

[jayf1]

But sometimes, well the situation that's on my mind at present, the guy is so super lovely
I don't know what it is but he just turns me off
It's strange as he is polite and clean and everything I just really don't enjoy having sex with him

If he was an ass trust me I wouldn't be finding it hard at all to tell him to jog on :S

next time he calls just tell him straight. say your sorry but you cant accept an appointment as you dont feel you clicked in the right way and you wouldnt be able to provide a good service for him and maybe recomend a fellow escort that would be able to look after him better. i know if it was me i'd rather that than being ignored.(i know its not me as we have never met)
then again he might see this thread and figure out its about him and not call you again and the problem is solved.

[jayf1]

Your body, your choice, and just let my team know in advance when he tells you he will give you a spiteful, negative review and we'll delete it when it comes in

i dont think this is a good policy. some escorts could use this to avoid a true negative review.

[very shy guy]

But sometimes, well the situation that's on my mind at present, the guy is so super lovely
I don't know what it is but he just turns me off
It's strange as he is polite and clean and everything I just really don't enjoy having sex with him

If he was an ass trust me I wouldn't be finding it hard at all to tell him to jog on :S

You just don't like teddybears Ciara,I understand lol,still it is your choice.

[EnglishAlex]

I think that it would be pretty devastating to realisie that I couldn't even get someone to sleep with me for money

Escorts who wont just suck it and smile 100% of the time. Shocking.

But as an escort, the one thing I can say from experience is the one way to end up with a stalker is to knock them back. Certain men think as long as they have the money and say please nicely then we can't say no.

So true. I wish they'd be more understanding and realise we're really not machines. If we'd rather not be in a situation which is so personal and intimate with someone, we shouldn't feel like we have to be. Self preservation is more important than money. With stalkers who we've had the misfortune to pick up this way, it's like we're held personally responsible for every knock back they've ever had. Stalkers are horrible, avoiding them can be a minefield

Just tell him that he's the spitting image of a close family member that you see often and that it has been making you feel more and more uncomfortable to have an appointment with him.

There's no benefit in taking the honest approach tbh.

That'd be creepy alright, looking down and seeing the double of your brother doing rude things. Yuk.

It's a simple fact of life there will be people in life you don't want to have sex with!!! Jeez some people only want to have sex with ONE person haha!! Lucky for me that's not the case I generally love having sex with lots of people but not all that's it!! Nothing more nothing less!! So just wanted to know a nice way of no longer having sex with that person without hurting his feelings

Lots of people not all lol. Bless your little heart Ciara, trying not to hurt his feelings x

I'd go with the family member suggestion myself