Aldi and the fill your trolley mentality Vs. Corner Shop relationship…

[roryman]

Well its a nice idea QPH, but what you are describing is an affair

Remember most punters are married or in a relationship, so they dont want to be seen in public.

Generally the system works well, but if you read the reviews, its quite interesting how a guy can be made to feel "extra" special because he got an extra 10 - 30mins, even if its just talk.
And thats the thing, some escorts are just "born to do it" because they are people persons, who enjoy the company

When a beautiful sex woman fixes soley you within her gaze, you walk out feeling 10ft high.

The best ones dont need coffee!

[Violette]

Well its a nice idea QPH, but what you are describing is an affair

Remember most punters are married or in a relationship, so they dont want to be seen in public.

Generally the system works well, but if you read the reviews, its quite interesting how a guy can be made to feel "extra" special because he got an extra 10 - 30mins, even if its just talk.
And thats the thing, some escorts are just "born to do it" because they are people persons, who enjoy the company

When a beautiful sex woman fixes soley you within her gaze, you walk out feeling 10ft high.

The best ones dont need coffee!

Actually, it isn't an affair! And affair implies falling in love and all the associated crap that that can breathe. Ask any man who has had one, it is just trading in a old car for a new model, just to find out, it too will develop the same problems down the road, and he will be wanting a new upgrade, or it will cost him loads in repairs and maintenance. Cynical I know, but hey. It is a friendship based on having done things a bit backwards, meaning getting the sex out of the way first and then getting to realize there is a person there you like and can get on with. Hey come to think of it most relationships start this way as well, the difference here is you don't have to have a second date, or call the morning after! Kisses Violette

[bigpaws]

Actually, it isn't an affair! And affair implies falling in love and all the associated crap that that can breathe. Ask any man who has had one, it is just trading in a old car for a new model, just to find out, it too will develop the same problems down the road, and he will be wanting a new upgrade, or it will cost him loads in repairs and maintenance. Cynical I know, but hey. It is a friendship based on having done things a bit backwards, meaning getting the sex out of the way first and then getting to realize there is a person there you like and can get on with. Hey come to think of it most relationships start this way as well, the difference here is you don't have to have a second date, or call the morning after! Kisses Violette

The problem is Violette that if the relationship with an escort becomes anything more than just sex it can lead to one of the parties becoming emotionally attached unintentionally.
I'm not saying that a healthy balanced friendship between escort and client is not possible, it is but it can often go wrong .............. this is coming from somebody who does have escort friends and has never had any problems ............ but I also know it can go the other way quite easily.

Also (and this is more personal than I like to get usually on here) I have had in the past a year-long affair (I was single) with a married woman and it ended badly.
We started off on a purely sexual basis as it was apparent that we were compatible in that department, it then developed into a solid friendship as we both genuinely liked eachother as people ............ then she decided she wanted to leave her husband to be with me because she loved me. It killed me to have to tell her I wasn't in love with her also but I couldn't let her make a life changing decision to be with a man that did not love her.

That is an example of how a relationship based solely on sex (as with an escort/client) can lead to one person having their heart broken and another left with the guilt.

Paws

[experienced punter]

The problem is Violette that if the relationship with an escort becomes anything more than just sex it can lead to one of the parties becoming emotionally attached unintentionally.
I'm not saying that a healthy balanced friendship between escort and client is not possible, it is but it can often go wrong .............. this is coming from somebody who does have escort friends and has never had any problems ............ but I also know it can go the other way quite easily.

Also (and this is more personal than I like to get usually on here) I have had in the past a year-long affair (I was single) with a married woman and it ended badly.
We started off on a purely sexual basis as it was apparent that we were compatible in that department, it then developed into a solid friendship as we both genuinely liked eachother as people ............ then she decided she wanted to leave her husband to be with me because she loved me. It killed me to have to tell her I wasn't in love with her also but I couldn't let her make a life changing decision to be with a man that did not love her.

That is an example of how a relationship based solely on sex (as with an escort/client) can lead to one person having their heart broken and another left with the guilt.

Paws

a Very measured response Paws - I admire & commend you for your blatant honesty in this post & indeed many other posts. I have been encouraged albeit reluctantly (!) to tell my own experience. Yes I had an affair with an escort few years ago I felt we loved each other until after a few months later she told me she 'loved the sex & loved me as a person'
but was not 'in love with me'. I was heartbroken
How could I or any guy fall in love with an escort, how could u fall in love with a girl who has other sexual partners , well things happen life can be unpredictable! an Escort can live a very lonely life I Guess I was lonely too..
Better to have loved & lost than never to have loved at all

[liz]

The problem is Violette that if the relationship with an escort becomes anything more than just sex it can lead to one of the parties becoming emotionally attached unintentionally.. Paws

any wonder your life is a series of failed relationships mr paws! no woman could stick you for too long. ciao liz

[thehighwayman]

any wonder your life is a series of failed relationships mr paws! no woman could stick you for too long. ciao liz

Welcome to the board Lizzy

[liz]

Welcome to the board Lizzy

Have we met?

[bigpaws]

any wonder your life is a series of failed relationships mr paws! no woman could stick you for too long. ciao liz

Sorry you had to read that lads .............. Liz is one of my ex-girlfriends, I broke her little heart!!!

Paws

[punterminator]

Sorry you had to read that lads .............. Liz is one of my ex-girlfriends, I broke her little heart!!!

You little studmuffin you!

[liz]

Sorry you had to read that lads .............. Liz is one of my ex-girlfriends, I broke her little heart!!! Paws

yes indeed boys! when i met Pig Baws he was still living at home with his mummy who had dressed him as a girl for the 1st 12 years of his life. He,d never had a girlfriend before, which was unusual for a man of 41, but explained why he was always playing with himself. Yet he tried hard, i mean he left his own face in such a mess but eventually learnt to eat with a knife and fork. ciao liz