At what age did you begin............

[BJ99]

seeing escorts fellas?

It is just something I am curious about.

I started when I was 50! and too be honest, I feel I have missed out on all the fun people nowdays seem to have in their 20s and I guess that lately I've been trying to "catch up". Why did I wait so long to explore the world of sex?

Well, in my 20s I was shy ... dated girls but never had sex. Married a virgin (I think she was anyway) when I turned 30. I was faithful until that ended when I was 45. Met a woman the following year and had a relationship for a few months but that ended badly. That was the end of my sex life. I was 46 and had had 2 women! It never dawned on me to look towards escorts for female attention. Why?

When I was young there were street prostitutes in the city I grew up in and I learned that they were "low lifes" . Dirty sluts who had no respect for themselves....... Yeah I was after all brought up in a strong catholic household. Sex was never mentioned. I had to figure out the facts of life for myself. (I nearly know them now.... nearly)

I remember a girl who lived near me when I was a teenager. She was a few older than me and not very good looking. There was a sea port not too far away and it was widely known that prostitutes would hang around the docks to meet sailors. They would go on board the docked ships and do their business there. Most ships came from places like Africa and South America and if you saw a few black men walking around town on a Saturday you knew they were sailors "off the boats".

Anyway, I remember hearing that this girl I mentioned was pregnant. Any pregnancy was big news and a terrible trauma to the family involved. But when the girls baby daughter was born she was of mixed race. She appeared half African and the whole town knew that her mother had been "knocked up" by a sailor while working as a prostitute servicing black men on the ships that called to the port. It was a disgrace and everyone talked about her.

I wish to fuck I hadn't known about this girl as she was my introduction to the world of paid sex. I learned that paid for sex was seedy, dirty, dangerous and beneath a young man of middle class catholic upbringing which at the time I suppose it was.

I am sure many of you can relate to this story and may have heard similar tales.

When I became single in my 40s, it never dawned on me to seek out the services of an escort. My knowledge of the industry hadn't moved on apart from taking a stroll down the red light district of Amsterdam for a look. Literally a look with a boyish grin on my face thinking Oh my god that girl is a real prostitute! Apart from the girls in the windows in Amsterdam, I knew what a "call girl" was but that was about it really.

So after suffering alone for 5 years, I stumbled upon the EI site. I visited it for some months wondering if it was all a scam. Then I decided to do an experiment. I decided to invest €200 in this experiment in order to have my questions answered. Was this a scam? Would I get any service? etc. Would I actually meet the girl in the pictures?

I made a booking.... met the girl and the rest is history! That was 18 months ago. I remember not being about to locate my wallet after the appointment and thinking that the escort had stolen it. Then I found it on the floor of the car! I was ashamed that I thought the girl was a thief!

I was always a slow started in life and nothing has changed. Shyness is a curse! I wish I had carried out that experiment years ago! lol


Thats my story.. for anybody who wasn't so bored by it that they read all the way to the end.

So guys back to my original question, at what age did you start visiting escorts?

Thanks,

Rocker123

PS It took me 6 weeks to write this!!!! Hence no posts from me since June! Ha Ha

Jaysus! story hits me like a brick (though began about 30!) Truth is stranger than fiction as they say but it's what powers us
and keeps our lives connected through stories and all.

God! ...if I could only tell me Ma.....that I felt so connected and heartfelt towards their story/plight
(but of course I can't ......this is a den of devilment )

[Deven]

The dreaded FRIEND ZONE

Ha no all that I am in the 'friend zone' with were/are just that friends. I dont think its good to try and be friends if you really want more, just makes things messy and awkward.

[Volcano81]

This is one of the best threads I've seen on this site since I joined, bravo!!

Started punting just last year at the age of 31 and plan to keep doing so for many years to come...

[pleasurekerry]

Lol I was late when I started thirty nine

late fitzy? naaww...56 is late! hah...great post Rock....and welcome back!

[10inchesandcounting]

The first time was in my early 20's when single and a soldier.
I stopped once I got married,and started again after I got divorced nearly 20 years later!.

[Yamser]

very long story short , 28

[twentyeight]

Started punting a couple of weeks back (im 28 yrs old). Have a beautiful girlfriend but no sex. i'm glad i stumbled upon this site. Love u escort-ireland !!!

[john_calling]

WEll.. I came from an RTE FrontLine advertising campaign from RTE a couple of years back. Up to that 'expose' I had no idea EI existed. Then I logged on and was blown away. Took me about 6 month to actually work up the courage to go to one of the girls. She had me in the chatroom basically, as they all do.. I'm weak in the chatroom.. lol
EI should actually pay RTE / TV3 for the great free advertising they do.

[tipp oldie]

late fitzy? naaww...56 is late! hah...great post Rock....and welcome back!

Wish I'd started when I was only 56

[bumleg]

Great thread Rocker! Started punting in my early twenties and all i can say is thank god for this site because without it i think my sex life would be a barren wasteland!