Originally Posted by
Quarterpoundher
You have failed to see (or more accurately concede) that in Rorys question on how I would feel if mislead by an Escort, I stated clearly what I would do. If I was so blinkered and determined to see Escorts through rose tinted glasses then I would not have answered as I did now would I.
You make the frankly ludicrous statement that I am biased “BECAUSE” I can see things from a Woman’s perspective.
“SEEING” their perspective does not mean I automatically take their side, it means just that, I SEE their side, and if it has merit, I say so, just as I have seen merit in things that Men have said and also said so. That is there for all to see, and your attempt to label me a biased to one gender holds no water.
I would not call that biased, I would call that balanced, ALL of the difficulties here and in the world at large stem from people refusing to put themselves into the shoes of someone else completely and honestly and see how things look. Leave your own baggage at the door and just be them for a couple of minutes, it is why no one has ever managed to have an argument with me in life because I will always see a fair point and say so. I do that in adult life because I yearned for others to do that. What happens here time and time again and in life generally is that people circle the wagons on whatever topic and take up entrenched positions and refuse to open their minds to fresh thinking for fear of looking like they are backing down in conceding a point in whatever they were arguing about. Its harder to take a step towards each other then to ratchet up the agro, Human nature, why else do we settle things in war and conflict, either globally or personally.
I have been putting myself in other people’s shoes for years and am very good at it. I have done so here for both sides, most recently in answering Rorys question. I hold the strongest of views on equality and empowerment because I know how vital they are, they are literally life and death. That is the reason for my interest here, YOU KNOW THAT, punting is a distant and remote second, it is because this realm affects Women negatively in the main on a global scale that I hold such interest, nothing else. All that I voiced here is to the betterment of things for BOTH, as ultimately the rooting out of bad escorts is GOOD for the Women here, as is any mechanism that aided in them avoiding lowlifes. Its why I support your work, but also HAVE to point out the damage you do to yourself in being incapable of admitting a mistake, anything that damages you, damages things here, and you should put your stubbornness aside for the greater good, and the greater good is to foster an environment that is conducive to genuine Independent Escorts starting up and having a welcoming and non treating forum here is vital, you failed miserably to that end recently and should be man enough to admit it and give real credence to your stated goal of helping BOTH, until you show magnanimity you are as much a danger as you are an asset. I am referring to ALL Escorts that get tagged with greed, not one, what is greedy to one punter is not to another, it simply cannot be quantified into a certain price bracket, whereas a consensus on what a bad or a good Escort is much easier to arrive at. For the greater good, NO ONE should be labeled greedy on a dedicated thread it should be left to a reviewer to state that they felt the service was at odds with the rate, if that is stated on a lot someone’s reviews then people can draw their own conclusions quite easily without the demeaning and repulsive act of equating them to a mere commodity
And I never said I wish to watch the watchers, you say you watch each other, that’s fine up until one has more say then the rest, and no one challenges him for fear of incurring his wrath when he step’s out of line and massively exceeds there self appointed mandate as judge and jury.
If ye do watch each other then why was this not done by your peers and not an outsider, where are the checks and balance’s. I have done my best to highlight this danger, but few have the guts to stand up and be counted. I have only done so to try and help the bigger picture here, it pains me that it is Paws I have to do so to, we both share that view so why are we going toe to toe? I tell you why. Its because you are putting your own ego before what’s good for things here, until you reverse that your position, the influence via your threads you hold is a negative not the positive I thought it was. If you cannot or will not see
No one has……but I am.
YOU are the loose cannon here, not me, I’m not labeling people, YOU are, and you are damaging the bigger picture in the process by so doing.
Your attempt to stymie debate on this issue of all Escorts so labeled when you yourself started the ball rolling even with all your supposed knowledge by blaming me is beneath contempt. It is you who should have known better by virtue of your being the fountain of all punting knowledge and keeper of the gate of rate control, but you could still not stop yourself, that is another example of how your stubbornness and inability to censure yourself is a danger to others.
I have not mentioned matters raised in pm.on open forum, in any way shape or form.
Your assertion that I (and I alone) put someone in danger by only doing what everyone does here (Punter or not, it does not matter) and responded with their own view is ridiculous. “Me” and only me?, not perhaps you at all?……no, of course not, how could you possibly put a foot wrong on anything, the sky would fall first.
WELL WISE UP!!!!!!
YOU have just gone and done what I said I would not do, and YOU are supposed to be the one with all the info, SHAME!!! SHAME!!! SHAME!!!.
YOU ARE THE APITYAMY OF A LOOSE CANNON, LASHING OUT, INTENT ON PROTECTING YOURSELF AT THE COST OF OTHERS.
IF YOU ARE ANY SORT OF MAN….DO NOT TAKE ONE STEP FURTHER!!!
SHAME!!! SHAME!!! SHAME!!!…