everyone is bang on here , your safty should be your first concern , if you refuse to see a guy thats your choice , you already have two good reviews and im sure by your pics and them two reviews you will be getting more good reviews , most drunks that call you A . wont remember they called you. B.most likely arent member to leave a review C. if they are members they should know better not to call you when drunk , so dont worry about them