First impressions really do matter. Unless you are a young child, your silence in social situations is probably coming across to others in a negative way. Are you stuck up? Are you not quite intelligent enough to add something to the conversation? Of course not, but when you stand there silently while others are chatting away, there is a decent chance that other people might think those things about you. Humans have a need to be social. Stop fighting it. It’s biologically programmed into us. Open your mouth and chime in without over thinking things. Most of us arent extroverts by nature. Maybe you’re not really shy, but you’re perfectly happy to let others hold conversations while you stand by listening and thinking about what’s being said. The problem with that is, it sometimes looks like you are being aloof or disinterested. Little kids can get away with acting shy and being quiet, but adults have to learn how to play the social game if they want to have friends or develop important contacts that might come in handy down the line.
Well question is: Have you ever wondered why it’s important to pay attention in work?
Have you ever had a moment when you just didnt know what to say?
Did you ever do anything This awkward ?
I did one time in school, was some festivity and i had to say something in public and instead of saying : y would like to say hello to all teachers i said hello to all peaches!!upss it was embarasiing but funny also))