What are your rules....

[Cindy Forever]

i guess they are the jealous type..if they not review you..kinda think they keep u for themselves...warped thinking, yes, sometimes i think that way if i get too attached...

Maybe they are selfish lol
But no one need be jealous of me because the more busy i am,the more happy i am,And when I'm very happy I give much more attention to that visit me, then no one has reason to be jealous of me because I have love for all of you.lol

[Cindy Forever]

I find that very strange as I thought if guys wrote reviews they would write a review for every Escort they visited.

Maybe it could be that you are such a beautiful lady and exceptional good Escort they just cannot find words to fully describe their experience with you!

Yes it is very strange because some of them already written for girls with more reviews than me and surely they are excelent escorts i think by they reviews and by the customers who visited them.
I do not know what is their problem with me lol

[Cindy Forever]

Hi Cindy,
I'm sorry, it does seem strange that after two or more visits they still did not review.
Obviously they are happy to return again so why not just submit a review & show some appreciation.
J

I do not worry because they are excelent as customers and as person,that is the more important for me.
Only I wonder why?
If it were one or two I'd understand, but they are enough of my regulars that never wrote to me and wrote for others.
Surely they reading this threat and know I'm talking about them lol

[Cindy Forever]

Very Well put it Cindy....I sondar The saem myself...some guys keeping coming back,Sabino how beatifico You are and blá blá blá...but do not post a review but for x escort He write and repost...or do they think their review has no value to us...

Or that old say....oh You don't need me to post You a review,I don't have anything extra to say...Imagine id everyone thought like that,The top girls Wouldn't Had achieve The golpista for no reason....

Ps.I'm not complaning....just discurssing about...

As I already said ...
They write for escorts with more reviews than me and they still manage to write nice things about their meeting.
its strange but its the life lol

[Sexy Fernanda]

I don't write reviews.... but do you use them when choosing a "date". It does not always work out well but 99% of the time it has.

You use then "to choose a date" but don't write then to help another punters...
I mean You use The system but don't contribuate...

[Cindy Forever]

I'm sorry but I do not believe that escorts do not care about reviews because it is very nice to have your work recognized or criticized it as an escort or any other profession.
It is very good to know how much your customer was satisfied or dissatisfied
because with the criticism we learn and with compliments every time we try to do better and better...

Ops; this is just my opinion, I hope not to have offended anyone and if i offended anyone i apologize,because it was not my intention.

[Tiffani Jameson]

I'm sorry but I do not believe that escorts do not care about reviews because it is very nice to have your work recognized or criticized it as an escort or any other profession.
It is very good to know how much your customer was satisfied or dissatisfied
because with the criticism we learn and with compliments every time we try to do better and better...

Ops; this is just my opinion, I hope not to have offended anyone and if i offended anyone i apologize,because it was not my intention.

Cindy, I"ve been a part time Companion for going on eight years in August.

I have a career outside of being a companion, I turn down dates for my daughter's ballet or cheer practices, and recently, turned down dates when I was studying for finals. For me, the reviews that I have are very organic, since I didn't pressure anyone to make them.

Because of the environment in which I offer my companionship, it exacerbated their unimportance in my business. I remember when I started advertising on review forums, opening the door for 'professional hobbyists', I would see gents, and it seemed that every one of them were interested in promoting me for discounts, which I wanted no part of. Because of this, I attract men that don't have the 'boys in the locker room' mentality, and exhibit the amount of discretion they want from me. What happens in Vegas, and all that. They show me time and time again over the last few years they enjoy my company. If I had to choose between having them review me, and having them meet me just once, I will take their repeat, GENEROUS patronage every time.

It's all in the way you carry yourself. I have just enough reviews to let you know that I'm legitimate, and that I aim to please. I guess because my livelihood is not wrapped up in public opinion of my skills, and it has no effect on making new friends, or retaining my valued older ones, my views are different.

[Stephanie]

There was a gent on the boards, who was after me for the best part of my first year here , trying to get an appointment with me.

A prolific reviewer too.

Having read his reviews however, I felt we would not be compatible. I declined the booking. Every time.

It actually became a running joke : he can 'have me' virtually ie. flirt on the boards, but that's it.

Yes, Reviews are imortant xx

Yes reviews are important (helps us agree to or to Not accept a gentleman's request to visit) , but I do not understand

some girls' hang up on getting reviews. Or not getting reviews. Or why some people won't write reviews for them.

It is a sad day when one's self esteem and self worth is wrapped up in what other people thought of or wrote about them.

Especially in this business.

What does it matter why ? Our clients are not obligated to write them. Sure reviews are helpful, but calling people to task for

not writing them ? A bit rich.

Begging for reviews in PMs ? Like really ? How tasteless !

Our job as a provider is to show our visitor a good time, and preferably enjoy ourself in the process.

His obligation is to show up on time, with the correct amount and with a good attitude.

That's it. Simple.

If he liked the experience , he will return again and again. That's it.




I am lucky enough to have a wide client base, lovely men who have been returning to me for the last two years.

I have visitors who came to me in my first week on the job, still seeking my company. That is recognition

and reward in itself. I do not need every single visitor through my door to tell the world how wonderful I am.

I already am very secure in my own qualities ,

and having sufficient reviews to show a reliable ability and willingness to be a preferred companion is sufficient

recognition for my business.

I said this before (some time ago) : if a girl has two dozen positive reviews, then if she gets one just every so often,

just to show that she is current, in my opinion is sufficient to run a good and successful business.

Some men would be turned off by a girl with hundreds of reviews. I prefer select as opposed to prolific.

{for some time now I have been declining to be reviewed if it comes up}


Some men have come to me, because it was a 'trophy' to review 'Stephanie' . They came to me not because

I was right for them or that I was their type, but because now they have me on their list.

I SO wish people like that wouldn't.

I prefer the men who want me, who nice and quiet, without fuss select me and come back again and again and again to both our joy.

And neither of us has to shout our pleasure from the rooftops for all the world to hear. It's enough to tell each other

...I attract men that don't have the 'boys in the locker room' mentality, and exhibit the amount of discretion they want from me. What happens in Vegas, and all that. They show me time and time again over the last few years they enjoy my company. If I had to choose between having them review me, and having them meet me just once, I will take their repeat, GENEROUS patronage every time.

It's all in the way you carry yourself. I have just enough reviews to let you know that I'm legitimate, and that I aim to please. I guess because my livelihood is not wrapped up in public opinion of my skills, and it has no effect on making new friends, or retaining my valued older ones, my views are different.

Hear hear.

Right on xx

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All that said, the review system is meaningless if guys (those who review) do not review all their encounters :

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Consistently.

[Stephanie]

Argh.. I just went back, and tried to find an old post of mine..

Some time ago there was discussion about abolishing the Review System, or atleast modifying it so it would only

have a drop down menu.

On that thread I said I like my reviews, as they paint an accurate picture of what an encounter would be like with me,

and a simple drop down menu would not be detailed enough to be helpful to the guys in a meaningful way.

I think reviews are helpful for the guys in the selection process, and for the girls in establishing their reputation..

But it's not the Holy Grail of escorting !

While looking for that other post, I came across this :

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...210#post537210

Ciara, I think this happens to all of us..

When I started, one of my first meetings was a 1.5 hour appointment. Nice Gent. We had a great time.. As I was just starting out

at that time, I was hoping for a review.. Also I was shooting for the Escort-Of-the-Month award... Review never came.. Recently

same Gentleman came to me, a 1hr appointment turned into 2hrs.. Clearly fun was had by all.. Still no review, dispite him being

a fairly prolific reviewer.. One can only speculate as to his reasons.. Perhaps I do not match his usual fare, public persona.. ??

Though he enjoys, doesn't want to publicly aknowledge?? OR (for our own egos, girl!!) : He wants to keep us all to himself lol,

hence hopes not to add to our cred.. LOL

My advice, don't take it personally.. They/we all have our reasons for what we do or not do.. I no longer pay much mind to the

reviews.. If I get one, it's a lovely surprise, but now most of my time is spent with repeat visitors, so naturally I won't be getting

as many reviews. I have enough to establish who I am and what serices I provide.. Beyond that, an occassional review will

suffice..

And Girl !! I think your rep is SOLID GOLD, so don't worry about it

I posted that 2 years ago, just 2 months into my escorting career.


That an interesting thread in its entirety >> https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...write-a-review

[Stephanie]

The answer is to have reviewers visible only as numbers, but with their names visible to advertisers. That way the girls can check who we are with no ego aspect.

Hm. I don't know how helpful that would be to the guys xx

After being on the boards (or even just looking at profiles and reading reviews) for a while , you will find some reviewers'

taste very similar to your own, and you will likely visit the same escorts.

If there is no name associated with the reviewer, how would you know if that fella's taste is similar to your own ?

Some reviewers are held in higher esteem for their mostly objective, reliable reviews, whereas other blokes are

treated as joke.

You would be foolhardy to put same stock into their reviews, while going through your selection process.

In my very humble opinion.