For me it is my Integrity that would prevent me from ever messing around and be dishonest. It is
me I have to live with.
Just as you say, Rachel : a liar and a cheat is always found out.
If you aim for repeat visits, how on earth could you be dishonest ? Why would someone be so foolish as to be
dishonest ? For a quick buck ? Poor choice.
I firmly believe in 'like to like'.. if you are a nice and honest person, that is excatly who you are going to attract.
I am tickled pink with the people I am fortunate enough to meet !
If someone is dishonest and a chancer (boy or girl), that is who they will find, finding them.
I like peace and quiet and tranquility in my soul, and that naturally precludes any shenanigans on my part
And people sense that .
I'd rather take a chance of 'having an issue' with someone re miscounted notes
[happened recently; we were both SO apologetic !!
It turned out that I made a mistake =>> brand new 50s were so stuck together that even after several countings I was 50 short..
{2hr appointment}. We sorted it, no hurt feelings, no upset, noone's honesty brought to question... None of us are perfect, least of all me.] , than lowering myself to the status of a seller at a market stall, counting off notes.
In my opinion (at
my house) it is tasteless in this line of work, in this type of service, just as it would be tasteless
and offensive in the massage scene I described earlier. Tasteless for him to ask to , and tasteless for her to do.
But, this once again is an issue where : each to their own.
Whatever makes
you comfortable,
that is what is right for
you. If you are fearful of being cheated,
than by all means
counting notes in front of each other is the Only way to go xx