At a loose end.

[Stephanie]

Hello everyone, I just finished a 3 year relationship with an escort , and i,m at a loose end.
I think i may need to get a hobby, although i,m married , i devoted every waking moment to supporting this escort, and catering to her needs.
Anything she desired she got from me, but, sadly, now we are no more, and i find myself with time on my hands.
Any suggestions ?

I see you're in Dublin.. Need a new hobby ? Call me



{Just kidding !

I'm sure it's a difficult time, but you seem to be taking it calmly and well . All the best to you xx}

[AbsoluteNoob]

long story maya, i was feeling she was just using me.

Dude, that's EXACTLY what she was doing. It wasn't a real relationship, she saw you as an unhappily married man she could take advantage of. Happens every day and not just to clients/escorts, the fact you are unhappy in your marriage blinded you to that fact and she was laughing all the way to the bank.

Best move on AND never fall for such a stupid trap.

Tough love, brah.

[Stephanie]

Could be it.. not enough present, not enough caring maybe ??

Being with a married man ... I would say its a difficult situation to a women.. also being with an escort needs a really open minded personality.

In our business I think it makes no difference for us if our guy is married or not. The moral quandary is on him; we are service providers and it's not our responsibility if he's married or not.

As long as the boundaries are respected : he knows it's business and our relationship is based on that premise, I think it can be beautiful. As long as there is openness and honesty in the transaction, as long as neither party is being mislead, as long as no one is being taken advantage of with false promises etc. , it might be lasting and fulfilling for both.

So long as I am compensated for my time, it matters not how much I might care for him, it is business, and it does not hurt that he is going home to someone else. Why should it ?

In private life I cannot imagine being the other woman. It would be too painful. But in this business of ours, it's actually easier - he's less likely to get way too wrapped up in our passtime.

Most of my Long Term Repeat visitors (those I have longterm arrangements with) are married, and it is understood that for him it is his family, for me it is my business that comes first. There's no room for jealousy from either party.

Clear and lovely and pleasant and rewarding such relationships I find..


If any of my 'friends' for a single moment forgot where we stand, it would be a very quick end to our arrangement. As much as I'd hate to see him go, go he would have to. xx

[Tommy H]

In our business I think it makes no difference for us if our guy is married or not. The moral quandary is on him; we are service providers and it's not our responsibility if he's married or not.

As long as the boundaries are respected : he knows it's business and our relationship is based on that premise, I think it can be beautiful. As long as there is openness and honesty in the transaction, as long as neither party is being mislead, as long as no one is being taken advantage of with false promises etc. , it might be lasting and fulfilling for both.

So long as I am compensated for my time, it matters not how much I might care for him, it is business, and it does not hurt that he is going home to someone else. Why should it ?

In private life I cannot imagine being the other woman. It would be too painful. But in this business of ours, it's actually easier - he's less likely to get way too wrapped up in our passtime.

Most of my Long Term Repeat visitors (those I have longterm arrangements with) are married, and it is understood that for him it is his family, for me it is my business that comes first. There's no room for jealousy from either party.

Clear and lovely and pleasant and rewarding such relationships I find..


If any of my 'friends' for a single moment forgot where we stand, it would be a very quick end to our arrangement. As much as I'd hate to see him go, go he would have to. xx

One thing I like about your comments Stpehanie is your frankness and honesty and you are completely correct in what you say.

[Stephanie]

One thing I like about your comments Stpehanie is your frankness and honesty and you are completely correct in what you say.

Thank you Tommy

Says it the way I sees it xx

[Fitzy]

I see you're in Dublin.. Need a new hobby ? Call me



{Just kidding !

I'm sure it's a difficult time, but you seem to be taking it calmly and well . All the best to you xx}

Omg Steph your of all people

[Stephanie]

Omg Steph your of all people

I know !!

Tryna be funny by being outta character lol xx

[NoBrain2]

so when you were seeing other escorts at the time, did you feel like you were cheating on both your wife and this other escort?

[n73]

Hello everyone, I just finished a 3 year relationship with an escort , and i,m at a loose end.
I think i may need to get a hobby, although i,m married , i devoted every waking moment to supporting this escort, and catering to her needs.
Anything she desired she got from me, but, sadly, now we are no more, and i find myself with time on my hands.
Any suggestions ?

Yeah, cop on and go back and see her as a punter

[Davidgolf]

Actually, no brain , yes I did , weird eh !