The dreaded "wait five minutes" - a question

[LBloom]

I really hope that you still have some escorts who would gladly see you with that attitude of yours..

Wish you the best.

Hi Maya,

Could you tell me what you mean when you said that you hope that I "still have some escorts who would gladly see you with that attitude of yours"?

Also, could you have a go at answering the question that I asked you?

I also wish you the very best.

LBLoom

[LBloom]

I can understand that when you are waiting around you can feel self conscious ( hope I spelt that correctly ). That everybody is looking at you and thinking what is he doing standing there. One way to counteract this is to go for a walk around the immediate vicinity. You are not feeling as cold and you are not standing in the same position. I usually do this when I have to wait, in fact on one of my appointments I walked around the vicinity 3 times in a row.

As has been said before there are many reasons why the lady may be late or delayed. Not every day is going to work out as planned. This goes for both the ladies and the clients. There maybe unforeseen events that turn up that disrupt the schedule of the person. If the lady is delayed or late they keep the delay to the minimum in my experience.

Hi D Man,

You probably will not be surprised to hear that I do not agree with you. One time when I turned up for meeting late, I offered an excuse and my old boss said to me "If it was important to you, you would be here on time". I think he was right. I find that that, most times, all it takes is a bit of organisation and, of course, that you think it is important. Of course, sometimes shit happens. I was really struck by what Sandy said: "the few times I've run late, I've texted the guy telling them to give me 10mins". This, of course, is the right thing to do - Sandra is respecting the person she is going to meet.

My problem when you say "Not every day is going to work out as planned" is that it lets the time-wasters of the hook. I find it is usually the same people who do this on a consistent basis. Going back to my original posting, I asked the question because I have found this time-wasting to be on the increase among escorts and I was wondering why this was happening. I think Sandy may be right when she says it is a sign of the recession. (I also agree with her that doctors and dentists are terrible with their time-keeping. They seem to think that they have a God-given right to keep you waiting for as long as they want! I do not find this with other professions. However, a (dis)honourable mention should be given to plumbers but then our dear plumbers are legendary in their inability to adhere to any sort of time-keeping)

All the best

LBloom

[saoirsemac]

Hi D Man,

You probably will not be surprised to hear that I do not agree with you. One time when I turned up for meeting late, I offered an excuse and my old boss said to me "If it was important to you, you would be here on time". I think he was right. I find that that, most times, all it takes is a bit of organisation and, of course, that you think it is important. Of course, sometimes shit happens. I was really struck by what Sandy said: "the few times I've run late, I've texted the guy telling them to give me 10mins". This, of course, is the right thing to do - Sandra is respecting the person she is going to meet.

My problem when you say "Not every day is going to work out as planned" is that it lets the time-wasters of the hook. I find it is usually the same people who do this on a consistent basis. Going back to my original posting, I asked the question because I have found this time-wasting to be on the increase among escorts and I was wondering why this was happening. I think Sandy may be right when she says it is a sign of the recession. (I also agree with her that doctors and dentists are terrible with their time-keeping. They seem to think that they have a God-given right to keep you waiting for as long as they want! I do not find this with other professions. However, a (dis)honourable mention should be given to plumbers but then our dear plumbers are legendary in their inability to adhere to any sort of time-keeping)

All the best

LBloom

well each girl here spoke of her own standard, u run late u tell a person, happens on both sides, i wish more clients cud let me know, if u say 5 minutes it shud be 5minuts, our point has been, if ur asked why turn ur heel and leg it, coz its a customer serivce job, delays happen,

and wanting an excuse, well look it, for ur time im turning into ur girlfriend telling u i was 5minutes late as my last client was late and then had issue holding an erection and it took a bit to make him cum and then over stayed, kinda kills the romance

id rather say im just running behind x amount time, and tell the clients as soon as i can that i am, nd of course be apoligees for the delay etc,

but of course not all will do this, ur trying to keep everyone as happy as u can, i want my day running like clockwork, but sometimes sadly it wont, but whats important is i tell the person whats happening and when i can meet

ive never gone to a doctor appointment or dentist where im called for 2,30 and im actual sitting in the chair at 2,30

at least unlike the doctor i will apoligees for my deley and i suppose sub conciously u will try alot harder to keep ur client happy

as i said its not about my time or urs been important, both time are important and both parties have delays

[gaze]

Sometimes they are having a shower and dont hear the phone. Thats really annoying. I try to do all my phoning from the car. The worst experience I ever had was findin the place. She kept telling me that I was walking in the right direction etc and the door was here etc...When I pressed the wrong bell. and someone opened the door of a private appartment, that was the last straw....I told her to forget it, but she kept going on and I just cleared off