Fall in love with your Escort.

[Brenda Beauty Babe]

What do you do when you fall in love with your Escort (please don't say marry her).
Not necessarily in a sexual way, but for her charissma and charm.
Any advice out there.

And what can I do if I fall in love with my punter, hm?...........

Anyway,
I think that if she really likes u same like u like her,
it isn't any problem be together...Why not..
It's very easy to fall in love with somebody who seems to be so perfect for u and u feel with the person so nice and contentedly...

Important is talk to her!
So don't miss ur chance, maybe it can be big love, u never can know that......

[sexy naomi]

You get your best friend to slap you, until you wake up!

Yes a lot of escorts are charming, because they are good at their jobs.
The best escorts will make you feel like you are Brad Pitt's, better looking and funnier brother

But it is just a fantasy, and never going to work.
How would you deal with jealousy, explaining how you met, to dear old mum etc etc

Its quite common for blokes to think an escort is just waiting for some prince charming to take them away from the day job and "rescue them".

But ... hello...newsflash, a lot of girls dont want rescuing and enjoy their job - shocking I know

Have great sex with an escort, but look for love elsewhere

I don't want to bring a "client" home to my parents never!!! but I have done it before.
It didn't work so I have learn my lesson. Never again. It a must not to do it!!! It wont work

[BruceAlmighty]

Interesting how some escorts turn it around and talk about falling in love with clients. As a woman with better legs than I asked, "What's love got to do with it?"

[piggi]

This can happen all too easily.

I suspect that most regular punters have experienced what they percieve as a "deep connection" with an escort. As earlier posters have commented this is a reflection of how good the girl is at her job -- it is unlikely to be more than this.

In the highly unlikely event that the girl has developed feelings for you, she will make this obvious by suggesting that you spend time with her which you have not paid for. Simple.

This, in fact, has happened to me - i.e. an escort I really liked arranged to meet outside of the work context. I found myself panicking in case we met someone I knew and had to introduce her, along with an explanation as to how I knew her. Stupid really, but I felt very uncomfortable -- looking back I wish that I had handled it better, she was very sweet and drop-dead gorgeous.

I think the escort/client relationship is one which pretty much guarantees intimacy but pretty much precludes much else (for most people anyway).

[Epsilon]

What do you do when you fall in love with your Escort (please don't say marry her).
Not necessarily in a sexual way, but for her charissma and charm.
Any advice out there.

the best thing you can do is go out and meet another escort and very suddenly you will realise what your real feelings are. if after meeting another escort you feel the same then you have a problem.
good luck, and i hope it works out for you.

[dreamon]

And what can I do if I fall in love with my punter, hm?...........

Anyway,
I think that if she really likes u same like u like her,
it isn't any problem be together...Why not..
It's very easy to fall in love with somebody who seems to be so perfect for u and u feel with the person so nice and contentedly...

Important is talk to her!
So don't miss ur chance, maybe it can be big love, u never can know that......

Unfortunately there are major problems with being together. The "where did we meet " issue is easily resolved. You arrange to both be in a bar/restaurant at the same time and begin to chat to each other. As far as the world is concerned you will have no history prior to this. The reality is that you do have a history and one that needs serious professional counselling if you are to suceed in a life together. The issues are obvious and easy to ignore when you enjoy being together but they will come back to haunt you if you do not deal with them.

[dreamon]

I don't want to bring a "client" home to my parents never!!! but I have done it before.
It didn't work so I have learn my lesson. Never again. It a must not to do it!!! It wont work

Until the next time

[experienced punter]

my perception from escorts leads me to think that a lot of Escorts are lonely themselves some even told me, lots never seem to have boyfriends How could we? some told me, this thing about an escort falling in love with a client & visa versa is entirely unrealistic its looking for love in the wrong place forget about it
How could a man fall in love with a woman who has multiple sexual partners & visa versa?..

[Violette]

I have been on the end of both these scenarios. Clients falling for me, and having fallen for a client and making the worst mistake of my life and marrying him! What a disaster that was! Dear god the issues that arose, were phenomenal!

How I now handle the situation, is if the gentlemen in question is falling for me, and isn't becoming a nuisance. I let it run its course. If I start to fall for him, I will stop seeing him!

As to marrying a former client, each person is different, but what I advise both parties need to know where they stand. For the lady, you can be left at the end when the blush wears off, thinking i gave up my 'good paying' job for this! And the man, can be left realizing that yes, you do get your period, and have bad hair days, and sometimes will say no to sex! You aren't marrying Daddy Warbucks, and he isn't marrying a Porn Star!
Kisses V

[Smarty]

Throw your DVD of Pretty Woman out cause it just doesn't happen.

There was a case in the newspaper a few years ago where a guy from an Post went to the same working girl a lot because he thought she was in love with him as he was with her.
I think he was up for stalking her or similar.

End result the guy lost his life savings and got his name in the press.

Even by the stories posted by some escorts it all ends in misery.