Should I?

[justfrank44]

That reminds me of the time a client asked me to choose a shirt for him and on inquiring what occasion it would be worn for, he said it was his wedding!!! I hope I picked the right one.

Only you know yourself well enough to answer that question. Have you got the will power to leave it as one last wonderful memory, or will you crave for more? I've had quite a few tell me that I was their last ever booking and they were retiring, but by the end of the booking it has changed to, 'Well, maybe I'll just see you and no one else'.

Those rose tinted glasses can make everything look so different.

Hmmm, sounds like it might be worth giving you a go, will have to check my diary to see when I can fit in you, sorry, fit you in
Just have to remember to have a feed of guinness to get the right atmosphere

[The D Man]

The issue here is will one last appointment be sufficient for you and then you leave it at that
Will you have the will power and strength to keep that way
Only you can answer those questions

[Dublad77]

Trust me you'll be back

probably with a vengance after a year or two

[bluefan1]

I get married next month and intend to leave this scene behind. My question is:

Should I make one last coining to 'get it out of my system'?

My ideal escort is a beautiful mature lady and I fear I will forever fantasise if I dont give it one last shot
It's one thing making the odd transgression before marriage, quite another after so I intend to go into lockdown outside my own four walls pretty soon.

What should I do? Book an hour with a fabulous mature lady and be damned, or put it away for once and for all?

Cheers

CapnHorn

Any bookies amongst us ? We need a book on 'Will He / Won't he - ill have a fiver on you going at least one more time.....

[CaptainHorn]

Cheers for all the responses.

There's the rub - get out there one last time and I'll drive myself nuts with the memory. Bear in mind that I've not exactly visited loads of ladies, just a couple, and the fantasy is strong.

I've already proved to myself that I can live with the guilt of this wee habit, but I have a gut feeling that I wouldn't be able to if I was a married man.

Still torn I gotta say, and when Curvaceous Katie offers me some advice, it really only fuels my vice!

Few weeks left to ponder anyway...

[dob]

Give it up, cold turkey, like pulling off a band aid, if you intend being faithful to your future wife, start now.

[CaptainHorn]

Thanks man. You talk sense. It's not like I have been to date, but marriage has gotta be different, ya know?

[Sexy Sandy 69]

Sorry to the pessimist but the vast majority of my clients are married, therefore I doubt that your last punt will be your very last punt. So if you're expecting to get married & live a life of happily, married bliss without a single temptation to return to the world of punting, the odds are very highly stacked up against you.

Sandy x

[JAMESCORK]

....... Always a punter.

[bluefan1]

Sorry to the pessimist but the vast majority of my clients are married, therefore I doubt that your last punt will be your very last punt. So if you're expecting to get married & live a life of happily, married bliss without a single temptation to return to the world of punting, the odds are very highly stacked up against you.

Sandy x

That maybe overly pessimistic. The majority of married couples remain faithful to their vows. I would prefer to offer hope that he can and will remain loyal to his new partner - if he so wishes. I hope he goes into the marriage with the best of intentions at least. I agree that because he's experienced this lifestyle it will be harder to resist.