ex escort ....

[warmcome]

telling your partner might depend on the chances of this fact being discovered.
difficult to sit on something like that. could be a better relationship with the truth
from the start.

[Baxter]

don't have to tell nobody about your past ...but maybe find someone who already know about the past ...:P

Well if he knows about your past then he has a decision to take. Maybe live with him for some time in order to see how he copes with it. Never allow him to say anything negative about it. In fact, I would never allow any discussion on it at all. He must know that he will live with this rule if he wants you.

[Baxter]

telling your partner might depend on the chances of this fact being discovered.
difficult to sit on something like that. could be a better relationship with the truth
from the start.

Honestly, if I was an escort in this situation unless I calculated that there was a very good chance that my escorting past would be discovered, I would say nothing. Just my opinion.

[fundave]

for me is like this ...if somebody wants me ...gonna need to accept and my past ...i'm not shame about it ....

Your right it is nothing to be ashamed its just a different lifestyle. If right person truly is the right person then there is nothing to worry about.. I don't think this kind of a life would worry too many guys I know it wouldn't affect my choice to be with someone

[Baxter]

for me is like this ...if somebody wants me ...gonna need to accept and my past ...i'm not shame about it ....

Say you escorted for 3 years, then stopped and got an ordinary job for 3 years and then met a man you think you might like to marry or have a personal relationship with him. If he would never discover your past escorting, do you think you would want to tell him anyway for the sake of honesty ?

[Baxter]

Your right it is nothing to be ashamed its just a different lifestyle. If right person truly is the right person then there is nothing to worry about.. I don't think this kind of a life would worry too many guys I know it wouldn't affect my choice to be with someone

Doctors differ , patients die.

All relationships go thru' difficult times, where both sides say and think things that they would not otherwise do.Why arm your man with this weapon unless you had to do it in the first place.

[warmcome]

i can see Irene meeting someone who adores her for who she is.
(either her or Maya Brunette)

[fundave]

Doctors differ , patients die.

All relationships go thru' difficult times, where both sides say and think things that they would not otherwise do.Why arm your man with this weapon unless you had to do it in the first place.

I know what your saying. But honesty is huge to me in a relationship. Plus keeping a secret from someone will burn away at you for a long long time. I am one of these people that believes honesty will build a stronger relationship and it all just depends are you able to live your life knowing your not fully honest with the person you are spending your life with.

[Baxter]

i can see Irene meeting someone who adores her for who she is.
(either her or Maya Brunette)

I must be missing something here !!

[BrunetteIrene]

i can see Irene meeting someone who adores her for who she is.
(either her or Maya Brunette)

why so ???????/