Business request ..

[nikole_vb3]

hmmm what pm ? are u a stalker cos i am an angel

Friend request sent
I will only expect a reply to the non lecherous/perverted PM,s i send you (Limited to one a month for fear of being pidgeon holed as a "stalker")
Consider this post a flirt...but your reply may be considered a tout

[trugent]

A different perspective.... I put up a client request a while back specifically requesting escorts to pm me. Not a single pm back! 400+ views, but I suspect 95% of these were punters idly checking out my (rather dull) sexual preferences.
I have no problem with receiving pm's.... as long as ladies don't get upset if replies aren't guaranteed.

[Rachel Divine]

What about something build in the clients profile, the same type of settings currently in General Settings, where everybody can select if they are up to receive promotional mails from escorts?



And further more, something on each client profile that can tell anybody at the first glance if they accept or not such PMs?



I know it may be some work involved but it will solve the problem forever for both parties.

Brilliant Amy x

What you think guys?

[Rachel Divine]

A different perspective.... I put up a client request a while back specifically requesting escorts to pm me. Not a single pm back! 400+ views, but I suspect 95% of these were punters idly checking out my (rather dull) sexual preferences.
I have no problem with receiving pm's.... as long as ladies don't get upset if replies aren't guaranteed.

Not all of us check that section, I dont anyway. Sorry x

[nikole_vb3]

great idea

What about something build in the clients profile, the same type of settings currently in General Settings, where everybody can select if they are up to receive promotional mails from escorts?



And further more, something on each client profile that can tell anybody at the first glance if they accept or not such PMs?



I know it may be some work involved but it will solve the problem forever for both parties.

[bluefan1]

What about something build in the clients profile, the same type of settings currently in General Settings, where everybody can select if they are up to receive promotional mails from escorts?



And further more, something on each client profile that can tell anybody at the first glance if they accept or not such PMs?



I know it may be some work involved but it will solve the problem forever for both parties.

This seems to be a workable solution and provides members with options to opt-in or out. Very clever Amy - if that doesn't sound patronising!

[Amy Alison]

My idea might be clever.
However it involves quite a lot of work, so I am not sure if E-I would see it feasible.

[Mississippi]

What about something build in the clients profile, the same type of settings currently in General Settings, where everybody can select if they are up to receive promotional mails from escorts?



And further more, something on each client profile that can tell anybody at the first glance if they accept or not such PMs?



I know it may be some work involved but it will solve the problem forever for both parties.

For me this seems like a good idea as I have no problem with being contacted. Most of my bookings are done initially by email and I see this as no different. We all get texts from touring girls that we have seen to say they are back in town but its no guarantee of a booking. If its not for me I just reply with polite no not this time.

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

I have never used any PM system on any forum to tout for business. I take the view that if someone likes what they see, they know what I do, they'll get in touch. I reply to pms when the first move is made by a male forum member, same as I would reply to a pm from a fellow escort. I've had people pm me with no intention of booking me. I had someone the other day pm me to say he wouldn't be booking me because he didn't think he could meet my Anal stud expectations. Now I wonder if I was supposed to have written back a convincing reply to make him change his mind.

And I'd never pm someone to invite them back to see me. Not because I don't want to see them again, but because I believe that since they chose to book me in the first place without me chasing after them, they can easily decide on their own to see me again.

I'm unique and don't expect to appeal to the average joe. PM'ing someone in order to be booked would be pretty lame on my part and a waste of time. I get most of my booking enquiries by phone, which I have often found odd. But wouldn't know the first steps to take to re-dress this. Nor whether it should be addressed.

If I were a guy and a lady sent me a pm to initiate a booking, I'd find that kind of desperation a turn-off. But then, what do I know about being a guy. Maybe that kind of attention and feeling of being desired (even though it is only for the money) is a turn-on.

Thank goodness I'm a lady ... of sorts!

xxx

Pru

Or you tell me why an escort doesn't invite a client back for a second or third visit etc... The money is the same, no matter who the escort sees or for how long...

Will I elaborate...

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

I see many client requests where I would fit the bill. But I think the guys need to be more specific not just about what they want, but their ideal lady. I'm black. I'm full figured. I'm mature ... sometimes more than twice the age of some of the guys here. The odds of me being physically attractive to someone who has not specified that neither age. race nor size matter are too low for me to risk a no-thank you. Maybe other ladies think the same way and can't be bothered responding to a vague request. I suppose some guys must love the buzz of lots of ladies who haven't a hope in hell of being booked, vying for his attentions so he can turn her down. How often does a guy get to do that in real life???

xxx

Pru

A different perspective.... I put up a client request a while back specifically requesting escorts to pm me. Not a single pm back! 400+ views, but I suspect 95% of these were punters idly checking out my (rather dull) sexual preferences.
I have no problem with receiving pm's.... as long as ladies don't get upset if replies aren't guaranteed.