Business request ..

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

I reply to most, if not all, whether he wants to book me or not.

I wouldn't respond to someone trying to get a freebie. Nor to someone seeking something I don't offer. On the whole, the pm's I've received have been well behaved, well intentioned pms.

PMs I will ignore are the ones that are the equivalent of unnecessarily graphic phone calls where I get a sense there's little intelligence behind the approach. Just wistful thinking about a desire to spin on the business end of my strap-on, or be turned into my bitch. Perhaps I expect too much to assume that every guy that books me would have a brain between his ears so I instantly blank the obviously brain-dead.

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Pru

While I'm here... Can I quickly ask what you girls think about being contacted by PM... now I'm not talking about the "are you available.." type PM's, I mean if a guy tries to strike up some sorta conversation (perhaps a prelude to a request, perhaps not)... Do you answer, ignore, politely discourage or engage??... I mean, given, for the most part, we're not all stalkers or 'animals' ( a la LLS )...

... Maybe I'm not making sense

[boyjohn129]

In fairness I don't see why any client would have any issue about touting. People sign up to groupon deals etc... everyday of the week and are quite happy to get emails about products they have absolutely no interest in the majority of time. At least here the lady is offer a specific service and generally speaking the client is looking for that specific service! If the lady is offering a deal or trying to promote themselves why would anyone have a problem with that?!

[zoozoozoo]

My idea might be clever.
However it involves quite a lot of work, so I am not sure if E-I would see it feasible.

A great idea which I m sure could be made to work ,other option is to add something in the "about me " page , just an extra line ," I accept unsolicited PMs from Escorts"

[trugent]

I see many client requests where I would fit the bill. But I think the guys need to be more specific not just about what they want, but their ideal lady. I'm black. I'm full figured. I'm mature ... sometimes more than twice the age of some of the guys here. The odds of me being physically attractive to someone who has not specified that neither age. race nor size matter are too low for me to risk a no-thank you. Maybe other ladies think the same way and can't be bothered responding to a vague request. I suppose some guys must love the buzz of lots of ladies who haven't a hope in hell of being booked, vying for his attentions so he can turn her down. How often does a guy get to do that in real life???

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Pru

My request was pretty specific - date,time, area and service requested. But I can see the point that ladies do not want to go trawling through posts and writing pm's just on the off chance of a booking.

Maybe the client request section is best left for the punters to share their more specific requirements and narrow down which ladies are likely to satisfy them.... posts such as "I am looking for a lady who will pleasure me with a pineapple whilst singing "umbrella" by Rihanna - in tune" - these seem to get a flurry of helpful comments from fellow punters.

[Davidgolf]

Certainly in my case there is little or no touting by pm. I have no problem with it. With all the negative talk about escorts hating the work and despising their clients, its sort of nice to know if a lady lets you know that she would be happy to take a booking from you or at least says hello.

There may be millions of reasons why I cannot or will not book her. It may be no reflection at all as to whether I fancy her or not. In fact I fancy practically all of them anyway !!

i agree with Baxter on this point, i would have no issues with pm.s or touting, you can tout me as much as you want, if i have no money for punting theres not a lot i can do about it.

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

Those specifics you provided are good. I wouldn't hesitate to pm if I thought I might appeal to the poster. But a lady also needs to know whether the guy won't take one look at her profile and shudder. It isn't rocket science. We see it in the casual sections of sites like Craigslist all the time. Guys state what kind of lady they are or are not interested in meeting.

Unless it's an ego thing to solicit lots of responses and have the luxury of declining, I can't see why a guy puts up a blanket search post and isn't specific. Most guys have a specific sexual preference and the lottery system of hoping you tick a seeker's boxes isn't appealing. Next time you're seeking, you may find you improve your chances by at least stating what kind of lady is NOT your preference. That's better than trying to include all the ladies you may find attractive for fear of missing something out.

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Pru

My request was pretty specific - date,time, area and service requested. But I can see the point that ladies do not want to go trawling through posts and writing pm's just on the off chance of a booking.

Maybe the client request section is best left for the punters to share their more specific requirements and narrow down which ladies are likely to satisfy them.... posts such as "I am looking for a lady who will pleasure me with a pineapple whilst singing "umbrella" by Rihanna - in tune" - these seem to get a flurry of helpful comments from fellow punters.

[Larrii]

We all know there is a rule regarding touting/asking for business by pm from the escorts. Also, we know that some do , others do not. When we last talk about it , seemed ye guys are not bothered to get such pms.

No problem, and it could be useful if a girl is on tour and wants to let a past client know she is back in his area.

[Davybrowneyes]

Don't see a problem with gettin a pm from an escort telling me she's coming to or in town . It's a hard game and dog eat dog so I have to respect an escort who goes that extra mile. And yes it is nice to think she would remember you or consider you by sending a pm. It's does grab my attention and usually does eventually end up with an appointment

[petebriquette]

Surely an easy way to deal with this is to allow each client to indicate on their profile whether they are willing/unwilling to accept PM's from escorts. for the record I see no problem with an escort sending me a PM.

[out4laugh]

I can't understand why this such a big deal 'Touting' FFS it is a business deal at the end of the day more touting and more PM messaging in my opinion will make for better value punts ???
Nobody is going to meet their soulmate on this forum it's all about getting your end off and that's the fact so tout away!!